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It's not just the younger ones.

I think once you have a relationship, that can be fine. But sight unseen, before meeting, its just cloying to me.

Yeah, the 'daddy' thing always seemed weird to me with a girl or guy it just smells like incest to me. 🤢

Just curious how everyone feels about what they like and don't like in communication with their provider or client. I reached out to a guy I hope to meet ina couple of weeks and he started calling me stuff like "sexy boy" and kiss and heart emojis. I am 60 and pretty average. It just screams phony to me, and turns me off, so I asked him to stop. Is this part of the fantasy for some guys? I know most providers are acting, but that's too much, at least for me. I want a real-feeling connection, not smoke up my ass. What sort of things do you guys like and not like in communication?

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It seems to me we're talking out both sides of our mouth here. First we say people are too hung up about nudity and it should be no big deal to be naked or shirtless. It's just a natual body. Then we turn around and say just being naked is a sexual environment. So do you blame someone who doesn't want to be looked at sexually for not changing in public?

I used to be able to hear audio when the rentmen providers posted videos introducing themselves. For some reason I no longer have volume and don't see any setting for it. Anyone else have this problem on android or know how to solve? Thanks

I do not have the other requisite qualities to be successful. It's not an easy job, making believe you're excited to be with old, hairy, stocky guys like me! 😀

When I get a commitment from a provider and have selected a time and date, I will gladly set up a call or send a pic. If I want a stress-free experience, I will make it as stress free as possible for them as well.

If body hair were currency, I'd be a billionairre I wish it were in such demand.

Maybe I'm not typical, but there are so few providors who are exactly what Im comfortable hiring, and I usually look when I'm on a work trip. So I will generally reach out a couple of weeks before my trip to just one guy. If he replies in a couple of days, thats fine, as I gave plenty of notice. I ask them to read my profile and if we seem like a good match, to reply. Sometimes I get no reply. Sometimes they tell me they don't travel that far. Sometimes they quote a price I wouldn't pay. I generally try to have a quick call before meeting for both our sakes. I'd rather have no experience than a stressful one.

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Maybe I'm unusual, but the face is second only to a lean, smooth body. I don't need a cock or ass shot. I can tell more from a smile or lack thereof as well. By all means discreet providers can elect not to show their face in advance, but it isn't something I would ever hire.

Late to this party, but definitely got a strong attachment to my escort. I think having him for the weekend and sleeping in the same bed makes it stronger as well. This is the danger of a BFE. He's paid to act as if he loves you. And if he does it well, why wouldn't you love him back? He's sexy, there to please you, and gives you full attention. So if you have some good conversations, it's easy to convince yourself there is more there. But I'm not stupid. I've paid for this performance. And I'm glad he's on the other side of the country or I could see myself spending way too much money on this fantasy. What concerns me though is that he's much younger, and in addition to wanting him in my life romantically, I feel protective and paternal toward him, which feels creepy to me.

Um..no. Not at all the same. But nice try. The apt comparison is getting a security deposit from everyone for damage, because guys who have come in before trashed the place, and until you can prove something you can't, Ill take one from you as well. And assuming everyone who comes in will trash the place until they prove otherwise is a perfect example of contempt.

Im personally offended because you flat-out said I've been lumped with a disgusting group until I prove otherwise. That you assume that of EVERYONE is contempt. If people can't follow your instructions, you dont owe them a response, its up to you. And keeping you waiting in a lobby is also unacceptable. Personally, I think a phone call is more for the comfort of the provider than for me. I have seen your pictures and read reviews. And if somone has been reviewed here as well, we know even more about you. If you think that when I have a normal conversation getting comfortable with each other, Im looking at your pictures masturbating, we are definitely not a good match. But don't fool yourself. Your assumptions are disrespectful and prejudiced.

I realize you don't care, but this assumption is offensive. I have no interest in getting off via conversations in text or on the phone. My interactions are a means to an in-person end...with the right providor. You've made this accusation before, and your contempt for your clients is evident. I can see why you insist on a deposit in advance.

As a client, 100% the reply matters. When I reach out, I state what I'm looking for, ask them to read my profile and let me know if they think I would be a good client for them. If I get a response like your #2, that is not the provider for me

I had provider i had agreed on a time to meet while i was on a business trip stop commucating a couple of days before and then didn't show. We had spoken on the phone and I was convinced he was genuine. He reached out and apologized that he had a family issue and forgot to let me know. Tried again and he missed his flight, but he didnt ask for a deposit, so i let it go. Figured it wouldn't cost me anything if he wanted to meet me on the next trip, and he truly felt bad about missing our earlier appointments, but I was still a little shocked when he came off the plane as promised. He was as advertised and my instincts were right from when I spoke to him on the phone. Turned into a great work trip and I hope to see him again if possible.

If an escort changes the rules after we've agreed on something, I'm done. And if a client changes the rules after they've agreed on something, I hope the provider is done as well. Driving distance is irrelevant.

Providers are human. I'm sure there was a level of disappointment and embarrassment on his part as well. Treat them like anyone else you would have had to your house. Respectfully, and let him leave with dignity, not "paying him to leave." While I've not had this experience, if that was what you hired him for, i cant imagine would have charged you and just written this one off, and then reevaluated if this was the right line of work for him.

Talk about great assumptions! (notice the sarcasm)

Well thats often a good result. Often you get an autoreply linking to taking the whole conversation offline or to their peronal website, not having read the message at all.

Well, like I said, I'm not leaving a deposit. There are as many flaky providers as clients. That's why it would be nice if word of mouth worked both ways. I'm also happy to have a call with the provider to ensure their comfort level, but I'm not paying for anything in advance.

The reason I ask is tied to paying cash. I will only pay cash, and I know others are the same. Im also not paying a deposit as I'm afraid of getting scammed. So if providers could see that a client is legit, pays cash it would help us both.