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This definitely looks like a different guy.

I don't really care about how they tick a box. As long as they are willing do do what I want and act like they're into it, why should I care. I'm sure most gay guys are going through the motions for the $ anyway. It's a show, and if they're good actors, its OK by me.

You are not alone. I always make sure there are some refreshments available, and ask what they like in addition to telling them what I want in bed. I do want them to enjoy themselves as much as possible, even if they are the provider. It might make it easier to act like their into it when they aren't ;). I also sent a provider some information about attractions and restaurants in a town we were visiting so he could give some input and maybe look forward to something he wanted to do. I think its just part of being human to be kind to people you are spending time with, even if they are being paid to be nice to you.

Back hoes seems like an unfortunate name choice

I understand your dilemma, but the market can only bear so much. Inflation may have made a hotel room expensive, but that doesn't magically make $300 for an hour affordable for many of us. Especially as many of us hiring are older without an unlimited budget or who can just get another job to fund the hobby. Maybe a solution would be 2 hour sessions to cover the room and make it more of a value. I know I'd rather splurge for 1200 for an overnight than spend 300 for one hour. Or stick to outcalls where the guest provides the room. All solutions suck, I'm sure, but you can't get blood from a stone. And after all, this is a luxury. I also think, as said on another thread, that RM should have the functionality to list fees that might apply to "close to" locations, since when I see a provider goes somewhere he's listed as a nearby city, I expect that to be someplace convenient (and profitable) for him without upcharging me.

Well I can make a hat, I can make a brooch, I can make a pterodactyl..

Just in case someone missed it.

I was actually watching the massage video on his RM ad, and noticed he didn’t stop talking the whole time which I thought was odd. There was music, so you couldn't hear what he was saying, but it certainly syncs with what you experienced.

If someone is that concerned about my age, height and weight, he should be paying me the $300/hour.

I don’t understand the age shaving here. While I'd never spend $500 for an hour, he looks amazing. I don't care if he said he was 32.

I assume this is a typo, but on this board you can't be too sure. 😉

I didn't think it came off as condescending at all, fwiw.

It's none of your business what he does before or after you. I would point out that you want to make sure you don't feel rushed, and let the professional handle it. He may ask you to book a longer block. He may start wrapping things up earlier so it doesn't seem abrupt. He may not book anything immediately after you, to make sure he isn't. He may decide that you aren't a good client for him. Communicate your concerns is usually the best advice.

Well that's annoying! I have no sympathy for people who don't read what's out there. I'm sure this is tough enough for you without people who ignore clear information. I try to be very clear what I'm looking for when I ask for a rate. I guess if I were a provider I would only list as "nearby" places that were included in my rate and wouldn't require an overnight at a hotel. It would be nice if the RM or other sites listed an option like "willing to travel to (additional fees apply)" section for you. But when I'm going somewhere and search the location for providers, if the provider listed that city as an area they cover, I don’t feel like their transportation there should be additional.

I guess I'm in the camp that if you list a "near travel" location, it's someplace convenient that you're willing to travel. Maybe if you expect extra for the locations you listed as your area, you should make that notation in your ad, or ask for the location before quoting a rate and include your travel time/expense in the quote.

If he can't reach my dick with his mouth, he's too low.

I'm 5'10" but provider height doesn't matter to me. Slim and smooth is what matters to me. I was surprised once when a provider I was talking to asked how tall I was and seemed excited I wasn't short. I wonder of many clients are on the short side? Seemed like an odd question and reaction.

I don't prefer it, but if it was in a way that didn’t seem repulsive to them, it would be ok.

I think I'm weird about cum. Hot to cum in the mouth, but licking it up or drinking it from a shotglass seems gross to me.

You really need to let your obsession with me go. BTW, even though I have you blocked, COM does alert me when I get a message. I assure you it will never be read, as your opinions are justifiably worthless to me. And I really am sorry that you think a provider that flaked on me twice deserves a deposit. Show just where your biases lie.

Christ, I could fall in love with him.

If the provider swallows, I'll get too attached Better for my wallet if he doesn't. But like someone else said, if he were to run to the bathroom disgusted, that would be a turnoff. So much for the BFE

I like to think of providers as professionals. I'd have no problem talking to two attorneys via free consultation to see their approach before deciding on one. Similarly, if I were planning an event, I'd likely like to hear the vision of two planners. There is nothing wrong with reaching out to two people before making a financial decision of any kind. And professionals understand this.

Thank you. My use of common sense shouldn't surprise anyone.