JamesB

It really depends on exactly what you want or need which are not always the same thing. Personally, I use GnuCash, an open-source accounting software. Compared to Monarch, GnuCash is free and offers more advanced accounting features like double-entry bookkeeping and reconciliation. Its customizable reports might solve the frustrations you had with Copilot’s limited data layout. That said, GnuCash does require more manual setup, and its dated interface can feel less user-friendly compared to Monarch Money’s sleek and automated design.

https://telechapero.com/Ver-lista-de-usuarios/Chaperos-Madrid

I don’t believe a copy of your driver’s license is required for a regular account, possibly only for payment verification on a Premium account. To send messages on RMen, all you need is a standard free account.

https://rent.men/Hotfrenchbi

The letter has some elements of a professional cease-and-desist notice (e.g., formal structure, legal terms, specific demands), but several red flags suggest it was not drafted by a licensed attorney: - The misapplication of the CCPA and vague legal references (“courts around the world”). - The lack of attorney credentials, firm details, or contact information. - Inconsistent tone, excessive repetition. - Overreaching threats (e.g., “crimes against children”) that don’t align with the allegations. It’s more likely that this letter was drafted by a non-lawyer, possibly “the client” himself or someone with access to legal templates, aiming to intimidate the recipient into compliance.

Accounts like this one always seem to pop up in Tampa, usually in pairs, like this one with: https://rent.men/DANNI_HOT They stay active for a month or two and then vanish. They all come across as fake to me.

I do have some concerns, especially considering the unique dynamics of erotic massage, where personal connection and fantasy play such an integral role. If he’s already put off by clients asking for discounts, how would he feel about making them an official part of his offerings? In my opinion, a better approach would be to move away from standard percentage discounts and instead introduce experiential, non-monetary rewards for loyal clients after a certain number of sessions. This would help preserve the personal and fantasy-driven nature of the experience, reduce the frustration of dealing with hagglers, and align better with his business-oriented mindset. He should also communicate the program discreetly via direct messages or in-person to maintain exclusivity and test it with trusted clients before a full rollout.

My guess would be that it’s likely that a masseur with an expired profile can still see messages sent through RentMasseur’s site but their ability to respond or receive notifications may be limited unless their subscription is reactivated. This is only my guess.

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/151947-healing-bodywork-by-orlando-palm-springs/#comment-2296932 https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/157594-best-of-palm-springs/#comment-2402122

This provider has been discussed here before, and if I recall correctly, it wasn’t in a positive light and under a different name. If I can remember the previous username, I’ll share the link.

Also here for cross reference. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/51323/

He now has a new RMen profile: https://rent.men/BiRicanBilly

This hasn't been my experience at all. In over 15 years of hiring, I've only been asked for a pic once and that was a couple of years ago.

I understand wanting to be appreciated, but this feels a bit off to me. The tone comes across as resentful and borderline petty. Tipping should be a gesture of gratitude, not something tied to a mental checklist or used to quietly punish people. Clear communication and fair pricing go a lot further than vague expectations. Just my two cents.

In my very limited experience using DayUse, any additional taxes or fees are clearly shown during the booking process. Also, be sure to check the parking options and costs, if needed. Depending on the hotel, parking charges can be significant.

https://rent.men/Alejostud https://rentmasseur.com/Roberick https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/136870-411-on-newbie-roberick-in-nyc/ https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/144588-411-on-alejostud/#comment-2163426

I met Joseph last week. He’s originally from Cuba, previously lived in Miami, and recently relocated to Orlando. His place is clean and conveniently located. Photos are accurate and current. His massage is strictly therapeutic and he is clear and upfront about it. I’d rate the overall experience as a B+ / A-. He remained fully clothed throughout the session, and although his ad includes a sensual option, there were no sensual elements involved during my visit. Like always, this is just my experience and YMMV.

I'm perfectly fine with upfront, menu style pricing, what I really dislike is the upselling during the session. That kind of approach is a major turn off for me.

I'm not sure I fully understand the OP's post, but it reminds me of a situation I had with a provider I hired a few times. During our last session, after I handed him an envelope with his usual fee plus a tip, he suddenly told me he needed to raise his rates. I didn’t have an issue with the rate increase until he said it would apply retroactively to the session we had just finished. The strange part? His new rate was actually less than what I had already been paying him with the tip included. So I simply told him that the envelope already covered his new rate. Needless to say, I never hired him again. A couple of months later, he texted me asking why I hadn’t booked him since. I didn’t bother responding.

I really don’t mind sharing my experiences or even my opinions through DMs. I see it as an important part of what makes this forum valuable, and I’ve received some great responses to my own inquiries that way. That said, I usually check how long someone has been a member and how active they are on the forum before deciding how much detail I’m comfortable sharing. I also make an effort to clarify what I think is part of the typical experience versus what might fall into the YMMV territory. I also really appreciate it when people follow up with feedback after they’ve had their own experience.

You already know the answer to your question. That said, as a paying client, don’t you see how many things are wrong with this statement?

In my opinion, the core issue here isn’t necessarily that he works as an escort, people can have all kinds of professions or make personal choices for a variety of reasons. The real problem is that he chose to keep it from you. In any committed relationship, transparency and trust are essential. When one partner withholds something this significant, it creates a deep rupture in the foundation of that trust. From my own experience and from what I’ve seen in others' lives, once that trust is broken, it’s incredibly difficult, if not impossible, to fully restore it. You begin to question everything: what else has been hidden, and what can you believe going forward. As painful as it is, I agree with the advice others have already offered: consult a lawyer, get a divorce and move on. It may not feel like it now, but protecting your emotional well-being and long-term peace is worth making that difficult choice. You deserve honesty, respect, and someone who values the truth as much as you do.

I personally enjoy a bit of conversation after the session, it feels natural and part of being human. However, I’ve been seeing one particular provider regularly for the past two years who isn’t chatty at all. I suspect it’s due to his limited English skills, but who really knows.

Providers who ask for payment upfront are usually the ones who deliver a subpar experience and/or cut the session short.