JamesB

Ad is gone.

The review also states “Thief, took whole fee and left with excuse that need to repark a car. Never came back. My number gkt booked away”

WTH?

I don't feel comfortable sharing specific details of this relationship, but I’ll give some examples to illustrate the situation. The manipulation started with comments like “I don’t think of you as a client anymore,” “I have very strong feelings for you,” “I only feel safe when I'm with you.”.... And so on. Regarding the money, every time I hired him, which sometimes was multiple times a week, he was paid his standard rate plus a generous tip. He also spent time with me off the clock, during which we would go out to eat, prepare meals at home, enjoy drinks, and have long conversations. Then the “extra” money requests began. It started with statements like, “It’s been a really slow month, and I'm really worried about my rent.” After injuring his shoulder, he needed help with the deductible, and because it was difficult for him to work, he required assistance with his monthly expenses. Every month, there was a new reason for needing extra money and every time the amounts were higher. When I finally started cutting back on the money, he began mistreating me. The first time I refused a money request for a trip to see his mom, he went ballistic, stormed out of my house, and shouted all kinds of insults that I prefer not to remember. And that, folks, is all she wrote. I remember my mother telling me that the problem with helping people is that the first time you do it, you generate gratitude. Then you create anticipation and expectation, which turns into entitlement and dependency. Finally, when you stop helping, you receive hatred and resentment. This situation perfectly illustrated her point.

I think most of us have fallen for a provider at some point or at least I like to think so to feel better about myself, LOL!. In my case, it happened after a particularly hard breakup from an almost 10 year relationship. I was in a really bad place emotionally and returned to hiring as a coping mechanism to fill that void. Not the smartest decision I've ever made. This particular provider pushed all the right buttons and really made me feel good. In my defense, he was excellent at manipulating me and played me like a master, but I don't place the blame on him since I should have known better. This went on for a little over a year. Deep down, I knew he was just playing me for money, but I chose to ignore the signs. As expected, I ended up paying for my mistake both financially and emotionally. The financial loss was significant, but the emotional devastation was even harder to deal with. It took quite some time and professional help to recover but I learned my lesson.

There's an old thread about him, but it's not very helpful. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/132227-jaxthirio-in-nashville/

It's common practice to include a link to the provider's ad to make it easier for members to see who you're asking about. By the way, welcome to the forum!

https://rent.men/JaxThirio

It's funny you should mention this. I was looking at Rmass in Orlando today and noticed that the majority of providers listed are actually traveling providers. I did a count, and it turns out that one-third are locals while two-thirds are traveling providers. This really surprised me because I don't remember it ever being like that before. It's quite a shift from what I'm used to seeing.

Try using an incognito tab or a different browser than the one you usually use. This can help bypass any location-related data that might be cached in your browser's memory. Incognito mode prevents your browser from storing cookies, site data, and history from your current session, allowing you to access the website as if you're visiting it for the first time. Additionally, using a different browser altogether can ensure that none of your previous browsing data interferes with the current session, providing a fresh start and potentially resolving any location-based issues you're encountering.

If you're willing to travel all the way to the Keys, I highly recommend the Bungalows at Key Largo. This adults-only, all-inclusive resort offers an exceptional experience. While I usually don't favor all-inclusive resorts, this one truly stands out. The amenities, service, and atmosphere are top-notch, making it an excellent choice for a relaxing beach getaway.

Maybe you dodged a bullet. A review from a long-time premium member on RM states: "Did not perform as agreed. Stole my money and my wallet. Filing a report against him momentarily. Please preserve all of his information for the authorities."

I believe it ultimately comes down to perceived value. For instance, I have a preference for European cars and I'm willing to pay $150K for a Mercedes because it satisfies my needs and holds that value for me. Now, consider a $450K Ferrari. Will owning the Ferrari provide me with three times the satisfaction that the Mercedes does? In my case, the answer is no, so I don't assign that level of value to the Ferrari. However, that doesn't mean I can dismiss the price of a Ferrari and claim it isn't worth that much. The Ferrari may hold significant value for someone else, just as the Mercedes does for me. It's all about personal perception and what each individual finds valuable and satisfying.

Wow! This is completely uncalled for.

I met him in Orlando a couple of months ago, but I haven't seen his ad in a few weeks. He's a very nice and sweet guy from Brazil, though his English is quite limited, so you'll need to use Google Translate. His pictures are accurate and recent. I'd rate his massage skills as a B. He performs the massage naked, with MT and HE included. He's of course willing to go Deli for an additional fee; just let him know in advance what you're looking for. I would hire him again.

He also has a RM profile: https://rent.men/Andreep Here are some post where he is mentioned:

Works fine for me using Chrome.

It's clear that he's just promoting his OnlyFans.

This profile looks fake to me. All those pics are way too intagramy.

His profile is less than a week old.

My willingness to be flexible depends on several factors. First, whether I actually have the time to be flexible. Second, I am more inclined to be flexible with regular provider than with new hires. If a provider tells me they need extra time because they are running late with another client, it indicates a lack of professionalism, and I would likely cancel.

You are right.

This ad just popped up in Orlando. https://rent.men/Marcosroman The two pics showing meat do not seem to be from the same person. Look at the mark near the nipple.

Most of the reviews are from accounts that have only one review and were created the same day or just a few days earlier. 🚩🚩🚩

The first review is likely fake. The other three are from long-time members. You might have to take one for the team on this one.