JamesB

There are also providers who, after delivering a poor performance, immediately block the client to prevent them from leaving a negative review.

Effective communication is key to a successful provider-client relationship. A good provider will expect you to ask for exactly what you want. There's no need to be shy; I can guarantee you won't ask for anything they haven't heard before. While good providers are skilled at reading clients and guiding the session accordingly, leaving them to guess your preferences isn't the best approach when hiring.

I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, but I'm sure a moderator will move it if necessary. I remember someone mentioning a specific URL format to achieve this within RMass. I saved it somewhere but can’t find it now. In RM, it’s easy to see all reviews by a single reviewer since you can just click on their name to go to their profile, which includes their reviews. However, it's not as straightforward on RMass. I know I can do a specific Google search, but the results aren't presented in a very useful manner, especially if the client has left many reviews.

It's important to recognize that relying solely on RM reviews isn't advisable. Providers can inflate their review numbers. If you search this site, you'll find several threads discussing this topic. I do read reviews and often reach out to reviewers directly. I'm cautious when I see multiple reviews from the same person for a single provider. I also look out for accounts that have only one review and were created on or just before the review date. Personally, I tend to avoid leaving negative reviews unless there's a significant issue, like a scam or a major problem. I'm sure many others share this approach. Therefore, the absence of negative reviews for a provider doesn't necessarily reflect their quality. I've hired providers with many 5-star reviews and had less than memorable experiences, and I've also hired providers with few or no reviews and had great experiences.

Always remember that you are paying someone to play a role. While having some type of connection can enhance the experience, it’s crucial to never forget that it's a fantasy you’re paying for. Don’t worry about how much is genuine and how much is an act, just enjoy it for what it is. If you lose sight of this, you might end up paying both emotionally and financially.

He also has a profile on RMass: https://rentmasseur.com/DanielHot I texted him last year, but his responses didn't make any sense, and I got the impression he didn't know what he was doing, so I decided to pass. I have no idea who the other guy mentioned in his RM ad is. The one review on RM isn’t very encouraging: "He is very beautiful, but that’s about it." How he can be in Bradenton and Jacksonville, Fl at the same time is beyond me.

First of all, I’m sorry this happened to you. I'm sure you now understand why many people here have a no-deposit rule. You might also want to consider reporting him to RM as well.

While I understand that being in your late 30s is considered ancient in gay years, you'll find that quite a lot of people well above that age are doing the hiring.

I do look good for my age as well and I don’t remember ever being asked but like I said, I only started volunteering this information only a few years ago due to a little incident.

Bazinga!

I only share my age when contacting a provider, and I started doing this only a few years ago due to a little incident.

That may be true, but the reviewer claimed, "Photos are not accurate," while the original poster says he was a no-show. It can't be both; it's one or the other.

He has only one review from a long time member dated May 18 and it is a negative one. It states “Photos are not accurate; he was rude and did not do what he said he would. Bad experience.”

I always expect a masseur to have a massage table for both in-call and out-call appointments. However, there are exceptions, particularly when the masseur is traveling by plane. In such cases, I expect them to at least have a face cradle bed attachment.

This is what it looks like to me.

In the first picture on RM / third picture on Rmass, something doesn't look right with his arms.

It was an average experience at best. The booking process was straightforward, but the massage itself was unremarkable and didn't meet my expectations. It was obvious that he lacked formal training. The MT part was very limited, and the HE provided was basic. I won't be returning.

I agree; most of them are from accounts with only one review, created on the same day or very close to the review date.

I don’t mind providers choosing the "ask" option on RMass since the page doesn't allow for different price options to be displayed. At least MF offers flexibility with different time lengths, but RMass is very restrictive. A one-size-fits-all pricing approach isn’t realistic.

Strange, I see 2 public pics and no private pics.

Always ask the provider if they accept US dollars as payment and what their rate would be in that currency.

Additionally, the reviewer's account was created on the same day as the review. No to mention Number of appointments: 10+. 🚩

You can actually get a face cradle that attaches to the bed for like $100 on Amazon.

I've never met them, but the mere fact that they disclose a client's phone number in response to a review tells me everything I need to know about them.

I must admit that I don't particularly care or pay much attention if a provider describes themselves as Bi or gay. However, if they label themselves as straight, then I'm not interested. I can't recall having had a genuinely good encounter with someone who identified as straight.