JamesB

Everyone deserves a degree of privacy. If someone chooses not to disclose their occupation, it's important to respect their decision.

I'm comfortable using either RM Messenger or text for communication. If the provider has a preferred method mentioned in their ad, I'll adhere to that. Otherwise, my initial contact will typically be through RM Messenger.

I've received multiple requests to discuss my experiences with a provider. I'm open to sharing, as long as the request doesn't come from an account created just a few hours or days before. The level of detail I provide depends on the manner of the request and the engagement of the account within the broader forum. If I encounter a question that makes me uneasy, I'll simply choose to ignore it and refrain from responding.

Trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, it's best to walk away.

I'm still hiring at my usual pace, maybe even a bit more. However, I've observed two trends: Providers who rarely traveled before are now on the move more frequently, and I'm receiving a significant increase in messages from past providers wanting to meet again.

I'm puzzled why you're uncertain about this. Yes, you should have informed the provider that your roommate would be home.

In my opinion, the issue with deposits is that they only benefit the provider, offering no protection to the client. Deposits place all the risk on the client, creating an undesirable unilateral condition.

There's more to his ASSet than just Photoshop. Take a look at his Twitter feed, and you'll see what I mean.

In my opinion, the use of someone else's pics is a major red flag.

When I travel, I typically reach out about a week in advance, and I always have a backup plan, a couple of other providers just in case something happens with my first choice. By the way, it's never a good idea to disclose to a backup provider that they weren't your initial preference.

He requested a deposit once you were already in the hotel lobby, just before going up to his room? There was no mention of a deposit before that? That doesn't seem to make any sense.

This also holds true for regular providers. Some excel at long-term cons. Remember, they're solely motivated by money. It's always a business transaction; you're essentially renting a fantasy for a set duration.

I've only had to cancel an appointment with very short notice once. I offered to pay the provider whatever cancellation fee he deemed appropriate, but he declined, which I found very gracious of him. When we eventually met a few days later, I made sure to give him a substantial tip.

Shea is simply a fantastic guy in every aspect. It's unfortunate that due to his work, he's often out of town for months at a time. Whenever I come across his ad, I always attempt to schedule a session.

I completely agree, Fabi is incredibly sweet and kind, always eager to please, and an exceptional kisser.

I'm sorry to hear about your experience. You should consider informing RM about what happened. While it might not result in a refund for you, it could potentially prevent others from facing the same situation.

Let me make sure I understand correctly: He's your favorite, yet you still find yourself searching for his ad. Alright, got it! LOL! Have a great day!

Impressive, six posts from an account created mere minutes ago, all dedicated to defending a provider. Quite the display of credibility.

Orlando is largely lacking good options, thankfully traveling providers offer some relief. If you are a little more specific about your preferences, you might receive some helpful recommendations.

I admit to being guilty of this. There was a specific provider who caught my interest, but his profile heavily emphasized fisting, which isn't my preference. Consequently, I never reached out to him.

I never ask a provider for a discount because I believe that doing so may result in a compromised experience. If the asked rate exceeds my budget or what I am prepared to pay, I politely express gratitude for their time and move on.

This perfectly sums up my experience.

He does not look 25, he looks younger. Maybe old pics?

I guess we could start a campaign "Just say no to deposits. Protect your wallet, protect your peace." LOL!!!!

I'm fine with providers wearing jewelry as long as it doesn't disrupt their work. However, if I can feel a ring on their finger during a massage or HJ, I would politely request they remove it for my comfort.