JamesB

This is especially true from providers that view themselves as models.

Honestly, I'm not particularly keen on overnight arrangements. I've only engaged in them with two providers with whom I had long-standing relationships. One used to accompany me on travels often, while the other would stay over if he didn't have any more clients for the night. The idea of an overnight with someone I don't know well or have only met a few times doesn't appeal to me. I suppose everyone has their preferences.

If you are willing to go the masseur route, Jorge might be an option. He is more of a rub and tug type deal. He does have a great body but not massage skills to speak of. He is open to extras for the right fee and he is a bottom. https://rentmasseur.com/JorgeSB

Posts like this do more harm than good for a provider. Instead of helping, they act as a red flag. Anyone reading them is more likely to seek out a different provider.

With my regular providers, I don't confirm rates each time I engage their services. However, every six months to a year, I inquire whether they have updated or revised their rates. To date, none of my regulars have altered their rates on me.

I haven't had the chance to meet him in person, but I really miss his contributions on the forum. He consistently displayed kindness and positivity in his interactions here.

Weight: 360 lbs???

Outcalls £1000!!!. 😲

He's been around for quite some time and travels often. He ought to be in his early 40s by now. It's been about two years since I last laid eyes on him. Although the pictures in his ad are outdated, he's still stunning and maintains a great body. My experience with him was excellent. MN, MT, HE, with the added bonus of crossing into Deli territory at no extra charge. If our paths cross again, I'd certainly hire him without hesitation.

Everyone deserves a degree of privacy. If someone chooses not to disclose their occupation, it's important to respect their decision.

I'm comfortable using either RM Messenger or text for communication. If the provider has a preferred method mentioned in their ad, I'll adhere to that. Otherwise, my initial contact will typically be through RM Messenger.

I've received multiple requests to discuss my experiences with a provider. I'm open to sharing, as long as the request doesn't come from an account created just a few hours or days before. The level of detail I provide depends on the manner of the request and the engagement of the account within the broader forum. If I encounter a question that makes me uneasy, I'll simply choose to ignore it and refrain from responding.

Trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, it's best to walk away.

I'm still hiring at my usual pace, maybe even a bit more. However, I've observed two trends: Providers who rarely traveled before are now on the move more frequently, and I'm receiving a significant increase in messages from past providers wanting to meet again.

I'm puzzled why you're uncertain about this. Yes, you should have informed the provider that your roommate would be home.

In my opinion, the issue with deposits is that they only benefit the provider, offering no protection to the client. Deposits place all the risk on the client, creating an undesirable unilateral condition.

There's more to his ASSet than just Photoshop. Take a look at his Twitter feed, and you'll see what I mean.

In my opinion, the use of someone else's pics is a major red flag.

When I travel, I typically reach out about a week in advance, and I always have a backup plan, a couple of other providers just in case something happens with my first choice. By the way, it's never a good idea to disclose to a backup provider that they weren't your initial preference.

He requested a deposit once you were already in the hotel lobby, just before going up to his room? There was no mention of a deposit before that? That doesn't seem to make any sense.

This also holds true for regular providers. Some excel at long-term cons. Remember, they're solely motivated by money. It's always a business transaction; you're essentially renting a fantasy for a set duration.

I've only had to cancel an appointment with very short notice once. I offered to pay the provider whatever cancellation fee he deemed appropriate, but he declined, which I found very gracious of him. When we eventually met a few days later, I made sure to give him a substantial tip.

Shea is simply a fantastic guy in every aspect. It's unfortunate that due to his work, he's often out of town for months at a time. Whenever I come across his ad, I always attempt to schedule a session.

I completely agree, Fabi is incredibly sweet and kind, always eager to please, and an exceptional kisser.

I'm sorry to hear about your experience. You should consider informing RM about what happened. While it might not result in a refund for you, it could potentially prevent others from facing the same situation.