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I agree that not all of the inexpensive providers result in a less than ideal experience. Personally I haven't experienced "toothless", "much, much older", or a picture of the guy in the profile that shows him in much better shape than he is now. There have been differences, but not to the point where I feel that I should sue for false advertising. I mostly stay away from very inexpensive providers. My thought is that my willingness to pay comes with an expectation of a level of quality. For poor quality I rather use some hookup app or website. The less expensive ones that I have ventured hiring have resulted in good experiences, have gone beyond the basics. The opposite is true too, some of the ones at the regular price or above have not been worthy of the expense. This is a high-risk setting for both sides of the business, so as clients there's always going to be a risk of being deceived, regardless of the price. Just my experiences, not law.

From the people who claim that Jesus walked on water. Sure, "I'm delussional". https://youtu.be/pCg-SNOteQQ?si=4KgMk-9eLaEgxHIQ

According to their website, they are "Prebiotic fiber gummies for bottoms. Designed to eliminate long prep routines and increase confidence." You eat a gummy and you become a confident bottom or something.

We are living in real strange times. People want attention, people use coming out as a PR strategy, we now have the concept of "elitism by victimhood" claiming that they are entitled to do and have whatever because they are victims, and many people seem to think that they don't exist if they don't post and advertise everything about their lives in social media. "Struggling" with something has become a way of people obtaining attention and special treatment. I find it disgusting, especially since people who are really struggling and real victims are still suffering and now they have to compete with the attention seekers.

I don't see a problem with inquiring about it. Body hair (and lack thereof) is a common preference. Of course, when I ask I try not to come across as creepy.

Too many people trying to get pictures for pleasure and not for business reasons. Just my guess.

I wish that's the kind of issue I had with my neighbors. Anyway, think about what could be the implications in case things don't work out. In past posts you have shared negative experiences with providers cancelling at the last minute, blocking you (if I remember correctly) and other similar things. How will you feel/react/handle if any of those things happen with that gentleman? Will you be OK seeing him if he stays living there? Only you can know if you could properly handle and feel OK experiencing the worst case scenario. Best

Take it seriously, and try to document the incidents in case it might need to escalate into involving the police. This might sound obvious, but be consistent with your answers to any attempts at contact, say no all the time to anything that he offers, firmly, don't accept anything, including invitations to meeting him "to talk". I'm sorry that's happening to you. Best

I've said that in the past. A provider that preaches to his clients to me are signs that they are too indoctrinated with the christian shit. Sometimes that can backfire.

Online is not too pervasive, in my experience, I don't mind. Streets hustlers in certain cities are more annoying when they do that, especially when they persist more than the Jehovah's Witnesses. I've had some in RM reach out and I also had a few pleasant exchanges. They ended with me telling them that I am far from where they are but if they visit my city I'll reach out. One of the men who reached out who was visiting my city did business with me. It doesn't bother me, but I did notice that they were not aggressive when they did, and they kept the messages short. I believe that done right, it could be a good marketing strategy. However, I am not one of those who are nasty right away. I do know that some people are not too polite in their first response. In the other thread I mentioned that I find it more annoying when companies do that.

This is not about having the last word. There's a history here. I am right, end of the story. Live with it.

Great if it enhances your self image. Enjoy.

I saw in RM a profile with the name "The Butt Whisperer", so no, not too direct in my experience.

That's good old fashion fear of intimacy. Just another made-up term.

1. Not women, depend on the men, don't care about cis or non-cis if I like it. 2. I don't feel like I am in a position to establish "acceptable" standards of exposure. If I don't like something, I just don't look again and keep minding my own business. My preference is men, and in all honesty, though I've never particularly look for them, if I see one and like it I don;t really analyze or place it in a category, so I couldn't tell about the context. 3. I choose not to answer that question. 4. See #3 5. I don't feel strongly about people revealing their chests. My only concern is in countries like the USA and England where a person might be threatened by others for it. Unfortunately, things like that become an issue because of the way most people think about the human body. In other countries, most people can't care less either way, though there should be a sense of decorum in certain circumstances.

I've gotten several of those "Hi". Have responded to some, and one ended up in a booking, the others were out of my area, but I had a nice conversation where I ended stating that I might consider them if I travel to where they are of if they come to my city. No harm done, just a nice, polite conversation. They reach out to prospective clients. I don't see anything wrong with it. It's more annoying when I get those from Dell and T-Mobile.

In some areas finding parking is a deal breaker. I live in an area where that's a major issue. Maybe that's an issue in that area, so it's worth mentioning.

I'm not sure what your point is. We already know the risks, plus, as I stated, risk is always present; it's a matter of our decision to take it and handle it. Plus you haven't mentioned anything that is exclusive to escorting. All those things can happen on your way to a 9-5 job.

There's always a risk in your reputation, your personal safety and your health (physical and mental), but that can also be said of many other professions outside escorting. In my experience, there are plenty of people who are professionals and have escorted in the past, many of which manage to hide it, or are in professions where that's not necessarily a deal breaker. Your choice of career outside escorting can determine how risky having been an escort is. Also, you may not need to advertise online. Escorting exists since the beginning of time, way before sites with profiles existed. Risk is always there, all we all can do is minimize it and decide which ones are worth taking. Best.

First, you don't know that Second, I don't have to explain things to you Third, re-read my post again. Fourth, stop trying to be a jackass with me. You're not going to win.

Re-read my post. I said how I stop them.

When it comes to MY beliefs, absolutely.

Maybe agreeing with them help stopping them, but I don't agree with them, and again, they are not entitled to have the last word, especially about what MY beliefs are. That might not be as important to others, but it is to me. Also in my experience, agreeing with them has been taken as I am interested, so they double down on their proselytizing, which is not exactly what I am interested. Some might back off at the first try, but most (again, in my experience) won't.

That's a huge no-no for me. If he's hot enough and good in every other aspect, I might try to politely letting him know to stop that Christian shit. In my experience, however, I know that they don't stop until they feel disrespected. To avoid things getting to that point (since I won't stop either until they get it - part of the problem with people like that is that they always want to have the last word in everything), I prefer to thank him, then just end it and block him.

Shout! Shout! Let it all out. You are in the right place here for this. I know that many of use claim that we don't care about what others think, but that's true only to some extent. Enjoy your hiring.