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    + RyanDean got a reaction from + azdr0710 in JoelCold Boston   
    What a welcome addition to the Boston circuit. Now if only I had a reason to visit...
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from JMS in JoelCold Boston   
    What a welcome addition to the Boston circuit. Now if only I had a reason to visit...
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    + RyanDean reacted to MrDakota in 2026 List of Male Entertainment Venues - Work In Progress   
    Hi all - figured I'd share my working list of Male Entertainment Venues.  Please feel free to respond with any additions or corrections and will continue to revise.  I definitely dont have everything but figured this group would benefit from a regularly updated list. This is and will forever be an ongoing work in progress.
    Dakota's list of Male Entertainment Venues - Updated Aug 20, 2026
    Canada
    Montreal
    Campus - bar with large performance stage with nude performers available in semi-private lap dance area https://barcampusmtl.com, Stock - bar with multiple large performance stages with nude performers available in semi-private lap dance area.  Bar sold to Campus and operating conditions unknown. https://stockbarmontreal.com/fr, Diamant Rouge - bar with small performance stage with performers available for semi-private lap dances https://diamantrouge.ca/en Taboo  - tavern with catwalk style stage with nude twink performers.  Semi-private lap dance area.  Toronto
    Cock Bar - nude strippers on 2 different stages with individual lockable private show rooms. https://flashonchurch.com USA
    California 
    Los Ángeles/West Hollywood 
    Beaches - go-go boys regularly https://beachesweho.com. https://x.com/kclshow Mickeys - go-go boys regularly - https://mickys.com.  https://x.com/kclshow New Jalisco Bar - Downtown LA bar with multiple nights of strippers that do erotic stage show, walk around interactions and table dances.  KCL show. https://www.instagram.com/newjaliscobar/.  https://x.com/kclshow Pamona 
    305 Pamona/Flexx Pamona - Regularly features stripper shows and interactive table dances by KCL  https://www.instagram.com/flexxpomona/?hl=en  https://x.com/kclshow San Diego
    Flicks - Bar in Hillcrest with frequent nights with go-go boys https://www.sdflicks.com  Richs - Night club in Hillcrest with go-go boys on certain nights. https://richssandiego.com Florida
    Fort Lauderdale 
    Boardwalk - strippers on stages, walk arounds and private room lap dances https://boardwalk-ftl.com LeBoy - strippers on stages, walk arounds and private room lap dances https://www.leboy.com,   Johnsons - strippers on stages, walk arounds and private room lap dances https://johnsonsfl.com Tampa
    Johnsons - strippers and lap dances (multiple levels). https://johnsonstampa.com  Obsidian - Regular party with nude dancers - https://www.eventbrite.com/e/obsidian-full-nude-male-revue-tickets-1997421608801?aff=oddtdtcreator&utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAcGRvZgJleHRuA2FlbQMxMDAAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPOTM2NjE5NzQzMzkyNDU5AAGnKC2e1I8i6PsFnqLQxILO4chtW9wM7zZYRhyLwkHLpNirDGellpww0t7MXMo_aem_X7XtzuYzRMuouHytQhSjnw Key West
     Burton Street Pub - Strippers and private lap dances https://bourbonstpub.com  Georgia 
    Atlanta
    BJ Roosters - Pub with Go-go boys on the bar, walk arounds and private lap dance rooms https://www.facebook.com/bjroostersatlanta/  Illinois
    Chicago
    Lucky horseshoe Lounge - Two different stripper stages, 3 very large bars and lap dances in the open  on bar stools. https://luckyhorseshoelounge.com East St Louis
    Boxers n Briefs is currently closed but apparently moving into a new location in Centreville, Illinois. Full nude club with lap dance rooms.  Louisiana 
    New Orleans
    The Corner Pocket - Tavern and pool hall with scandalous trippers nightly  http://www.cornerpocket.net Massachusetts 
    Springfield (Outside of Boston)
    X-Room Springfield - Nude dancers on the bar and lap dances - available in tent (?) but scrutinized https://clubxroom.com  Nevada
    Las Vegas
    Piranha & Gypsy Nightclub - very frisky go-go dancers 7 days a week, cover charge allows admission to both clubs across the street from one another and share the same dancers.   https://piranhavegas.com https://gipsylasvegas.com Phoenix Bar and Lounge - tavern bar with specific nights of go-go dancers  https://www.facebook.com/thephoenixlv Flex Cocktail Lounge - certain themed nights with go-go dancers - ex: bear night. https://flexlasvegas.com Magic Mike Live - production show with 20 professional dancers that do lap dance interactions in the audience including on other men Chippendales - production show with 20 professional dancers that do lap dance interactions in the audience including on other men with specific numbers they utilize guys from the audience https://www.caesars.com/planet-hollywood/shows/chippendales?utm_campaign=gmb&utm_source=google&utm_medium=local&utm_term=PHV35&utm_content=show&y_source=1_MTA5NzI0Njc2NS03MTUtbG9jYXRpb24ud2Vic2l0ZQ%3D%3D  Thunder Down Under - - production show with 15 professional dancers that do lap dance interactions in the audience, but does NOT interact with other men. https://thunderfromdownunder.com Aussie Heat -  production show with 7 professional dancers that do lap dance interactions in the audience including on other men. https://aussieheatlv.com Rouge - Erotic Production show with software interactions between men and women, women and women, men and men https://www.rouge-vegas.com Iconique Nights - Gay club night inside the Hustler strip club featuring stage shows with male dancers and strippers for male audience Friday nights - https://www.instagram.com/iconiquenightslv?igsi=OXoxbTNlMDlkMGZ3 Kings of Hustler - Inside the Hustler strip club, male strippers that tend to cater to women but some will do lap dances on men.  https://kingsofhustler.com New Jersey 
    Unleashed - events in Cherry Hill on occasion - https://x.com/unleaxxxhed New York 
    New York City
    Cockpit/Red Eye  (same club) - Nude dancers on certain events.  Not every night. Different promoters (Buff daddy/Princes)   https://www.instagram.com/thecockpitnyc/?hl=en Adonis - regular nude parties. must be on email for information https://adonislounge.com/nyc/ Spunk at Monster Basement - Thursdays and Saturdays -  stage show and lap dances in private rooms, timed to the minute.  https://www.monsterbarnyc.com Nowhere Bar - Macho Mondays - strippers with lap dances in shared pitch black room - https://www.nowherebarnyc.com/new-events Pieces Bar - Spunk Sundays - Stripper night with lap dances https://www.piecesbar.com The Cock Bar - nude dancers nightly, no lap dances or privates - https://www.instagram.com/cockbarnyc/?hl=en Long Island
    Occasional Buff Daddies events at event center Oregon
    Portland
    Silverado - stage with poles, strippers walk around and do table dances, strippers can be nude  https://www.silveradopdx.com Stag -stage area and lap dance area, strippers can be nude, private dance area with sheer curtain https://www.stagportland.com Pennsylvania 
    Pittsburg
    Real luck Cafe/Luckys Bar - nude male dancers on second floor on weekend nights.  https://qburgh.com/directory/real-luck-cafe-luckys/ Philadelphia 
    Unleashed - private stripper events - follow https://x.com/unleaxxxhed Texas
    Dallas
    Tin Room - Night Club with frisky dancers and lap dance room watched by bartender https://www.facebook.com/tinroom/ Houston
    Tony's Corner Pocket - tavern with strippers nightly https://tonyscornerpocket.com Mexico
    Haroica Veracruz
    La Puteria Bar - Strippers with lap dance room -  https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089575850762 Monterrey 
    La Colorina Plus - nightclub that boasts 30 dancers.  Some do private shows in an individual private room https://www.instagram.com/lacolorinaplus/?hl=en Mexicali 
    Porky's Show Bar / Porky's Divine - Club with performances including strippers - lap dances available.  Walk from El Centro, Arizona into Mexicali, Mexico and back.  Club is directly across border  https://www.instagram.com/porkys_divine_/?hl=en Mexico City Area 
    Sparatus Disco (outside of Mexico City)  https://www.instagram.com/spartacusdiscomx?igsh=MjhsYTNzN2JpNXB5 Tom's Leather Bar Baby Club, Strip and erotic shows, sometimes lap dances (?)  https://x.com/JuevesSuperHot Nomads Bar - Strippers with lap dance area - https://x.com/NomadasBar Gigolo by Cocktail - events by Enigma Mens events, strip show not sure what else  https://x.com/EnigmaMens Puebla 
    BoyBerry by La Ciggara - Nigthclub with strippers and other performers - lap dances room - https://www.facebook.com/p/Boyberry-Club-puebla-61581565021767/ Puerto Vallarta
    Boys PV - new men only cruise bar that features dancers/strippers and other performers.  Jail cells available for private encounters or vouyerstic encounters.https://www.instagram.com/boyspvoficial?igsi=MXRxamhkN2ZhaDF4bA== Wet Dreams - Ultra lounge feel with shower area behind the bar that dancers perform in nude and second stage in the back that features more themed erotic  performances.  Private individual lap dance rooms available  https://www.facebook.com/pvwetdreams 69 - 3 level nightclub type feel.  Main level has large atrium with padded booth type benches surrounding a catwalk stage.  2nd level balcony has tables the look down on first level.  Strippers walk around and interact with guests while varying types of performances occur on the stage.  Large Private show rooms with couches and mirrors available in the basement. https://www.instagram.com/sixtynine_strip_club/?hl=en Be Mine - Ultra-lounge type feel with shower and catwalk stage with erotic shows and strippers.  Outdoor balcony as well.  Multiple types of private show rooms available from small to large and even a basement unit with hot tub.  https://x.com/Bminebar Anthropology - closed early 2026  Industry Nightclub - features go-go dancers regularly and erotic/nude dancers on occasion. https://industryclubpv.com/en/  La Noche -  features go-go dancers regularly after midnight  http://lanochepv.com Boys On Fire - Production show featuring themed stripper routines and audience interaction (seasonal) https://coco-cabaret.com/boys-on-fire/ Casa Capula - Resort that has pool parties on the weekends with go-go boys available for lap dances  https://casacupula.com Blue Chairs - Rooftop bar with regular erotic performers after sunset  www.bluechairs.com   Delice Party Cruise - Cruise boat for men only with strippers on board - https://pvdelicepartycruise.com Tijuana 
    Premier Mens Club - Easy to get to from San Diego, California USA.  30 dancers a night.  lap dances in the open, private room in the club for more, and bath house above the club for your full attention. Also does Mens only night the last Friday of the month with live m4m action on stage. https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61557457871336 Other bars across the street and within 3 blocks on Reveluccion that have strippers - bar names change regularly  Columbia 
    Bogota
    Gigolo Erotic House - Venue with stage shows, theme nights with go-go dancers that do lap dances and private show lap dances. Open Friday Saturday nights only. https://gigolosbogota.com  Theatron - Mega gay nightclub with 24 rooms and theme nights.  Main showroom regularly features massive stage shows that sometimes include nude and hard male dancers.  Saturday nights also has a rooftop room open with the elegant ultra lounge with nude and hard dancers on the catwalk.   https://www.portaltheatron.co   https://www.instagram.com/theatronclub/?hl=en El Recro G (suburb of Bogota) - Gay resort with hotel, pool, spa, stage, bar - featuring regular stripper entertainment on weekends that regularly feature erotic performances and private show availability https://www.elrecreog.com Casa Boys - performers for hire directly  Medellin
    Hotel Club Central - weekly events that often feature erotic stripper shows and interactive sessions https://x.com/Clubcentral2027 Brazil
    Brasilia
    Mens only gay nightclub with stripper performers, erotic shows, private encounters  Rio De Janiero 
    Point 202 - Bath house with erotic strip shows and performers available for private shows https://www.instagram.com/explore/locations/386677992/point-202/?hl=en Club 117 - Bath house with erotic strip shows and performers available for private shows https://www.instagram.com/explore/locations/1028843333/club-117rua-candido-mendes-gloria-rio-de-janeiro/?hl=en  The Home - Mega nightclub the regularly features dancers and erotic shows onstage https://www.facebook.com/thehomerio/ Sao Paulo
    High Club - Similar to the home in Rio - Mega nightclub the regularly features dancers and erotic shows onstage https://www.tnwbrazil.com.br   https://www.tnwbrazil.com.br/high-club-sp.html Hot House - Cruise Bar with stripper dancer performers, erotic shows and private encounters  https://hothousesp.com.br Espaco Lagoa - Bath house with stage stripper performers, erotic shows and other private encounters https://www.espacolagoasauna.com.br Blue Space - Nightclub with lavish stage shows featuring drag, go-gos, erotic and sometimes nude https://www.facebook.com/bluespacesp/?locale2=pt_BR&_rdr  France
    Paris
    Le Raidd Bar - Small nightclub with shower built into the side wall of the main level that features nude erotic dancers.  Sometimes are available in the lower level for private interactions.  https://raiddbar.com/en/index.html England
    London
    Villia Gianni - performers for hire Magic Men - open minded touring strip show that caters to both men and women  https://www.fairfield.co.uk/events/magic-men-2026 Australia 
    Sydney
    Knight Call - Stripper and Performer service on premises - https://www.knightcall.com.au Melbourne
    Stable Boys - performance center operating but unknown status Wan tu Tu  Thailand
    Bangkok
    Hot Boys Tawan Bar Jupiter2018 Dreamboys Phuket
    Zagg Club - Show bar with go-go boys, dancers, strippers https://www.facebook.com/phuket.zagclub/  Pattaya
       
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from thomas in Tops in Philadelphia?   
    Strong rec here for ChaseVirgo: https://rent.men/ChaseVirgo
    Smart, legit, warm/affectionate, great communication, totally understands the gig. 
    He's vers but -- having witnessed his masterful topping skills in person* -- I don't see how you could do better.

    *There's nothing quite like watching a top bring their bottom to a handsfree orgasm.
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from Jacob_b in What makes you feel special?   
    Yep. Being present in the session with proactive, personalized, specific followup is always a win for me...

    After one of our first meetups, one of my all-time favorite gents sent me a quick vid taken from a particular POV with some personalized dirty talk. The clip was all of 12seconds long. But it was hot, it was personalized, and I was HOOKED...
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in What makes you feel special?   
    Yep. Being present in the session with proactive, personalized, specific followup is always a win for me...

    After one of our first meetups, one of my all-time favorite gents sent me a quick vid taken from a particular POV with some personalized dirty talk. The clip was all of 12seconds long. But it was hot, it was personalized, and I was HOOKED...
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from j r in What makes you feel special?   
    Yep. Being present in the session with proactive, personalized, specific followup is always a win for me...

    After one of our first meetups, one of my all-time favorite gents sent me a quick vid taken from a particular POV with some personalized dirty talk. The clip was all of 12seconds long. But it was hot, it was personalized, and I was HOOKED...
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from Jacob_b in Expired profile, but..   
    A respectful discreet inquiry text, perhaps noting your awareness of his inactive profile, seems fine. 
    But I would counsel against putting all your eggs (ie your hiring hopes) in this one basket, no matter how appealing the basket. 
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from SJ856 in Expired profile, but..   
    A respectful discreet inquiry text, perhaps noting your awareness of his inactive profile, seems fine. 
    But I would counsel against putting all your eggs (ie your hiring hopes) in this one basket, no matter how appealing the basket. 
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    + RyanDean reacted to jmichaeliii in Red flags to lookout for   
    Anytime it becomes a full time job to try and hire someone, it's time to move on!
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from j r in GoodguyJake in NJ/PA   
    Curious if anyone's crossed paths with this gent, GoodguyJake.
    https://rent.men/GoodguyJake
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from thomas in Height Difference - A Turn On/Off   
    I'm not tall (5'10") but I do love a beefy/built short king. Especially if they're hung. 
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    + RyanDean reacted to Buff Daddy in BUFFDADDYS NYC   
    No. The last Friday of the month will  be 8pm-2am.  We are trying to do the last Friday of the month  late 8pm-2am. Emails out this week 
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from Eric91 in Height Difference - A Turn On/Off   
    I'm not tall (5'10") but I do love a beefy/built short king. Especially if they're hung. 
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from Cretus in *New Jersey Escorts   
    Indeed. As I recall, Cooperstyles was in Jersey City, which I always think of as "basically NYC."
    ChaseVirgo might meet your criteria but he's definitely toward the southern end of NJ (ie closer to Philly). 
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from + Charlie in Height Difference - A Turn On/Off   
    I'm not tall (5'10") but I do love a beefy/built short king. Especially if they're hung. 
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from big-n-tall in Any 411 on Grassfed?   
    Thanks for that context, @big-n-tall.
    I too mistrusted the ad when I encountered it yesterday.
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from Wanderoz in GoodguyJake in NJ/PA   
    Curious if anyone's crossed paths with this gent, GoodguyJake.
    https://rent.men/GoodguyJake
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from Mark_fl in GoodguyJake in NJ/PA   
    Curious if anyone's crossed paths with this gent, GoodguyJake.
    https://rent.men/GoodguyJake
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Sequential or shotgun approach when contacting providers?   
    One of the downsides of the purely sequential approach comes when there is no reply from the provider.
    When faced with radio silence, I never know how long to wait before moving on.
    On a couple occasions this past year or so, my "patience" in waiting for a reply has let too much time lapse and the window of opportunity closed without my being able to book anyone. Which was a bummer of my own making. Also this year, on two sequential trips to two different large US cities, I had two experiences of being ghosted by gents who took more than a day to reply to my preliminary query. Still, I was heartened when they agreed to meet but then they went radio silent and, again, the window of opportunity passed. Which was a bummer not entirely of my own making. (And which inclines me to feel that delayed reply time is its own kind of red flag.)

    For the sequential-queries-only crew: how much non-response time do you let elapse before moving on to your next contender?

     
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from Wings246 in Sequential or shotgun approach when contacting providers?   
    One of the downsides of the purely sequential approach comes when there is no reply from the provider.
    When faced with radio silence, I never know how long to wait before moving on.
    On a couple occasions this past year or so, my "patience" in waiting for a reply has let too much time lapse and the window of opportunity closed without my being able to book anyone. Which was a bummer of my own making. Also this year, on two sequential trips to two different large US cities, I had two experiences of being ghosted by gents who took more than a day to reply to my preliminary query. Still, I was heartened when they agreed to meet but then they went radio silent and, again, the window of opportunity passed. Which was a bummer not entirely of my own making. (And which inclines me to feel that delayed reply time is its own kind of red flag.)

    For the sequential-queries-only crew: how much non-response time do you let elapse before moving on to your next contender?

     
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from Wings246 in Sequential or shotgun approach when contacting providers?   
    I used the "shotgun" approach for the first time just this past weekend and it worked quite well for me.

    The context: big city, very narrow window of time for daytime appointment, holiday weekend, me hosting in my hotel. Sent the exact same message to a half dozen new-to-me gents about 24-36 hours before the requested appointment. Four replied in a timely manner to let me know they weren't available in my admittedly quite narrow timeframe; one replied to confirm he was available and interested; and one never responded.

    I booked with the one who replied, for a very gratifying encounter. Enjoyed brief, clarifying, and very friendly exchanges with two of those who replied, bumping each of them to the top of my priority-hire list. 

    For me, it was an effective use of the approach. Not a strategy that I would use in most situations, as I prefer to hire with a longer lead time, which typically allows for one query at a time. But, under these circumstances, "the shotgun" style was quite effective, in both the immediate and longer term...
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from DMonDude in Sequential or shotgun approach when contacting providers?   
    I used the "shotgun" approach for the first time just this past weekend and it worked quite well for me.

    The context: big city, very narrow window of time for daytime appointment, holiday weekend, me hosting in my hotel. Sent the exact same message to a half dozen new-to-me gents about 24-36 hours before the requested appointment. Four replied in a timely manner to let me know they weren't available in my admittedly quite narrow timeframe; one replied to confirm he was available and interested; and one never responded.

    I booked with the one who replied, for a very gratifying encounter. Enjoyed brief, clarifying, and very friendly exchanges with two of those who replied, bumping each of them to the top of my priority-hire list. 

    For me, it was an effective use of the approach. Not a strategy that I would use in most situations, as I prefer to hire with a longer lead time, which typically allows for one query at a time. But, under these circumstances, "the shotgun" style was quite effective, in both the immediate and longer term...
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    + RyanDean got a reaction from Nue2thegame in Sequential or shotgun approach when contacting providers?   
    I used the "shotgun" approach for the first time just this past weekend and it worked quite well for me.

    The context: big city, very narrow window of time for daytime appointment, holiday weekend, me hosting in my hotel. Sent the exact same message to a half dozen new-to-me gents about 24-36 hours before the requested appointment. Four replied in a timely manner to let me know they weren't available in my admittedly quite narrow timeframe; one replied to confirm he was available and interested; and one never responded.

    I booked with the one who replied, for a very gratifying encounter. Enjoyed brief, clarifying, and very friendly exchanges with two of those who replied, bumping each of them to the top of my priority-hire list. 

    For me, it was an effective use of the approach. Not a strategy that I would use in most situations, as I prefer to hire with a longer lead time, which typically allows for one query at a time. But, under these circumstances, "the shotgun" style was quite effective, in both the immediate and longer term...
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    + RyanDean reacted to WoolCave in Anyone else doing Adonis NYC tonight?   
    I have a great time at the nude parties.  I found the last party exceptional with tons of options. I was occupied the entire time and went home with two hotties for a great 3some. 
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