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Have an awesome Christmas!

To all here on the site, many happy wishes for a wonderful holiday! Thank you to those who have become my friend! Appreciate all.

I know that I tend to get "indications of interest" if I happen to be scheduled in a planned city. Most of the time it works well, but I have had occasions where I had a conflict or it just didn't work well. I had to learn the value of adequate planning in advance. In this case the provider may not have had bookings, bookings that he wanted to explore or simply opted not to go to the city. Part of being a great provider is being a good businessman. Sometimes the latter is lacking.

No opinion on this matter, but glad the question was asked even if misinterpreted. Made me think about my own approach and glad I do it.

Profiles meaning background on the client, history along with "likes and dislikes"? I think they are very productive to maintain. I would have been indifferent when I first started escorting, but it really does make sense. With regular clientele, new clients and those who may book you 6 months later and may expect you to remember certain details that could be forgotten, wise to maintain some sort of record and details that may help with a future booking. Also if there were challenges or difficulties, wise to note all so the next time can go smoothly.

I tend to "trade in a narrow range", meaning that I tend to order the same thing off the menu on a repeat basis. I don't care if I can pronounce the name, so long as I know what the item is. Calorie content and other relevant info is helpful.

Important to keep "kindness" a part of the mix. Being flexible shows reason. It is a two way street and shouldn't be just a holiday thing. I have much kindness shown me by clients and they deserve the same (and not just at the holidays).

Well said, thanks for sharing!

Good point. I talked about my extended times with clients around this time of year and I don't mind giving them a little company or to chat in some personal detail if they initiate it or want company. I just appreciate a little down time. My non escort professional career is also on pause during that time and it is quite nice to relax with family or take a trip. I also appreciate time with my boyfriend.

I like the answer. You are your own boss, I've enjoyed making my own decisions since I was in graduate school. Hope all goes well and you enjoy a peaceful and enjoyable Christmas and the day after!

I'd give it a shot and see if anything develops!

A heathy balance is important. Christmas comes once a year and I know the New Year's holiday will be busy. I view it as a reasonable trade off.

I'm interested in both provider and client views on bookings on the Christmas Eve/ Day timeframe. I am always ask if I will do it and I did on Christmas Eve for a couple of years, but now feel I need time with my friends and family. Most client's understand. When I have been booked on the "Eve", clients were generally very gracious and generous in their tips. The end of the year tends to be very busy anyway, so I now tend to think of the two day holiday timeframe as "my time". Thoughts on this and for those clients, how do you approach the holiday?

Have a Christmas gathering with friends this week. I'll have to ask about this. I have a salmon dish I will likely order, but I'll have to get their take on the "endless" and if our Red Lobster offers it.

While I certainly have clients who cancel or reschedule (one of them do it quite frequently), I don't have a lot of just "no shows". One that did apologized later, explaining that something came up and he didn't have time to contact me. I didn't blow up, but apology or not, I just reminded him that I expect to be notified in advance if a client can't be at a booking. I tend not to take them seriously afterward.

I'm sure your above comments have some validity, but I'd encourage you not to assume that's always the case. I know of some very generous people who died with only mild support because they were quite old (and many family and friends also had passed). We had an elderly neighbor that passed with only a few family members around, but she had been ill for quite some time, but they she suddenly passed (and it wasn't expected).. I would agree that those who are good people and loving of others pass with the love of those family and friends that are grateful for all that was shared.

Somewhat here in Kansas, but it can really vary between WIchita, Kansas City and Oklahoma City, Tulsa, etc. I thought it was more the holiday timeframe.

Let me say, I do contact a client (especially a new one), with a text after, thanking them for booking me, that I enjoyed the time and to please let me know if I can be of service again. I text one time (only) after the service. I think it works, I've never had complaints, however I only have one text like that.

I would have had a conversation with him at the time you became ill. I would have passed on the massage just with the worry of his catching my issue. You made a reasonable decision, however. You conversed with him.

So I had a client last week if I do "gift cards"? The client was inquiring if he books an hour (or stated period) of time for another person (as a Christmas gift), if I will provideservice in that way. I don't really have an issue, provided I know a bit before doing something like that. I just ask if I wear my Santa cap and red underwear. He said that would be a nice bonus. Nothing more has been said. We'll see.

Grand dad told me that's his approach and no copying his brand..... LOL

Ho ho ho to all! Santa’s grandson here! Helping my grand dad with quite a list this season! So pull up a chair and tell me, what do you want for Christmas?? I’ll talk to the big guy and see if we can help all your wishes come true! A happy holiday to all!

I would assume what is in print is an accurate representation. If the representation is for "massage only" that is what I would expect.

Intriguing indeed! I enjoyed listening to all. Thanks for posting the German in the last post. Family history.

I never ask for it, I've had clients provide them (once in a while). It is nice, but not required. He is seeking my service, not my approval.