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DO NOT see this movie if you haven't seen the series. I thought it was pretty weak sauce. Most of the joy of it is once more seeing old friends from a beloved series, even if they don't have much to say or do. There's not much of a plot and no real tension. You'd be much wiser to use the two hours to watch the first two episodes of the TV show. I wish I'd done that, and I've seen the series a few times.
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clicking socially - but not enjoying the massage
jackcali replied to viewing ownly's topic in Questions About Hiring
How were you able to make such a connection during a massage. Except when extras are involved, my head is buried in that face cradle and conversation with the masseur is relatively limited. And even though I'm of a talkative nature, I enjoy the silence and the technique during the massage. Since convo is limited, my connection with the masseur is much more tactile than intellectual. I have had experience similar to yours with escorts. The sex is ho-hum but the personal/emotional/intellectual connection is terrific. I will definitely go back to an escort like that, hoping the sex will improve with familiarity and that connection. Sometimes it does! If you really like the masseur but not the massage, how about changing the focus of the massage session? I don't mean making it an escort session (well, I don't JUST mean that), but what about asking for a foot massage or a back massage or something else specific? -
I watched a couple of episodes in the first season. It was okay but pretty formulaic (of course, that's the whole point of network TV) and didn't clear my "good enough" hurdle. I hope you keep enjoying it!
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If a third person popped up in my hiring outreach, I would end discussions right there, as I'd be worried about the greater possibility of them being scammers or the possibility that the escort is not working voluntarily. That being said, I did once have a regular who, a month or more after our first meet, I realized couldn't read due (I think) to very bad and untreated dyslexia. He had a buddy who handled all his written communications. And, yes, I hear you all wondering, after I found that out, there was a threesome involved.
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I'm two episodes in. So much table-setting in Episode 1 that I thought about bagging the show, but I clicked through to Episode 2, which seemed to have MORE table-setting but then ends with a clever-enough surprise that I'm in for at least one more episode. I'm not enjoying the gritty, profane Emma Thompson as much as I enjoy more genteel versions of her. P.S. For those who don't know the connection between this show and Slow Horses, they're each based on a series of novels by Mic Herron, an English writer. I think the Slow Horses spy novels are both funnier and better plotted than the novels with private detective Zoe Boehm (that's the Emma Thompson character), but I'm still hoping for a good series.
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The demise of kindness and respect?
jackcali replied to + PhileasFogg's topic in Questions About Hiring
There is a very big gap between politeness and submissiveness. You can be civil and still refuse to be insulted or taken advantage of. In a slightly different context, I was once beaten up in high school by an extraordinary well-mannered European kid who we regularly mocked for being so polite. (I think I said something untoward about his mother). He told me he was going to beat me up and then did so, though I got a couple of punches in before I was on the ground. Three things about the fight, though. First, he didn't insult me (or my mother), second, he didn't even try to hit me in the face, and third, he helped me up afterwards. I learned a few lessons that day, only one of which was that he had issues with his mother. -
I agree entirely with this. We all have "types" as to physical attributes. For me, young or young-looking, smoother rather than hairier, good shape (but not shredded), about my height or taller, a twunk (but happy to drift towards twinkish or muscle guy-ish), a good smile (!) and an at-least-average cock. But just as important is that they have a personality and can participate in a conversation and that they are happy to be seeing me and not there out of need or desperation. That means some financial and emotional stability. I don't care if they invest, haha, but I want their life more or less in order. I had one regular I really loved seeing (we met 30-40 times a year for almost three years), but towards the end he started asking me for some extra above our (already generous) agreed-upon fee - first to pay his phone bill, then to pay for something else - until almost every week was a new need. I believe drugs became an issue for him, though I didn't see any signs, but I stopped seeing him because I wanted a lover (and he was a great one) but not a dependent.
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I think this is a semantic thing, just like asking if someone hiring men for sex can be "straight". It all depends on your definition. I have many work colleagues (and even clients) whom I call friends, but the are in no way the same as my social friends or my childhood friends or my friends with whom I have (or had) a sexual relationship. They're all described as friends, but the nature and the closeness of the relationships vary enormously.
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Do any of his other stats need correcting? That metric to English system translation can be a bitch.
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What is this guy doing in a football stadium dressed like that? Not that I'm complaining, but I can't understand it.
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Client’s visiting other client RM profiles repetitively
jackcali replied to + PhileasFogg's topic in Questions About Hiring
I don't look at other client profiles that often, but once it a while i look at the profile of a client who has left a review of a provider I'm interested in. It helps me better understand whether the review is relevant to my likely experience with the provider. -
Tried again today, and I am now seeing some spicy video content that I was never able to see before with my non-premium membership, though there are still photos and videos that I don't have access to. Not sure what's going on with rent.men, but this is a change I won't complain about.
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Just looked. Access to videos has not changed for me, a non-premium member. Alas.
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I have the same problem distinguishing between masseurs and sex workers, particularly when the masseur makes a point of emphasizing his therapeutic skills. Just recently, I booked a therapeutic massage with a provider discussed here (where it was said that extras weren't on offer) and was very surprised when he started giving me a handjob. He read my surprise as offense and asked if I didn't want one. I clarified that I'd love one but didn't expect one and didn't ask for one out of respect. That started a long convo about how some of his clients always want one, some of his clients never do, and some ask for it from time to time, and he's just decided to go with the flow. Just wait until next time when I bring up other things we might do . . .
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Advertisers getting testy with lurkers.
jackcali replied to viewing ownly's topic in Questions About Hiring
Another strategy is to put the providers you're following on your buddies list. Then, you can go to your buddies list and click on the "Buddy Activity" button. It shows changes to travel plans as well as availability and the posting of new pictures and new reviews. That way, you don't have to "lurk" on their profiles. -
This is true in many cultures and has been for millennia. In classical Roman times, it was fine for a man to fuck other men but beneath contempt to be fucked by one. Julius Caesar's political rivals used to play up a rumor of a gay dalliance by him with the insult that Caesar was a man to all women and a woman to all men.
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100% agree on Close Encounters. What a boring, vapid, pretentious waste of film. Spielberg at his worst. Also, can I say that I hate Richard Dreyfuss in everything he's in. I didn't like Jaws mostly because the shark didn't eat him. It would have been a much more satisfying movie if Dreyfuss's character had been chewed to pieces.
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I think situational horniness is more prevalent than just in jail. When I was in a geographically isolated prep school (back in the Truman administration), I'd venture that most roommates frequently jerked off together and often gave each other a hand, so to speak. I'd also venture that half of them sucked their roommate's dick from time to time (sometimes infrequently, sometimes daily or more). Nobody thought it was gay or embarrassing, though it was rarely spoken about. Only anal was gay. The joke we used to tell each other was "How do you know your roommate is gay? Because his dick tastes like shit."
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I think this is a very big factor. I haven't been on SA in a couple of years, but when I was there was a new crop of 20-somethings showed up in the fall. The mid- to late-20s guys I reached out to (the undergrads were just too young for me) were in grad school or recent grads working at internships or entry level jobs. They were mostly new to New York and had no idea how expensive it is to live here as a penniless young man.
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I've helped my regulars or guys I hoped would become regulars with advances for specific needs. I paid one guy's expenses for a summer study abroad (tuition was paid by a scholarship) which I got back in services in the fall, another was a photographer who got a big job for which he needed some specialty equipment so I paid him for half a dozen sessions in advance, etc. I don't think I would ever pay in advance an escort who I hadn't met, though. Too big a chance of being scammed.
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He's certainly not going to make a living escorting with such limited services, but the economics of an RM ad are such that if he finds one client a month he more recoups the cost of his ad. I'm guessing he figures he's hot enough that he'll get takers for even his limited services. I'm guessing he's right.
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Just confirming what others have noted. I'm seeing dick pics in profiles, including Simon's, with my basic membership but they are blurred out if I'm not signed in.
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He chose that location because it was cheap, especially compared with Manhattan hotels. I told him that if he wanted to be serious about escorting he'd have to spring for a better hotel in a much better location. That's when he told me that he's more focused on being an OF content provider and only escorted occasionally. I feel honored he met with me, haha.
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