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  1. DO NOT see this movie if you haven't seen the series. I thought it was pretty weak sauce. Most of the joy of it is once more seeing old friends from a beloved series, even if they don't have much to say or do. There's not much of a plot and no real tension. You'd be much wiser to use the two hours to watch the first two episodes of the TV show. I wish I'd done that, and I've seen the series a few times.
  2. How were you able to make such a connection during a massage. Except when extras are involved, my head is buried in that face cradle and conversation with the masseur is relatively limited. And even though I'm of a talkative nature, I enjoy the silence and the technique during the massage. Since convo is limited, my connection with the masseur is much more tactile than intellectual. I have had experience similar to yours with escorts. The sex is ho-hum but the personal/emotional/intellectual connection is terrific. I will definitely go back to an escort like that, hoping the sex will improve with familiarity and that connection. Sometimes it does! If you really like the masseur but not the massage, how about changing the focus of the massage session? I don't mean making it an escort session (well, I don't JUST mean that), but what about asking for a foot massage or a back massage or something else specific?
  3. I watched a couple of episodes in the first season. It was okay but pretty formulaic (of course, that's the whole point of network TV) and didn't clear my "good enough" hurdle. I hope you keep enjoying it!
  4. If a third person popped up in my hiring outreach, I would end discussions right there, as I'd be worried about the greater possibility of them being scammers or the possibility that the escort is not working voluntarily. That being said, I did once have a regular who, a month or more after our first meet, I realized couldn't read due (I think) to very bad and untreated dyslexia. He had a buddy who handled all his written communications. And, yes, I hear you all wondering, after I found that out, there was a threesome involved.
  5. I'm two episodes in. So much table-setting in Episode 1 that I thought about bagging the show, but I clicked through to Episode 2, which seemed to have MORE table-setting but then ends with a clever-enough surprise that I'm in for at least one more episode. I'm not enjoying the gritty, profane Emma Thompson as much as I enjoy more genteel versions of her. P.S. For those who don't know the connection between this show and Slow Horses, they're each based on a series of novels by Mic Herron, an English writer. I think the Slow Horses spy novels are both funnier and better plotted than the novels with private detective Zoe Boehm (that's the Emma Thompson character), but I'm still hoping for a good series.
  6. There is a very big gap between politeness and submissiveness. You can be civil and still refuse to be insulted or taken advantage of. In a slightly different context, I was once beaten up in high school by an extraordinary well-mannered European kid who we regularly mocked for being so polite. (I think I said something untoward about his mother). He told me he was going to beat me up and then did so, though I got a couple of punches in before I was on the ground. Three things about the fight, though. First, he didn't insult me (or my mother), second, he didn't even try to hit me in the face, and third, he helped me up afterwards. I learned a few lessons that day, only one of which was that he had issues with his mother.
  7. I agree entirely with this. We all have "types" as to physical attributes. For me, young or young-looking, smoother rather than hairier, good shape (but not shredded), about my height or taller, a twunk (but happy to drift towards twinkish or muscle guy-ish), a good smile (!) and an at-least-average cock. But just as important is that they have a personality and can participate in a conversation and that they are happy to be seeing me and not there out of need or desperation. That means some financial and emotional stability. I don't care if they invest, haha, but I want their life more or less in order. I had one regular I really loved seeing (we met 30-40 times a year for almost three years), but towards the end he started asking me for some extra above our (already generous) agreed-upon fee - first to pay his phone bill, then to pay for something else - until almost every week was a new need. I believe drugs became an issue for him, though I didn't see any signs, but I stopped seeing him because I wanted a lover (and he was a great one) but not a dependent.
  8. I think this is a semantic thing, just like asking if someone hiring men for sex can be "straight". It all depends on your definition. I have many work colleagues (and even clients) whom I call friends, but the are in no way the same as my social friends or my childhood friends or my friends with whom I have (or had) a sexual relationship. They're all described as friends, but the nature and the closeness of the relationships vary enormously.
  9. Do any of his other stats need correcting? That metric to English system translation can be a bitch.
  10. What is this guy doing in a football stadium dressed like that? Not that I'm complaining, but I can't understand it.
  11. I don't look at other client profiles that often, but once it a while i look at the profile of a client who has left a review of a provider I'm interested in. It helps me better understand whether the review is relevant to my likely experience with the provider.
  12. Tried again today, and I am now seeing some spicy video content that I was never able to see before with my non-premium membership, though there are still photos and videos that I don't have access to. Not sure what's going on with rent.men, but this is a change I won't complain about.
  13. Just looked. Access to videos has not changed for me, a non-premium member. Alas.
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  15. I have the same problem distinguishing between masseurs and sex workers, particularly when the masseur makes a point of emphasizing his therapeutic skills. Just recently, I booked a therapeutic massage with a provider discussed here (where it was said that extras weren't on offer) and was very surprised when he started giving me a handjob. He read my surprise as offense and asked if I didn't want one. I clarified that I'd love one but didn't expect one and didn't ask for one out of respect. That started a long convo about how some of his clients always want one, some of his clients never do, and some ask for it from time to time, and he's just decided to go with the flow. Just wait until next time when I bring up other things we might do . . .
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