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I hire for overnights, whole day and multiple days quite often. Only occasion the provider would leave me unattended is when he go to gym in day hire - even then he would send me pic or live google location, without me asking.
For overnight, none has ever left me alone on the clock - we would either order room service, ubereat or go out together looking for food. 
Call me paranoid, but i would question a provider who left me alone on the clock twice each for 1,5hr in an overnight hire - unless i have rejected their offer to go out together.
That said, agree with others that one to few hours hire remain best option if you were looking for an action packed session. Long hours hire should be for a well plan vacation - day spent on sightseeing, meals, outdoor funs and end with play.
I would never hire overnight that run past 3am so sleep wont be accounted into the business hours. Most provider ends up opting to stay for the night and leave after breakfast next day free of charge - granted no play whatsoever during those non-business hours, which is to be expected. 

I hire for overnights, whole day and multiple days quite often. Only occasion the provider would leave me unattended is when he go to gym in day hire - even then he would send me pic or live google location, without me asking.
For overnight, none has ever left me alone on the clock - we would either order room service, ubereat or go out together looking for food. 
Call me paranoid, but i would question a provider who left me alone on the clock twice each for 1,5hr in an overnight hire - unless i have rejected their offer to go out together.
That said, agree with others that one to few hours hire remain best option if you were looking for an action packed session. Long hours hire should be for a well plan vacation - day spent on sightseeing, meals, outdoor funs and end with play.
I would never hire overnight that run past 3am so sleep wont be accounted into the business hours. Most provider ends up opting to stay for the night and leave after breakfast next day free of charge - granted no play whatsoever during those non-business hours, which is to be expected. 

My not-so-trusting self would instantly go 'he deff is meeting other client during those hours'. Especially there was no play during your overnight hire thus he is not physically exhausted.
Had one travelling provider did this one time - but i was the 'other client' and not the one hiring him for a weekend. He ditch his client to meet me whilst his client was taking an early night.

My not-so-trusting self would instantly go 'he deff is meeting other client during those hours'. Especially there was no play during your overnight hire thus he is not physically exhausted.
Had one travelling provider did this one time - but i was the 'other client' and not the one hiring him for a weekend. He ditch his client to meet me whilst his client was taking an early night.

I hire for overnights, whole day and multiple days quite often. Only occasion the provider would leave me unattended is when he go to gym in day hire - even then he would send me pic or live google location, without me asking.
For overnight, none has ever left me alone on the clock - we would either order room service, ubereat or go out together looking for food. 
Call me paranoid, but i would question a provider who left me alone on the clock twice each for 1,5hr in an overnight hire - unless i have rejected their offer to go out together.
That said, agree with others that one to few hours hire remain best option if you were looking for an action packed session. Long hours hire should be for a well plan vacation - day spent on sightseeing, meals, outdoor funs and end with play.
I would never hire overnight that run past 3am so sleep wont be accounted into the business hours. Most provider ends up opting to stay for the night and leave after breakfast next day free of charge - granted no play whatsoever during those non-business hours, which is to be expected. 

I hire for overnights, whole day and multiple days quite often. Only occasion the provider would leave me unattended is when he go to gym in day hire - even then he would send me pic or live google location, without me asking.
For overnight, none has ever left me alone on the clock - we would either order room service, ubereat or go out together looking for food. 
Call me paranoid, but i would question a provider who left me alone on the clock twice each for 1,5hr in an overnight hire - unless i have rejected their offer to go out together.
That said, agree with others that one to few hours hire remain best option if you were looking for an action packed session. Long hours hire should be for a well plan vacation - day spent on sightseeing, meals, outdoor funs and end with play.
I would never hire overnight that run past 3am so sleep wont be accounted into the business hours. Most provider ends up opting to stay for the night and leave after breakfast next day free of charge - granted no play whatsoever during those non-business hours, which is to be expected. 

I hire for overnights, whole day and multiple days quite often. Only occasion the provider would leave me unattended is when he go to gym in day hire - even then he would send me pic or live google location, without me asking.
For overnight, none has ever left me alone on the clock - we would either order room service, ubereat or go out together looking for food. 
Call me paranoid, but i would question a provider who left me alone on the clock twice each for 1,5hr in an overnight hire - unless i have rejected their offer to go out together.
That said, agree with others that one to few hours hire remain best option if you were looking for an action packed session. Long hours hire should be for a well plan vacation - day spent on sightseeing, meals, outdoor funs and end with play.
I would never hire overnight that run past 3am so sleep wont be accounted into the business hours. Most provider ends up opting to stay for the night and leave after breakfast next day free of charge - granted no play whatsoever during those non-business hours, which is to be expected. 

My not-so-trusting self would instantly go 'he deff is meeting other client during those hours'. Especially there was no play during your overnight hire thus he is not physically exhausted.
Had one travelling provider did this one time - but i was the 'other client' and not the one hiring him for a weekend. He ditch his client to meet me whilst his client was taking an early night.

I hire for overnights, whole day and multiple days quite often. Only occasion the provider would leave me unattended is when he go to gym in day hire - even then he would send me pic or live google location, without me asking.
For overnight, none has ever left me alone on the clock - we would either order room service, ubereat or go out together looking for food. 
Call me paranoid, but i would question a provider who left me alone on the clock twice each for 1,5hr in an overnight hire - unless i have rejected their offer to go out together.
That said, agree with others that one to few hours hire remain best option if you were looking for an action packed session. Long hours hire should be for a well plan vacation - day spent on sightseeing, meals, outdoor funs and end with play.
I would never hire overnight that run past 3am so sleep wont be accounted into the business hours. Most provider ends up opting to stay for the night and leave after breakfast next day free of charge - granted no play whatsoever during those non-business hours, which is to be expected. 

I would just say its a risky move to fly in a provider for a first meet. Might be $$$ wasted. I only fly in my regulars - same with multiple days hire or trip.

Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner.
Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. 
There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies.  This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby.
That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy. 

I would just say its a risky move to fly in a provider for a first meet. Might be $$$ wasted. I only fly in my regulars - same with multiple days hire or trip.

I would just say its a risky move to fly in a provider for a first meet. Might be $$$ wasted. I only fly in my regulars - same with multiple days hire or trip.

I wouldn't agree with that perspective, and I think that mindset will make you susceptible to this happening again in the future.
I would rephrase as: A lot of providers don't want to be honest because they are businessmen. Making you feel the way you feel is what they do to earn income, and is a skill.
You can't assume much about someone's personality or intentions based on their occupation only. You can't assume someone is "caring" because of what they do. All you can assume is they do what they do for money. What's the difference between a legitimately caring person and a charming sociopath? Most people probably can't tell the difference at first, if at all, and especially not when money is changing hands. That's why it's important to be clear with yourself what your boundaries are and stick to them.
I don't deny that there are legitimately caring providers out there; there certainly are. But if you think you have a special ability to fully know their motivations and intentions, you are deluding yourself and setting yourself up for that to happen again.

Ahhhh…now you’re playing both sides of the coin.
I call shenanigans.

It means to politely rebuff somebody's advances and hope they get the hint.
It's a good skill to learn, if you're a gay man.

If someone expressed to me, “I don’t think of you as a client anymore,” I don't think I would have believed them if it wasn't followed by "so I can't take your money anymore."
I also try to remind myself that any relationship involves give and take. I shouldn't be the one always giving, or taking. If every activity we do socially is dependent on my means, it's not a good start for a relationship. It's not always easy to do when you are "established." However, for the value I place on a good relationship, eating baloney sandwiches from a paper bag after a walk through the park seems a small sacrifice if that's all the other one can afford on the dates they pay for.

Echoing this. Lesson learnt hard way.

yeah, like I've never heard THAT before......😉
Narssi's ad is "frozen", not expired......they all come back!

We’ve all done it to one degree or another. Don’t beat yourself up about it, but do learn from your mistakes.
Feelings are ok. Losing grip on reality is not. It’s a fantasy. Nothing more, nothing less.
You have always been and will always be wrong when you think "a mutual thing" is developing. 
This really shouldn’t be a newsflash for you. Still, don’t let it ruin your fun. Learn to enjoy the fantasy.
What rooms? Where? Are you stalking him?
I hope I’m misreading this statement because it sounds creepy and unhealthy as fuck. 

 
You need to remember that this is a "hobby". It’s not real life. Don’t let your heart get involved. If you start developing real feelings for a provider, I suggest you disclose that to them immediately. Then stop seeing them. He may be fond of you. He may even "like" you. But in the words of Avenue Q, he doesn’t "like you, like you, like you like him". I know it hurts, and yes most if not all of us have had to go through the difficult phase you’re going through right now. The good news is, if you can learn to navigate it and stay in control of your emotions, this hobby can be damn fun. Like REAL fun. But if you need or want love, look somewhere else. You’re fishing in the wrong pond. 

A serious relationship with a provider only work when said provider is the one initiating. Even that, one should wonder whether (i) he has the means the finance said provider life (if said provider were to stop working) or (ii) he has mental capacity to share the provider with others (if said provider were to keep his business alive). 

A serious relationship with a provider only work when said provider is the one initiating. Even that, one should wonder whether (i) he has the means the finance said provider life (if said provider were to stop working) or (ii) he has mental capacity to share the provider with others (if said provider were to keep his business alive). 

I’m sorry to hear this. It sounds like the guy you hired is indeed a caring person and cares about your feelings which must make it worse. However clearly despite being passionate with you he doesn’t share your feelings. I think sometimes clients misread passion as indicative of deeper feelings, especially if you include kissing. I love kissing but I’m careful as to how it’s perceived.
I totally understand his non response when you told him you loved you felt when with him. It’s similar to situations I have had when it appears that a client is ‘crossing a line’. They say things like that, they start sharing quite personal things, and they send lots of messages. It becomes really difficult to remain friendly, so as to maintain the relationship (in essence a commercial relationship) whilst keeping a distance. Sometimes you just have to respond with silence because to say ‘I like you but if it wasn’t for the payment I wouldn’t be here’ is to let too much daylight in upon magic and is personally hurtful. No one wants to do that to a client so you just say nothing and hope the message gets through. 
I hope you’re able to see it now in hindsight for what it was. If you hire someone, regardless of how it appears, always remember that if it wasn’t for the money he almost certainly wouldn’t be there, and if you’d like that to change it’s up to him to initiate it. 
 

 

I scheduled overnights with first time hookups to gain experience when I was new to the hobby. Now I choose overnights to enjoy the extended time in and out of bed with regulars. I found that the rate goes down and the time goes up when we are both having fun. It's a nice option and a bargain when you develop win-win relationships.

Echoing other poster that $2,5k for 5/6ho is $$$$$. Better be an epic sex for that rate.