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You are certainly not alone.  I was (and still am) in the exact same boat.  I am always 100% honest with everyone I met and told them about this.  I go as far as, “I really don't know how to do this and I really don't know what I'm doing.  Please stop me and tell me if I’m doing something wrong.”  All of them shrugged/laughed it off.  Nobody seemed to care.  There’s no need to worry about it.  In fact, I sometimes tell them to show me how to do it "properly."  I treat them as my mentors with benefits.

Thanks all for the great feedback. I connected with a well reviewed provider and we have been discussions different guys and what the time together would look like. Very positive experience so far and really looking forward to making this fantasy a reality.

An 18 yo acquaintance , decided to start escorting. I asked him if he has the stomach for it and he replied, I go only with rich and good looking people. Probably many others think the same and this is a segment of escorting this forum is neglecting.

I've been that "wing" guy, and recommend that approach. It allows you to just focus on your enjoyment and not worry about the logistics. If there is a need to retrieve someone from the lobby, he can be the one to do it. The incentive for him is he gets paid for the longer appointment. 
As others have said, there is no issue with the guys overlapping and seeing each other. If one of them wants to stick around and participate with the next guy at the door, just be clear whether you will compensate him for the extra time. You could say something like you're welcome to stay, but I only brought enough cash for the one hour (or however long you've booked).
As long as everyone is reasonably discreet and you keep noise under control, the hotels should not care. People book hotels to have sex, it's not a secret. Though I haven't done one of these group scenarios in a 5-star hotel, I've done plenty in respectable 4-stars like Marriott. 
And as been discussed, be realistic about your stamina. It can be a great fantasy to have a lineup of men coming to the door on the hour every hour, but most guys get worn out after the third guy or so. I like @liubit's suggestion of timing spread out over a slutty weekend. 

I misunderstood the assumption of the question when I read the title of this thread, because it immediately reminded me of one of the most important episodes in my life.  I was traveling alone and checked into a gay guest house on Cape Cod, and in the lobby I got into a conversation with another guest. He told me he was traveling with a friend, and it was his friend's birthday: he was trying to assemble a group of guests for a dinner at a nearby restaurant to celebrate his friend's birthday, and he invited me to join the group. I was a stranger in town and didn't know where I would eat, so I said I'd be happy to join the party of about 8 men which he had assembled.  At the large round restaurant table, I found myself seated next to the birthday boy. We got into an animated conversation, and at one point I realized that no one else was conversing: they were all watching the two of us. Well, of course, later that night the two of us ended up in bed in my room. He and his friend checked out the next day to continue their trip, but before they left, birthday boy and I made arrangements to meet at his home in NY when our travels around New England were over. We did, and we ended up living together for the next 56 years.

You have to use a VPN to read any text reviews on a provider's page as it's blocked in the USA. Read this thread:
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The first time he can recite word-for word a full scene from The Golden Girls. 

This would be my definition:
But I wouldn't say just making out would count as losing virginity. So maybe it would be the first time you got into each others' pants... 

His listing has expired, so maybe he's taking a break.
I've done a couple of group appointments with him, and think really highly of him. I agree with everything @Wings246 says. Amazing hard bod, and that ass! One time I saw him he was clean shaven, the other time bearded, so if you have a preference you should check. I thought he was really hot both ways. 

This would be my definition:
But I wouldn't say just making out would count as losing virginity. So maybe it would be the first time you got into each others' pants... 

His listing has expired, so maybe he's taking a break.
I've done a couple of group appointments with him, and think really highly of him. I agree with everything @Wings246 says. Amazing hard bod, and that ass! One time I saw him he was clean shaven, the other time bearded, so if you have a preference you should check. I thought he was really hot both ways. 

He is not only my regular, but he is one of my favorites (if not my absolute favorite).  I have seen him many, many times within the last year; the most recent meeting took place a few days ago.
He is classically handsome (blonde, blue eyes), tall, soft/smooth skin, and stunningly muscular.  His body is insanely sculpted.  I have told him repeatedly that his RM pics don’t do him justice and he should upload better, more accurate ones.
He is truly versatile as described on his RM profile.  He can switch between a tender, romantic conversation and wild, animalistic sex acts effortlessly.  Communication is quick and easy.  He fulfills all my special requests each and every time.
You need to see for yourself.

Thanks for the insights and welcome to the forum!
I’m sure lots of guys here would love to hear more about your experiences performing. 

Thanks for the insights and welcome to the forum!
I’m sure lots of guys here would love to hear more about your experiences performing. 

Thanks for the insights and welcome to the forum!
I’m sure lots of guys here would love to hear more about your experiences performing. 

I used to perform for parties and full production male revues. I have been out of the business for about 10 years because of my career. You do have to be careful about places that advertise a male revue. Most of them are fake listings. 
Some of the real shows are women only, but a few of them will allow men. I did work with Anthony Labrada and Jeff Rocker from https://strippersforyou.com/. It's a different Jeff than mentioned before. They are both straight, but welcomed everyone to the show. I know they used to tour on a regular basis, but I think after Covid they just do some shows here and there. 
I really miss performing. We had such a good time. I still am in great shape, but I would have to wear a mask like the WWE wrestlers so I don't get fired. Haha. 

(disclaimer: just for fun) 
As I was looking at some massage places near my place and surrounding neighborhoods, I saw one review from google maps that caught my eye. Mmhmm 🤣 we have to take notes on how to keep things PG from this guy.. 

OK, let’s start with. I’m not a lawyer and certainly not an immigration lawyer.
My advice if you’re worried about US customs finding something on your phone or laptop:
#1 (Safest option) Completely back up the device and wipe it before you cross the border. It’s pretty simple to do and certainly not illegal. If it’s not on you in the no-man’s-land of immigration, they can’t search it without a warrant. In no-man’s-land, anything on you is fair game. And no, you don’t have a right to a lawyer in no-man’s-land. However, this will be seen as suspicious so be prepared for a long delay and interrogation if you get stopped with a wiped device. A non-US citizen will likely be denied entry for carrying a wiped device.
#2) At the very least, turn off your biometric unlocking function, put your phone in airplane mode (in theory they’re not allowed to search your “cloud based data”), and power down your device, before you get anywhere near the boarder. They can’t force you to unlock the phone without a warrant, but they can deny entry for non-US citizens who refuse to comply. And even though US citizens can’t be denied entry, they can confiscate the phone from anyone for “forensic investigation”. This is not as good on option as people think it is. They will still detain you for hours, harass you endlessly, keep your device for months, and again, you won’t have access to a lawyer.
#3 Use an OS that has a wipe/kill function built into it. IMHO, this is by far the worst option. No, they won’t get the data, but you will be facing major charges. To them it’s them same as flushing a bag of cocaine down the toilet while they police are knocking on your front door. Unless you forgot to do #1, and what’s on your device will lead to your death or several decades in jail, this is probably a bad option.
#4 There is no great option. Keep as much “crap” off your devices as possible. Rest assured that searches are relatively rare:
For a quick AI search:

U.S. Customs and Border Protection (CBP) searched 55,318 electronic devices last year.   Search Breakdown Basic searches: 50,922 manual checks conducted without required suspicion. Advanced searches: 4,396 forensic or data-copying checks requiring reasonable suspicion. U.S. citizens: 13,590 searches involved devices belonging to American citizens. Context: This total represents a 17.6% increase from the prior year, affecting a tiny fraction (roughly one per 6,800) of total travelers processed Of course statistics don’t matter if you’re “the one”.

Just back from a weekend in Montreal and first time in a long time that I haven’t been in the depths of winter.
Whenever I’ve been previously I’ve typically favoured the vibe at Stock but something felt off there this time. Front of house and bar staff really friendly but on the Thursday when I got there it was cabaret before the dancers started around 11. It’s not really what I went for and the crowd emptied out steadily after the cabaret. There was quite a limited number of dancers and by around midnight that had dwindled further. I gave it another chance on the Friday and whilst it was busier and there were a few more dancers the vibe was still off. I had one private with a dancer that I found somewhat mechanical and ended it after 2 songs.
 
I’ve never previously clicked with Campus but was very pleasantly surprised this time. Stopped in after Stock on Thursday and was immediately struck with the comparison- loads of dancers more nudity on stage and much busier. Had 3 privates over 2 nights there and was never disappointed. The dancers felt much more like they were enjoying it and wanted to be there and the private booths were busy. 
 
At both bars I was approached by dancers I was interested in but too early in the night to want a private right then. In both cases I indicated I was interested and they  should come back to me. The dancer at Stock never did and he left the bar before I did. The dancer at Campus checked in, had a decent chat with me despite it being busy and I had a great private with him as a result 
 
if/when I go back to Montreal it’s Campus I’ll be prioritising next time 

This is so very true.  Even for those who claim they do kiss, the intensity varies widely.  It can range from a polite, perfunctory goodbye kiss on the lips to the most lustful and animalistic, devour-you-alive French action.  And the exact same person can behave very differently depending on his horniness and willingness during a particular encounter.  So you will never know unless you try.

I believe he is the only one who is qualified to share that information.