nate_sf

There is a unique eroticism to hotel encounters: coming through the anonymous public mystery of the lobby, and then through an elevator and hallway to a door to a room, beyond which pleasure waits. It will always work for me, whether the hotel is budget or elegant.

I do enjoy watching certain types of gay porn and think it's pretty hot. And I love this forum since it has some really GREAT porn recommendations.
But on the hiring side, it's not actually what drives me to hire on RM specifically- Even though RM caters to and is intended for a gay male audience it's really the only place I can find reputable and safe providers that might accept female clients.  Where I'm located the websites sites targeting a female client audience to advertise "straight" male escorts have fake listings filled with sexual predators, or "fake" fly-by-night guys looking to monetize their sex life but have no intention of providing any professional service. I think Cowboys for Angels is the one exception, but none of their providers are in my area. 
on RM even the "straight" providers will have taken male clients and gotten good reviews from them, which validates that they are indeed a "professional" escort. If some do porn professionally that just serves to bolster their reputation as an escort, that's a plus but it doesn't increase their sex appeal for me. I'm largely motivated to avoid "fake" escorts and sexual predators masquerading as "straight escorts", so RM is the site I hire from: it's where the professionals tend to be. I'm not saying the RM might not have it's scammers, but they're easier to spot and filter out by sticking to the ones who have decent reviews and their profiles contain information/photos/ links to their social media accounts with longevity to validate that they've been escorting a while. 
 

I truly like big guys, and older guys, and big older guys. Grandpa bears have their fans! 

I truly like big guys, and older guys, and big older guys. Grandpa bears have their fans! 

I truly like big guys, and older guys, and big older guys. Grandpa bears have their fans! 

I truly like big guys, and older guys, and big older guys. Grandpa bears have their fans! 

I've only been stiffed once. It was a forum member, during one of the DC meetups. Both clients and providers warned me ahead of time that he was known to pull stunts, so I wasn't surprised when at the end of the session he claimed to have lost his wallet. He put on quite the act, trying to look panicked and all. "Where is my wallet? OMG, I've lost my wallet!!!" I just sat and watched his performance for a couple of minutes, then showed him the door. (For what it's worth, I don't believe he posts on this forum anymore, let alone attend any of the events)

Hi all, I'm the provider.
This thread is so full of tall-tales that it's cracking me up! 🤣
I'm vers, maybe even more top. All my clients so far have been bottoms and we've had a lot of fun 😀. 
I am financially independent; I'm not coming away from some previous "sugar daddy" arrangement, lol; I wasn't "put out on the curb," by a recent breakup (that suggestion had me floored! 🤣).
I haven't had any "open house" events, for prospective "sugar daddies" (lol🤣) but something like an "open house" for anyone interested in meeting me sounds like a fun idea if enough guys are interested 😃.
I say that I don't want to meet guys who are in exclusive relationships because I would feel like I'm hurting their partner. As an empath, that wouldn't feel right. 
My images are up-to-date and from modeling gigs in over the past year. I dabbled in escorting in college years ago but I haven't been active in the industry since then. 
I'm doing this, frankly, because I enjoy giving intimacy, and it's fun to earn income from something that I enjoy. 

I am old. In my honesty, I tend to  ramble in my conversation. Even the house cat regards me with scorn. Too, I am not given to indulging my critics in their diatribes.  My recommendation to you is to forego my posts if you find them tedious in the reading. Succinctly put, shove off,  sailor.

I've only been stiffed once. It was a forum member, during one of the DC meetups. Both clients and providers warned me ahead of time that he was known to pull stunts, so I wasn't surprised when at the end of the session he claimed to have lost his wallet. He put on quite the act, trying to look panicked and all. "Where is my wallet? OMG, I've lost my wallet!!!" I just sat and watched his performance for a couple of minutes, then showed him the door. (For what it's worth, I don't believe he posts on this forum anymore, let alone attend any of the events)

I love this! Someone find a scriptwriter and we can all be executive producers 🥳

It depends on the site. Rent.men locked all the fun pictures whereas you can still see them on rentmen.eu

I was with a client yesterday and he said he can no longer see dick pics, even when logged in and viewing his favorites. He has a basic membership, not premium, so as @ShortCutie7 suggests, I think this is a move to get more people to pony up for premium. 

I'm just seeing a dark screen.  Oh wait, I need to turn my computer on.

I can see some very nice pictures of a sexy man on a beach with his cock viewable on rentmen.eu (link below😊😘)
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So he's both a sexual fantasy fuck AND a neighbor who you know and care about. BUT spending an extra $50 is unreasonable ??? 🤔 
My bullshit-meter is going off the charts. 

 

The whole thing is hilarious. 
Did everyone look up pseudologica fantastica? Because that's what this has proven to be. 😂😂😂

I was with a client yesterday and he said he can no longer see dick pics, even when logged in and viewing his favorites. He has a basic membership, not premium, so as @ShortCutie7 suggests, I think this is a move to get more people to pony up for premium. 

Just some thoughts and observations from my own personal experience....
I've hired on and off for over a decade.  I have found that I personally need a little 'chemistry' with someone to really 'get off'.  As such, I'm enjoy engaging with someone, usually over text or chat on RM, to get to know one another a bit - and I'm willing to compensate for that time.  Yes, it includes what we're both 'into', and can include any questions about actually meeting and anything that entails, but I also like to find what else we could enjoy together - food, movies, video games, theater, sexual fantasies, how to please each other.
I think many guys are surprised I'm willing to pay for chat given the very understandable attitude about endless chatting that leads to nothing or a provider who feels like they are being used for just sex talk.  I respect my possible provider's time is valuable and therefore I should be willing to invest in a lengthier discussion for a 'vibe check'.  Its led to more repeat situations and some longer term regulars.  
Just wanted to give you what my expectations would be if I was the one approaching you....
Have a rate, just for chatting - I don't think the same rate as actually meeting should apply because we can both multi-task and you can continue to be available to 'meet' with another client.  But if you're just hanging, and don't mind texting or messaging, I guess - why not?
I'm respectful of your time, please be respectful of mine - The biggest turn off is agreeing to chat, but then having to wait several minutes or hours or DAYS for a response - not cool - especially if I establish an expectation to be responsive and you agreed.  I also appreciate you have a life and others maybe approaching, but I don't think its a bad expectation that we can at least chat 20-30 minutes uninterrupted.  I'm not expecting instantaneous responses, but more than like 5 minutes can kill the vibe.  That being said - life happens - if you need to leave or I need to pause the chat for any reason, its cool.   It also doesn't mean it has to be a hard 'time allotment' either - I have a few guys that I text with often, and just shoot them something for some 'digital companionship'.
Given the likelihood of electronic funds transfer for chat... - Although I'm not super paranoid about sending something on something like CashApp, the digital world we live in is changing.  Visa walking away from RM is a perfect example.  Do you really need a CashApp name like "PoundYou4$$$"?  I made that up to be funny, but have had a couple that are similar.  May be a personal thing, but lets not make it obvious!
Don't make me do all the talking - Hopefully you feel comfortable enough to ask me questions.  Be engaging.  Take an interest.  I'm willing to invest to get to know you, but hoping you will want to get to know me.   
Certainly open to advice or suggestions, but thought I would share my experience!
 
Also wouldn't mind paying a provider I might want to hang with IRL to play video games with online - if you are out there, hit me up!  Will compensate you for playing time!

Welcome to the forum. As for Gold level, yes you must. The basic subscription listings get lost in the back pages. 
Best of luck to you! 

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This has been my experience. For years I listed as vers but I’m rarely if ever asked to bottom, do I switched to listing as vers/top. The other day I was thinking of switching to listing as just top since that’s where the demand is, and I gotta admit I love topping guys. 

Moderator comment here: let’s get back on the topic. @KensingtonHomo and @pubic_assistance, appreciate you both - but please stop or take it to DM’s. See that leading asterisk I added to the title…that means moderators are watching the thread.

My only other advice is to rent a hotel room.  Of course it doesn’t have to be fancy — as long as it’s clean, comfortable, and a good distance from your neighborhood, parents’ workplace(s), parents’ hangouts, etc.  If you book a hotel across the street from the parents’ favorite restaurant, Murphy’s Law, you’ll be walking into the hotel together as the parents are pulling up for dinner, eek!
Parents:  “Son, what were you doing with the neighbor last night, going into the Courtyard?”
Son:  fumbles a bit … “We were grabbing dinner at the restaurant.”
Parents:  “But the Courtyard doesn’t have a restaurant, not even a snack bar.”
oh gawd, so awkward …