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12 hours ago, azdr0710 said:

Any current RM profile of his to know who to be cautious with nowadays?

If I see any again, I’ll be sure to post here ✅ 

Well, that’s a ringing endorsement!

I will give a deposit if I get a good vibe. And sense of a bad vibe, nope. I’ve been screwed over giving money up front more than once. No more. 

FWIW, he changes profiles a lot on RM, with different but often similar names. He also uses the same pictures. As I said, caveat emptor…

On 9/19/2023 at 7:10 PM, NJmusclelover said:

Texted him twice as he’s in vegas right now , he doesn’t bother to text back just sends an onlyfans link 

Because it’s just about scamming guys for him. I was a victim of that. He’s the reason I’m very cautious about paying anything before meeting. 

I’ve actually had some terrible experiences trying to book ahead. And some folks on this site have also tried explain to me why it was my fault for wanting to book ahead.

I prefer to book ahead for two reasons, among many. 1) I’m a planner and need to accommodate work schedules and 2) I need to also have a cushion financially. It’s point 2) right now that’s kept me from hiring for a few

months now…Health bills are real…

As a client, I have an unwritten rule, among many: if the provider talks about himself a lot, or has a way of turning what you say back to himself, he’s not a rehire. I deal with enough narcissists in my daily life to pay a guy who should catering to my whims to have to play therapist or cheerleader for him. I’m not paying to please his ego. 

On 12/7/2023 at 3:47 AM, Jamie21 said:

Keep records. Date, time, what the client liked (and didn’t like), what happened etc. Just brief notes, so that should the client book again, possibly years later, you know what gets them going.

I wish more providers did this. Even when you tell some providers what you like right before you meet, they act cluelessly when you do get together. Either they weren’t paying attention, or worse and more likely, don’t care.

On 12/6/2023 at 6:43 PM, nycman said:

You need thick skin if you’re going to play in the Grindr et al. sandbox.

People are cruel. And if you care, you’ll get hurt. 

No…like seriously THICK skin.

Over the years I can remember exactly two "really fun" hook ups from the apps. That’s a really shitty return on the huge time investment. Not to mention the tremendous ego damage.

Just hire. It’s so much easier. 

Armadillo skin! 😂 

Nobody loves you when you're old.

You could just say that. Of course “nobody” is hyperbolic, but the point is there. People value youth and vitality. Even loved ones will forget you when you no longer serve the same relational benefits as you once did. Put someone in a nursing home, and it gets even worse. Nursing homes are simply geriatric prisons.

Thesis: the most genuine providers don’t charge a fortune and don’t bean count. Genuine for this purpose means honest, truthful, well mannered, and sincere, with an air of politeness and interpersonal awareness that aren’t forced.

Let’s keep the discussion civil. It can evolve as it goes along, but I request that moderators remove or censor any remotely ad hominem responses toward forum members. Let’s stay “on topic,” as it were. The topic doesn’t involve calling each other names, calling into question someone’s intelligence, or calling anyone anything disparaging, even remotely. Politics and religion aren’t not allowed.

On 12/2/2023 at 1:42 PM, nycman said:

I’m stunned that you even got him to reply. Several times I reached out ahead of time on various trips to Vegas. Never once did he reply.

I’ve had “providers” never respond. Neither on RM or by text. Makes me wonder how you’re ever supposed to make an appointment!

Gymnastkid of Long Island is especially notorious for this. 

18 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

I have the impression those providers who only do same days are just treating their clients like so much merchandise. Get in in and get it out.

I say ATMs

17 minutes ago, Luv2play said:

. It would be like going to the supermarket and going through the checkout with my purchase.

What does this mean?

He’s clearly a time waster. 

On 11/15/2023 at 2:55 PM, peter831 said:

Anyone else with recent experience? Please send me a private message.

Sorry for the late response. I just PMed you.

…I’m still alive.

I had some major health incidents happen. Needless to say, that’s set back hiring plans for some time. 😞 I’m doing better. But the checking account isn’t. Thankfully it happened AFTER the deductible was realized for the year. But alas, hiring plans have been put on hold for some time.

Disappointing for me about hiring. 😢 

Disappointing for some of you that I’m not gone! 😂 

16 hours ago, NJF said:

Ok. Now tell me you always strictly observe the speed limits and obey every laws and ordinances 😂. I had a classmate just like that. 

I don’t. It’s also not right. Or acceptable. I just don’t get caught. I'm delusional enough to think that breaking the law, whatever it is, isn’t wrong. Facing consequences and being wrong are too very different things…

We all do things that are wrong; but just because everyone does it doesn’t mean it’s not wrong anymore. 

On 9/26/2023 at 3:03 PM, NJF said:

Things are not all black or white. It is safe to say everyone lies about their size. Not everyone lies about their STD status. There is a difference there.

No. Disagree. Vehemently.

Pay shaving? How much is too much and what's acceptable? Escort quotes me $1800 for an overnight, I say I’ll pay it, but show up with $1500. What matters is that I’m a nice guy, right?

Lunacy. The idea that lying is somehow understandable and acceptable! 

On 9/26/2023 at 3:03 PM, NJF said:

Things are not all black or white. It is safe to say everyone lies about their size. Not everyone lies about their STD status. There is a difference there.

No. Disagree. Vehemently.

Bringing up a resume is apt. Lying (“embellishing”) on a resume is unethical and fraudulent and if an employer found out, wouldn’t hire the applicant or would fire them. Because its wrong.

 I suppose it’s fine for a provider to embellish that they are STD free and on Prep too, even if they’re not! 

Just now, marylander1940 said:

I guess you never embellished your resume for a job interview or misrepresented your stats in online dating. 

You guess right! 

I rarely have escorts text in such articulate ways as is being shown here. Nor do I get many who actually provide complete information to questions ask as shown here.

My experience has been that if you ask more than one question at a time, you get short answer to one of them, either the first or the last. And often communicating happens with emojis…

I had it happen to me yesterday actually…about November and flights. 

On 9/24/2023 at 4:31 PM, marylander1940 said:

How old should this 55 y/o escort advertise?

If he’s 55, 55.