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so you said no.......   what is there to refund?  your post makes no sense. 

I think its ok if they say the age they look like, rather than the age they are. 

good market rate. 

I concur. 
 
I took the plunge and definitely recommend it.  Despite being incredibly handsome he was really down to earth - I really like that all of his photos are essentially selfies rather than model shots in a studio - but this guy is a genuine stud and could be in porn or model easily.
The apartment was in a great location. Made me feel really comfortable and relaxed despite feeling a tad intimidated initially by how handsome he was.  
10 out 10 recommend. 
 

I think it pays to be more direct and convey some sense of urgency if you want an actionable response. 
 
Like “ Looking to get a 90 minute massage on Tuesday evening. Are you available and how much do you charge incall?”

and here's that link.......😉
https://rentmen.eu/Raygarn
 

I have a bit of a fantasy of being with Twins or maybe brothers. 
 
Anyone know of any providers that do this? 

I had my own cousin. 😉

I have a good sense of time - I usually know, within 5 or 10 minutes or so,  what time it is.  I just know when I have about 15 minutes left on the clock - time enough to dress after a quick shower.  So. I'm the clockwatcher.

Maybe @BenjaminNicholas should READ this carefully. If he were easy to work with, he’d probably wouldn’t be on here so much trying to make shit out of nothing.

Hey provider, what can you do to get repeat business if you would rather see client A instead of client B?
I get repeat customers everyday in my business as I’m easy to work with.  My repeat customers get more attention and better pricing.  
That’s how I look at this process as well.  I try to make myself a valued client.  It has typically worked out well for me. 
 

I see they took away where you called me a bitch. 
Watch your mouth, Ben! You don’t know anything about me.
I’ve read countless comments from members here talking about how this provider doesn’t watch the clock, this provider is not a clock watcher, and so on. So that simply made me pose the question to providers: what makes you not watch the clock?
If you didn’t like the question, don’t be a “little bitch” or dick about it. Be a man, and fucking move on!! Pretty straightforward to me!!

Thanks. Your reply was insightful. Tells me you’re a clockwatcher. Among other things.

'Hey escorts, what makes you work for free'
I'm sure the replies will be incredibly meaningful, insightful and inspirational.

As a client, that's the experience I have found to hold true most often.

300 is the standard. 
guys that do porn or what ever may charge over that.
New guys might try to charge more than that because they have watched Pretty Woman too many times and have Hollywood expectations of the business. 
 
 
 
 

I have a bit of a fantasy of being with Twins or maybe brothers. 
 
Anyone know of any providers that do this? 

I have seen some providers who set an alarm timer for when you arrive/go.   I have no problem with this. 
In my experience though - most providers just give gentle subtle clues about when time is up, if you can read social cues you should have no problem. I have stayed longer and chatted or just generally hung out, but I think it is kind of rude to go out of your way to try and stay over time and not pay - which is what you are essentially asking.  
Overstaying your welcome in any scenario is not cool - I think a good motto and social etiquette is "Go before you are asked. Don't wait to be asked to leave."  
The best way to get extra time is to book and pay for it. 
 

I have a bit of a fantasy of being with Twins or maybe brothers. 
 
Anyone know of any providers that do this? 

I have a bit of a fantasy of being with Twins or maybe brothers. 
 
Anyone know of any providers that do this? 

I wouldn't even call my parents without texting first. 
 
Always text first. 

I wouldn't even call my parents without texting first. 
 
Always text first. 

I wouldn't even call my parents without texting first. 
 
Always text first. 

I would not mention anything sexual in the first text massage, in case you have the wrong number.  You can mention that you are Okay with telephone calls.
Example:
You (1st message):  "Hello.  I'm John.  I saw your ad in XXX City.   Are you available for a 1 hour session this Friday evening?  I can travel or host in XXX neighborhood.  If available, what is the rate you charge?   I am willing to discuss more by phone call if you prefer"
Him:  "Yes, I am available on Friday.  I charge XXX for outcalls. Etc..."
You (2nd message):  "Great!  That rate works for me.  How's 8pm?  I see you are into kissing and water sports, which is what I'm looking for.  Your ad says "Ask Me" about safe sex; so are you okay if I use a condom when I top?  Feel free to call if you prefer to discuss in person"
 
In summary, keep it short and sweet.  Don't specifically mention paying for a sex act when hiring in the United States.  Mention dates and city in the first message (in case he's traveling), but be careful about any more information in case you have the wrong number.  Try to ask your important questions in the 2nd text messages, and keep them simple so he can respond with "Yes, I'm fine with those activities" .  Don't waste his time with open ended questions such as "What do you enjoy to do in bed?" that require too much of his time to answer and may not answer what you really wanted to know.
Happy hiring!