DunwoodyGuy

PM me the masseur's name and I will reach out to him and inquire about his erotic massage.

For $555 an hour, it sounds like you get a lot of Blarney from IrishSensuality. I sent a private message to his one reviewer on RentMasseur, asking if the experience was really work eleven hundred dollars.

So here's what I posted on RentMasseur: KittenBear gives the best sensual/erotic massage I've found in Atlanta--actually, one of the best I've had anywhere. His much-mentioned big paws caress you, his strong shoulders and arms envelop you, and his massively muscular legs squeeze you into bliss. Many erotic masseurs claim to incorporate body-to-body contact, but KittenBear does so with astonishingly sensual movements--when you feel the strength of his entire body glide from your feet up to the top of your head and he presses the weight of that big body into yours, OMG--you feel connected and cared for. And then there's that smile! Other commenters have described his massage using words like beautiful, sweet, s*e*x*y, skilled, warm, welcoming, intuitive, accommodating, attentive, and amazing...how could one massage be all that? Well, it is. I look forward to feeling KittenBear's paws on me again. And again.

I just had a massage with him last night and I'm also surprised there aren't more raves about him here. It was mind-blowingly good. I will post here later today after I leave my positive review on RentMasseur.

I've got extra Doxy if you need.

I think those ads say "big hands" to imply that other extremities are also large.

At any rate, despite your professed experience, I maintain that a generational shift has occurred and that among millennials and zillennials, the concept of "daddy" no longer has much or anything at all to do with the exchange of money. I simply don't think your anecdote represents the norm any longer.

Funny. Is that verbatim or are you paraphrasing? That doesn't sound like any chat I've ever had on Scruff or Grindr over the last 10 years ago or so. Even 15 years ago on Daddyhunt, the conversations never involved money. Are you sure you aren't remembering a conversation from the 1990s or 1980s? Also, the guys who chat with me looking for daddies are usually in their late 20s or 30s, certainly not 19!

He corrected it!

His RentMasseur profile still says "masseuse." I told him some guys would not hire him because that would indicate that he doesn't know what he's doing. He said thank you, but we'll see if he corrects it,.

Given the ease that apps provide for identifying oneself and connecting, the terms "daddy" and "zaddy" (a youngish, especially attractive daddy) have taken on a new meaning for gay millennials and zillennials, and that meaning has pretty much nothing to do with the age-old idea of a "sugar daddy." If a 30-so,ething hooks up with a 40-something, a 50-something or even a 60-something online, very rarely is money involved, unless of course the app is something like RentMen, where every connection is transactional. Of course, within the idea of "being into daddies" there are as many variations as there are individuals. As others have mentioned, some younger guys are attracted to the stability or confidence that comes with age (or seems to come with age) or a perceived psychological maturity or an ability to provide comfort or nurturing. Some younger guys want to be topped by a daddy figure, perhaps as a way of getting affection that was denied them by their actual father--even if the last thing in the world they want is to sexualize their own father. Others may be turned on by the idea of topping the daddy, perhaps as a way of getting revenge on an overly strict or withholding father. But others still may simply find it hot and not bearing any "dick-deflating" psychological scrutiny. The biggest difference between then and now can be attributed to the apps themselves and the remarkable ease and visibility they give to every possible desire, kink, or predilection: Thirty-five years ago, if you were young and into older men, you probably kept it to yourself and only acted on it when you went to a bar that was frequented by older men. Today, you put it right out there in your profile. For those of us old enough to have come out before AIDS and gay marriage, the visibility continues to shock.

So I got the 411 on the name and exactly what he does. PM me for details.

I kind of like it.🤔

Still don't get the name, but contacted him and his communications are as appealing as his pictures--but surprisingly tender, given the tough screen name. Will report...

I question the validity of this review. I was at MagicBlond's apartment, and everything I saw was spotless. The erotic massage was among the 4 or 5 best experiences I have had in lifetime of getting massages. This post has a sour taste to it and sounds VERY bogus.

Apologies for coming so late to this thread, but I usually look only at the Spas & Masseurs page. Speaking as a lifelong New Yorker (who now lives elsewhere)--and also speaking of someone who would jump at the chance to schedule a nice long session with you Simon!--I would say that , yes, unfortunately, New Yorkers would be wary of traveling outside the city. But when I lived in Midtown Manhattan and hired a masseur who was somewhere else, I would base my decision on how far the masseur was from a subway, PATH, or train stop. If a masseur was at an apartment or a hotel that was a block or two away from the station, I would go. I remember going pretty far out in Brooklyn and Queens, and taking the PATH train to Jersey City and Hoboken. I even once took MetroNorth to a hotel in White Plains. I never walked more than a few blocks, and I had some excellent experiences. SO...if you do it, and you find a place, be sure to state very clearly "One block from Journal Square" or "Two blocks from the Wilson Avenue stop on the L line." (I remember that guy still as one of my favorite massages ever!)

Meanwhile, poor Tyler! His thread is filled with bad karma. In deference to Tyler, I will no longer respond to nycman.

No. You're backtracking now and trying to make it seem as if you ALWAYS meant all of Manhattan or NYC, but before backtracking, you very clearly made the discussion about a mythical "upper Manhattan" in your mind. You said it was too "dangerous"--a dog-whistle if there ever was one--and the racist implication was crystal-clear. SO nobody's calling you a racist--we're just saying you said an outdated thing in a very racist manner, and now you're backtracking.

I suspect you were making some sort of weird, veiled racist comment about what you called "upper Manhattan," and now you're embarrassed and trying to spin it that you were always referring to NY as a whole.

None of which happened in UPPER Manhattan, so your point is still idiotic. And none of those things compare to how dangerous NYC was when I was growing up there in the 1970s and 1980s. Those were the good ol' days!

I still don't understand why.

What's wrong with Upper Manhattan?

Well, aren't you special.

Upselling in the middle of a session is an old and despicable practice, as old as, well, the oldest profession. The client is in a vulnerable state, having been relaxed and aroused, and any practitioner who takes advantage of that moment to weasel more money out of the client is, very simply, a thief.

I just had an absolutely perfect erotic-massage experience with Steve (NateArcher) in Palm Springs. Here's what I said on RentMasseur: ===== How do I express just how deeply and beautifully and intuitively Steve/Nate Archer touched me and held me and massaged me and soothed me--and healed me? I have sometimes said on this website, “This was one of the best massages I’ve ever had”—well, here it is 2 days after my session with Steve and I still feel like saying, “This was the BEST erotic massage I’ve ever had." He is tall and beautiful and soulful and kind---and incredibly s*e*x*y, and he read my mind and he read my body, and I wanted to stay on his table, in his hands forever.