DunwoodyGuy

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No, I'm not concerned with imaginary judgments. I have had so many more positive experiences in my years hiring than negative ones, for which I have left dozens of 5-star reviews. And I have had return experiences with a dozen or so of those guys, 2nd and 3rd sessions that were deeper and even more satisfying than the initial encounter. After a while (in life), you get to know that not everyone will like you--and you won't like everyone. But if I conduct myself respectfully toward everyone--even if they take offense at what I consider respectful--in the end, it's all good.

I reach out to multiple providers when I travel and after they respond, I reply with what I'm looking for. I try to be respectful of their time and attention, and sometimes I get accused of wasting their time. I have also been accused of "just jerking off," which is never true. (Well...at least not while I'm attempting to book a session...) If the provider takes offense at my communication, then we're not a match. But if the provider matches my attempt at respectful directness with a similar energy, then we're already ahead of the game. A comfort level has been established. And after the session I (almost) ALWAYS leave a review.

The key is to choose well and develop a way of asking that is simultaneously respectful and honest. Assuming often leads to disappointment, and making coded references may backfire on you, because codes can be misinterpreted. Worse still, if you ask aggressively or make demands, you will just come off as arrogant or entitled and get blocked. I try not to ask questions--even though I often end up doing so. I find it's much, much better to say what I like--again, respectfully and honestly--and see what the response is. If the response is negative--"I don't do that" or "No, I only do such-and-such"--then you have your answer. Thank him for his time and wish him the best. But if the response is positive--as it often is, if you've chosen well--then all you have to do is ask what the rate is and the when-and-where. Remember the guy you're chatting with is a human being. It's about the chemistry between two people, and he wants your interaction with him to be a positive experience just as much as you do, maybe more.

No face pic, no hire, no exceptions.

FYI I asked about kissing and mutual oral and his response was "I don't offer that."

I did. Wow. Will post on RentMasseur and here in a few days. But in the meantime, wow. (Did I say that already?)

I also had an amazing massage from Gabriel--mine was on Sunday. I will post a review on RentMasseur later this week. He is definitely a treasure.

Same with me. Life is too short to show up and have a bad surprise. That can also happen with outdated pictures, and you just have to deal with it, but I don't even continue the conversation if they refuse to show their face. A while ago, I arrived at a masseur's place and instantly saw that his pictures were several years old and his body was nowhere near as attractive as it was in the pictures. I went into the bathroom and thought briefly about leaving. But I was there because I had loved the the way he had described his massage. So I looked in the mirror and thought, "I'm not as attractive as I once was either. But at least I don't have to make a living with people judging my looks and contemplating walking out on me. I can cut this guy some slack." I undressed and got on his table and proceeded to have a magnificent experience. He may have gotten older and larger, but his skills and sensuality were probably stronger than ever, like a older singer who may have lost her high notes but now sings with deeper phrasing.

Hmmm... Why did you leave a "VCA" on your desk? Why did you expect us to know what a "VCA" is? And why be disingenuous and say "I'm not trying to interfere with this guy's business" when your initial post says "Avoid at all costs"? That certainly seems to fit the definition of interfering with the guy's business, doesn't it?

Um... How. Did. He. Get. Your. Number?

I can think of at least a dozen reasons, can't you?

Probably not if you're looking for a happy ending, but here are the medical requirements for massage to be covered: Just a moment... FSASTORE.COM

Oh.

To be clear, I'm not bothered by the ex-con aspect either. My initial question was whether or not it was real. Given the jocular tone of the rest of the description--including the "extraterrestrial" wordolay--I was wondering if it was just a fabrication of his obviously active imagination.

His rentmen description makes that claim right upfront. I put it in bold and red below: Description I can be addicting. "Ex-Marine. Ex-Convict. Ex-traterrestrial? Definitely Ex-traordinary 😎. Athletic muscle boy. My complete open-mindedness and compassion makes me susceptible to long lasting friendships. I choose to be happy and help others want happy as well. I can do cam chats/texting easily for full BFE. Looking for a little more than great ***? HMU. Sincerely yours, (Bro, Bud, Daddy, Little/Big Brother, Pup, Boyfriend, Idol, Dom/Sub, King, God, Hero, Jarhead, Friend)... Kevon McNair 😜"

Is he really an ex-con or is that just one of his role-plays?

And he's now asking 400. For what it's worth, I kinda like the poetry. It's a nice change from the usual cut-and-pasted menus. And he's so sexy I wouldn't mind at all if he whispered those words in my ear during sex.

I believe they're green.

I don't think the reviews are fake. Some of the reviewers have pictures on their RentMasseur profiles, and I recognize some of them from in and around Atlanta. I'll try and book a massage with him soon and report back.

I guess he's sending face pics now, because he sent me one. Handsome.

I was recently in Puerto Vallarta and found a terrific new practitioner who teaches naked yoga there and does Tantric bodywork. I had an amazing session with him and urged him to list on RentMasseur. A lot of the massage guys in PV use the word "tantra" to mean erotic touch without knowing what it is, but Tristan has a genuine spiritual practice and is able to combine a real understanding of Tantra with a very hot, very sexy sense of eroticism. I did his 90-minute treatment, which is pricey for PV, but he offers a 60-minute version, and I recommend it strongly. My review is the only one so far on the RentMasseur page: HvbibiFlow - Male Masseur, Gay massage in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur HvbibiFlow in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.

The stuff about "stocks/forex/crypto/commodity trading lessons" is s definite Red Flag, especially because his rambling About Me returns to the topic with "I also have 7 years experience with day trading and scalping (which means buying or shorting an asset and then closing the trade within a few hours to hopefully make a quick profit) and I can teach you how to analyze the charts with the best free indicators and oscillators, long and short assets(bet if the price is going to go up or down), and give you hundreds of tips to help you be successful." Hard pass.

I was in Chicago for a few days and saw Kyle (DeepIntuition) and was blown away. I left the following rave review on RentMasseur: DeepIntuition - Male Masseur, Gay massage in Chicago, IL | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur DeepIntuition in Chicago, IL offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue. Kyle is one of those masseurs who spoil you for all the rest. Communication was easy and direct--his profile here explains a lot and he sends a document that describes his approach in great detail. I read every word and booked immediately. The description seemed to be everything I had always wanted in a sensual massage, but in the end, it was more--so much more! The moment I walked into his massage room, I felt an instant connection to him--so instantaneous that it shocked me. His smile, his warmth, and his cat-like sensuality sent an erotic charge through me that only increased as the session progressed. I don't think I can adequately describe the way he combines deep-healing shiatsu-like pressure with erotic touch--it was literally like nothing I've ever experienced before--and I'm a longtime devotee of sensual massages. The best recommendation I can make is that I only saw him because I happened to be in Chicago for family, but I would consider a return visit just to see him again.