DunwoodyGuy

Nothing to haha about.

Sad to say, but you can't fix an addict. He has to want to help himself. Meanwhile, walk away immediately or you will become co-dependent.

That's one of the sexiest things I've ever seen.

This might just be me, but while I enjoy reading about people's positive experiences and sharing my own (always discreetly omitting sexual details that may fall under the YMMV rubric), I tend to distrust detailed negative experiences. When a reviewer or a member here goes into an extended rant about a provider, it often feels like a revenge post (at least to me), and my sympathy goes to the provider--not always, but often. I would much rather simply read someone saying "We didn't click but YMMV" or "We didn't connect but YMMV."

I was in DC and almost connected with him but my schedule got complicated. His communication was excellent and I look forward to connecting with him next time I'm in DC. He seems to be as sweet as he is sexy.

Check out this previous thread:

Most of those Grindr massage profiles are fake.

Anyone going? Anyone been there in the past? Any tips for making the most of it?

No deposit, no pre-pay, not ever. Walk away.

He's in DC this weekend.

Here's their REAL RentMasseur page. They're very nice guys and very sexy. Stronghandcouple - Male Masseur, Gay massage in Atlanta, GA | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur Stronghandcouple in Atlanta, GA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.

The profile is gone now.

Ya think? With words and phrases like these: "ethereal" "visage" "rakish "navigating my myofascial terrain" "I felt remade in the crucible of his touch" "his penetrating strokes reached places long ossified" "each surrender a testament to his masterful technique" "I yielded without resistance" and finally: "his adroit palms guiding my body in to the as of yet unrealized interstice between energized euphoria and total relaxation"

I saw him once--this was about 100 years ago--and my experience was similar to yours (although maybe not as romantic). I always regretted not going back.

I can see a kind of value in a prostate massage combined with the emotional work he claims to do, but I declined. Despite the way he described the sessions ("we dive deeper emotionally and spiritually into blocks in your life or areas that are challenging you"), there was something impersonal about his approach, even though he was very cheery and nice about it. I dunno. Maybe instead of humming and re-living trauma, a prostate massage is better as an UN-gloved finger and a guy whispering "Yeah...you like that don't you? You like my finger up your butt."

He does 60 or 90.

I give my dog a bully stick and she leaves us alone.

Get a hotel room?

Too much drama, mama! Walk away. ASAP would not be soon enough. Walk away and block his number.

Had a 90-minute sensual massage with him this afternoon, and he's wonderful!

Here's something I posted a few months ago that may be useful to you. Good luck--and ENJOY! === Over many years, I've developed a sensitivity to allowing mutual touch to be, well, mutual. In other words, I try not to get grabby right off the bat, and allow myself to relax and let the masseur do what it is he does well. If I've chosen someone who has a good reputation and I like the way he describes his massage and I like his reviews and any communication with him, I'm intrigued to experience what HE does. I always try to choose someone who can combine therapeutic techniques with sensual and erotic touch. I try not to choose someone who is therapeutic only--OR someone who has no therapeutic skills at all and is using the massage as a means of finding escort clients. No offense to escorts--some of my best friends are or have been escorts. But I'm looking for guys who have developed their individual ways of combining massage with sensuality and eroticism. So here's what I do--and what I DON'T do: I generally try NOT to grab and pull or interfere with his rhythm and technique. As he massages my back, I let my arms hang down the sides of the table, but I hold off touching his leg until he's done serious back and shoulder work. I just breathe into his touch. That creates a physical connection between us that is entirely in his control. It establishes that I respect him as a practitioner. And he of course can begin to "read" my body without his touch being overtly sexually charged. Once that mutual trust and respect has been established and he can see that he's got me moaning and groaning a little bit, I let my hand touch his leg. I might give it a little squeeze, but I definitely do NOT grab it--I still want HIM to be in control of where on my body he's touching me and how the massage progresses from therapeutic to to sensual. Relinquishing that kind of control is part of why I'm there. I try not to break the spell he is casting over me. I also try not touch his dick until he moves it near my hand. But once he does, I touch it and maybe hold it--but again, it's touching WITHOUT grabbing or breaking the mood. At this point he's probably massaging the inside of my thigh, maybe between my cheeks, maybe sliding his hand beneath my hips, maybe touching my balls and cock. If at that point he presses his crotch near my head, I might break the spell a little, raise my head and suck him--but just for a bit, again being careful NOT to signal that you want the massage to be over and all you want to do is cum and leave. Remember--he's not a trick and he's not just an escort--he's an erotic masseur. He's also a human being with a lot of joys and sorrows. And he's had experiences you can't even imagine. It's like a dance--but you have to let him lead. He can probably teach you a helluva lot about connecting physically, sensually, and erotically with another man. Whether it progresses further is up to the two of you. As they like to say on this board, your mileage may vary. But if you travel far...tip accordingly. All that to say that my advice is: Don't try to control it. Choose well. And allow yourself to let it happen.

Which public figure?

Physically, he's my ultimate Georgia-jock fantasy and he seems like a nice guy, but both times I messaged him, I ended up going with someone else.

You mean this one?

Okay. Deleted the pic and edited my post. But since you quoted my post, the picture is still visible in your comment. You need to edit your comment to delete it there.