DunwoodyGuy

If you eroticize massage, as many of us here do, the table provides the mystery that makes the encounter exciting. What will happen--and when? Or will nothing happen? Or will everything? The table establishes a therapeutic base from which there can be a natural progression to sensual and erotic. If the massage starts on a bed, the assumption is that it's going to turn into sex--and if it doesn't, there can be a feeling of disappointment.

Here's what I posted. It should be up later today or tomorrow: You've probably already been attracted to Jesse's muscular good looks and ginger hair, but what you don't know about this handsome young man is how strong his hands and forearms are and how deep and intuitive his touch is. He started at my feet, which surprised me, and slowly worked his way up my legs, alternating his powerfully deep pressure with softer gliding strokes up my hamstrings and quads and around my glutes and back down again. Sometimes he climbed on top of me, and I didn't realize how loudly I was moaning until I suddenly heard myself. The combination of hard and soft was intoxicating. By the time Jesse moved on to my upper body, I was in a kind of trance and like putty in his strong hands--and isn't that what we all want? I am still smiling a day later. and I will definitely be returning.

I will post my review on RentMasseur tomorrow, but I go to bed tonight with a big smile still on my face.

Those are two different people!

There are probably several hundred--or at least several dozen--in NYC to choose from, some good, some not-so-good. You can search for "Nuru" but many of those are not very skilled and there are many, many more who employ body contact without calling it Nuru. I don't think you'll find a thread like the one you're looking for. There are just too many.

Seeing him today.

I am insanely attracted to Asian muscle. Not exclusively--I have many similar extreme attractions, like ginger hair or muscular calves--but recently muscular Asian men draw me like moths to a flame.

Tough crowd.

His RentMassuer profile is now expired.

These things happen. Move on. Best not to start threads about it.

"I was reading a book the other day..."

This thread gave me a headache. It is the ultimate TL;DR.

In my experience, a request like that would break the mood and change the dynamic: If he slips his dick into your willing mouth during the massage, then he's controlling how erotic it gets. If you get up from the table and climb between his legs and start sucking him, it becomes an escort session for which he deserves a higher fee. Alternatively, you could ask the masseur in advance for a rate that includes sucking his dick. (Or hire an escort.) Others might disagree with me, but when I choose a sensual or erotic masseur, I try to choose carefully and then just let them do their thing.

Briefly. But it seemed more like a relative newbie who does PNP and assumed anyone coming to him would want to do it too. The deposit was ham-handed, not like something he did because he had been burned before but something he did because he thought it was okay to do. I don't think he anticipated me or anyone else having a negative reaction to the either the deposit or the drugs. So I have some compassion for him but NOT enough to book him.

Whatever.

On the contrary. You brought it up in a transparently oblique way that could only mean one thing: Tina. This is not the first time at the rodeo for any of us on COM. If you meant anything less than Tina, you would have said so. But, no, you chose to be vague and cutesy (or so you thought), and then said I shouldn't be guessing when you actually set up the guessing game yourself. Tina kills.

Which means it was meth.

What was the drug?

He "forgot his cocaine"? That sounds unlikely. Did he say what the "other drug" was?

Great responses in this thread--I hope you take them to heart. And speaking of hearts, how about considering changing your screen name from "bigfattie" to "BigHeart"?

I think you misunderstood--he wasn't suggesting a vodka-soda.

I don't get out of sorts about sex practices a person might enjoy that I don't. But this was not sex--this was DRUGS. Surely even you can see the difference.

Possibly in a PM, by request. I don't believe we should use Company of Men public forums for "revenge posts."

A few months ago, I transfered a little money from my checking account into Coinbase and converted the cash into Bitcoin. It all seems very safe and above board. I never thought I'd have anything to do with crypto, but I guess it's 2026. Never say never.

The really annoying thing about this particular request for a deposit (which I never do) is that his ad had expired, and I had just paid the $30 or whatever to reinstate his profile. Then he asks me for a deposit! (And offers drugs...)