DunwoodyGuy

His RentMassuer profile is now expired.

These things happen. Move on. Best not to start threads about it.

"I was reading a book the other day..."

This thread gave me a headache. It is the ultimate TL;DR.

In my experience, a request like that would break the mood and change the dynamic: If he slips his dick into your willing mouth during the massage, then he's controlling how erotic it gets. If you get up from the table and climb between his legs and start sucking him, it becomes an escort session for which he deserves a higher fee. Alternatively, you could ask the masseur in advance for a rate that includes sucking his dick. (Or hire an escort.) Others might disagree with me, but when I choose a sensual or erotic masseur, I try to choose carefully and then just let them do their thing.

Briefly. But it seemed more like a relative newbie who does PNP and assumed anyone coming to him would want to do it too. The deposit was ham-handed, not like something he did because he had been burned before but something he did because he thought it was okay to do. I don't think he anticipated me or anyone else having a negative reaction to the either the deposit or the drugs. So I have some compassion for him but NOT enough to book him.

Whatever.

On the contrary. You brought it up in a transparently oblique way that could only mean one thing: Tina. This is not the first time at the rodeo for any of us on COM. If you meant anything less than Tina, you would have said so. But, no, you chose to be vague and cutesy (or so you thought), and then said I shouldn't be guessing when you actually set up the guessing game yourself. Tina kills.

Which means it was meth.

What was the drug?

He "forgot his cocaine"? That sounds unlikely. Did he say what the "other drug" was?

Great responses in this thread--I hope you take them to heart. And speaking of hearts, how about considering changing your screen name from "bigfattie" to "BigHeart"?

I think you misunderstood--he wasn't suggesting a vodka-soda.

I don't get out of sorts about sex practices a person might enjoy that I don't. But this was not sex--this was DRUGS. Surely even you can see the difference.

Possibly in a PM, by request. I don't believe we should use Company of Men public forums for "revenge posts."

A few months ago, I transfered a little money from my checking account into Coinbase and converted the cash into Bitcoin. It all seems very safe and above board. I never thought I'd have anything to do with crypto, but I guess it's 2026. Never say never.

The really annoying thing about this particular request for a deposit (which I never do) is that his ad had expired, and I had just paid the $30 or whatever to reinstate his profile. Then he asks me for a deposit! (And offers drugs...)

I was really, really into him, but then he sent his "Booking Guidelines," which included this: "First-time meetings may require verification or deposit (10-20%)" And then this: "Happy to procure most substances you would like to indulge and/or cut loose with." I had to walk away. Would you have too?

Of course some people like to share...

Seems to have blocked me. Not sure why.

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When you're thinking about hiring a provider and you see PNP in his description, there is no doubt: In that context, it absolutely positively means one thing and one thing only: Chem sex that is based around the use of crystal meth and can include other chemical substances. Unless you're already a user, it's a terrible way to throw away your money. The PNP'er may be charming at first, but he is invariably going to turn out to be selfish, self-centered, and self-destructive--and 100% toxic. The only thing to do to protect your wallet and your sanity and your physical and mental health: STAY AWAY. If he claims that it means that he doesn't do Tina himself, but he doesn't mind if others do, stay even further away. He's bad news and he's only going to turn out to be even worse news for you. And if by any chance he doesn't know that PNP=Tina in the gay world, then he's too naive to be in this line of work and would undoubtedly be a lousy lay. And if anyone is triggered by what I just wrote, feel free to call the CMA Helpline at: (855) METH-FREE (855) 638-4373

Mixed messages are always Red Flag #1.

Can I ask what kind of devices?

Brilliantly said.