DunwoodyGuy

Over many years, I've developed a sensitivity to allowing mutual touch to be, well, mutual. In other words, I try not to get grabby right off the bat, and allow myself to relax and let the masseur do what it is he does well. If I've chosen someone who has a good reputation and I like the way he describes his massage and I like his reviews and any communication with him, I'm intrigued to experience what HE does. I always try to choose someone who can combine therapeutic techniques with sensual and erotic touch. I try not to choose someone who is therapeutic only--OR someone who has no therapeutic skills at all and is using the massage as a means of finding escort clients. No offense to escorts--some of my best friends are or have been escorts. But I'm looking for guys who have developed their individual ways of combining massage with sensuality and eroticism. So here's what I do--and what I DON'T do: I generally try NOT to grab and pull or interfere with his rhythm and technique. As he massages my back, I let my arms hang down the sides of the table, but I hold off touching his leg until he's done serious back and shoulder work. I just breathe into his touch. That creates a physical connection between us that is entirely in his control. It establishes that I respect him as a practitioner. And he of course can begin to "read" my body without his touch being overtly sexually charged. Once that mutual trust and respect has been established and he can see that he's got me moaning and groaning a little bit, I let my hand touch his leg. I might give it a little squeeze, but I definitely do NOT grab it--I still want HIM to be in control of where on my body he's touching me and how the massage progresses from therapeutic to to sensual. Relinquishing that kind of control is part of why I'm there. I try not to break the spell he is casting over me. I also try not touch his dick until he moves it near my hand. But once he does, I touch it and maybe hold it--but again, it's touching WITHOUT grabbing or breaking the mood. At this point he's probably massaging the inside of my thigh, maybe between my cheeks, maybe sliding his hand beneath my hips, maybe touching my balls and cock. If at that point he presses his crotch near my head, I might break the spell a little, raise my head and suck him--but just for a bit, again being careful NOT to signal that you want the massage to be over and all you want to do is cum and leave. Remember--he's not a trick and he's not just an escort--he's an erotic masseur. He's also a human being with a lot of joys and sorrows. And he's had experiences you can't even imagine. It's like a dance--but you have to let him lead. He can probably teach you a helluva lot about connecting physically, sensually, and erotically with another man. Whether it progresses further is up to the two of you. As they like to say on this board, your mileage may vary. But if you travel far...tip accordingly. All that to say that my advice is: Don't try to control it. Choose well. And allow yourself to let it happen.

He told me a $50 deposit but before I could even respond, he blocked me. I was going to tell him to read the positive reviews I had left for other masseurs. Bullet dodged, but it doesn't reflect very positively on him.

Ugh. He said he could only do outcalls. When I said I had to travel, he said he could do an incall if I sent him a "small deposit." I'm dead-set against deposits. I did one once, was scammed, and swore never to do it again.

He still has the muscular mustachioed pic that does NOT look like the other pics. I messaged him on RentMasseur to clarify and he ignored my question.

I went for a second time yesterday and posted this on RentMasseur: My second visit to KittenBear only confirmed what I felt the first time: KittenBear gives the best sensual/erotic massage in Atlanta and one of the best I've had anywhere. First, you feel those paws, those famous paws! Then you feel the weight of his muscular body leaning down into you, applying a deep pressure that is simultaneously healing and intimate. Each time I felt his strong body press down on me, the same thought went through my mind: I don't want this feeling to end, ever, this feeling of being held and protected. And then you turn over and you see those beautiful eyes and his warm smile, and you melt into those paws all over again. KittenBear is an Atlanta treasure.

I might also add that I agree wholeheartedly with what others have said about Nick's kissing. His kissing was phenomenal.

It's like bringing a bag of Lender's frozen bagels to New York.

Don't make this into such a big thing. Just go have fun.

Are pictures 1-9 and 10/15 the same guy?

Just back from a trip to NY. I fit in 2 massages and both were everything I could have wanted them to be. I reunited with Arjun for my 3rd massage after several years away, and he was better and sweeter than ever. He's still right up there on on my very shortlist with Blessings. Here's what I posted on RentMasseur: This was my third massage with Arjun, but my first in several years, and it was like reuniting with an old friend. I looked into those beautiful soulful eyes of his and instantly felt as if we were soulmates again. His therapeutic touch is simultaneously intuitive and skillful, and his sensual touch is like being touched by an angel. He is truly a treasure, and well-deserving of all the ecstatic reviews he receives here. I look forward to Massage #4 with him.

Just back from a trip to NY and scheduled a session with Nick because his pictures and this thread intrigued me. Below is what I posted on RentMasseur. As you can see, I had a fantastic time: I reached out to Nick before a quick trip to NY because I was impressed by his 5-star reviews and attracted to his dark good looks. His warm and gracious communications over the next few days cemented my decision. But I wasn't prepared for what I saw when I showed up at his comfortable studio in midtown. He opened the door, and I lost my breath. In person, he is even more handsome than his pictures, but it goes deeper than that--there is something spiritual and soulful about him, a deep desire to make YOU feel good. He greeted me with a hug--he's a great hugger! His massage and the stretching and the body-to-body contact he does are all intimate and knowing, deeply therapeutic, intensely connected. I left from his studio and went directly to the airport, where I proceeded to have a flight-from-hell and a 5-hour delay. But I was smiling the whole time. After my session with Nick, I felt like I was floating back home.

Funny you should say that--I love getting massaged by dancers and I once almost hired him. But I hired someone else because he never smiled.

Is it just me or does anyone else HATE when they put those locked cages on their penises?

I hope you know that PrEP is for tops too. Everyone should be on it. Doxy PEP as well. In 2025, this is just responsible healthcare for sexually active gay men, regardless of position.

Another thing we have in common, Baron. I have a fantasy of sucking off a sexy violin player as he plays.

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Had a nice online chat with him and I'm considering booking with him on my upcoming trip to NY.

What do you think he means when his description says "I love provide a very best deep throw blows"?

Anyone have any experience with him? He presses all my buttons and seems nice in his communication. I'm tempted to choose him over some of my favorites.

Ugh. I hate that.

Did he share his face pic?

It's just in the headlines, not in the masseur's description. I may be wrong, but I believe MasseurFinder assigns those headlines arbitrarily when and a headline is not chosen by the individual masseur.

We agree, as always, Baron. I think that what makes Turkish men so sexy is the way they flirt.

Anyone? I'm planning on trying him tomorrow here in Atlanta.

But now I see he's from Ukraine, in which case I would. Slava Ukraini!