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On the whole “neither of us had lube” - am I the only one wondering why the client didn’t don’t have any himself? 🤷🏼‍♂️

I’ve had friends (both fellow hobbyists and non-hobbyists) say the same - “he didn’t have / didn’t bring lube / condoms”. As I have said to them, I say here:

As a sexual active man, you make sure they’re in your nightstand at home, and in your Dopp kit when you’re traveling. Period.

I don't find this controversial at all. In fact, it makes COMPLETE SENSE!!!!

I get what you're saying, and I don't want to overly dissect things, but I still find it hard to see how his reply to you was objectively a dismissal.  I can totally understand that it subjectively felt like a dismissal, but the average person reading the text would not likely come to that conclusion based on what he wrote.  He even thanked you for the offer.  Some could argue that you dismissed him by not replying to his text, until 12 hours later.  True, he did not ask any follow up questions, but there is no reason to if he only wishes to consider professional photographers.  I imagine that he thought the conversation was over once he told you he was not interested in being photographed and you did not respond with any other interest in meeting.  I have never met with anyone, so I don't know what an interaction like this is supposed to look like, and I'm sorry you have been rushed and scammed by others in the past.   It makes a person understandably wary, and in some cases we can become extra sensitive to how a message is given to us.  Maybe this is part of the situation?  I am nobody to judge or guess what goes on in another person's mind, but it is incredibly difficult to view text messages objectively if we have been hurt or disappointed in the past - it is too easy to read a tone into them that may not have been intended.  Or the guy is a jerk - but I can't come to that conclusion on an objective basis.  This is part of the issue with social media and virtual relationships - too much depends on our assumptions of one another, and not enough is based on real life connections.  

Wow! How much are flights to the UK right now? 😂

This was your original statement. You are in the wrong. Learn from this.
(1) Making a broad statement. Off of zero to little interaction on a forum to damage the character of a provider isn’t ok.
(2) You showed us all how you did not communicate effectively to the provider. He turned you down and your feelings were hurt. 
(3) You’re now telling others to move on. It’s clear via your messages, you did not move on when Lewis told you NO. You had to text him a day later to call him “dismissive”. A day after commenting on this forum and calling him conceited??? Your interactions do not make sense. 
No this isn’t a Del Taco. This isn’t a restaurant. This isn’t a typical  “customer service industry”. 
Therefore you need to learn how to better communicate with providers. You are the person looking for a service. Communicate effectively what you are seeking and maybe your outcomes will be better. 
Looking at peoples emoji reactions I’m not alone In this thinking!

Hey hey hey... oh, wrong Albert

To me, the best kissers start off with the soft kisses. Then ease into the tongue action. Slow and shallow at first and as things heat up, then it gets deeper and faster. Grabbing the back of his head and holding him there while you kiss is equally hot. Then slow it back down to where your lips are so close, but not touching, and you can feel and hear each other’s panting. All the while, your bodies have been mashed together and writhing against each other. Then after a few seconds you repeat, maybe with a dick inside one of you. If he’s doing it right, you don’t even think about. You don’t even wonder what to do next. It all just happens blissfully. 

To me, the deep kisses and probing tongues is the hottest part. That’s when you feel most connected.  Followed very closely by the soft kisses afterwards with your mouths close but not always touching  
And I agree, mister_mister could totally do what I describe above! 

https://rentmen.eu/mister_mister
soft kisses on the lips, deep probing tongue.... this guy kisses like a conversation.  He's ruined me...lol

I don’t think these are authentic posts. This guy is stringing us along just for the fun of it. Nobody can be this stupid. We’re being jerked around. 

This is good to know. He’s been on my radar while in Miami and has moved up the list a bit with this new information. Thx!! 

Ugh! You’re right!!! A missed opportunity 😢
But maybe Face Sitting is a whole new genre of sex work? You have Escorts, Masseurs,Porn stars and now…Professional Face Sitters (not to be confused with the Professional Face Shitters which is a whole separate body). One miss type into Google could get you in the brown stuff inadvertently.
I do think face sitting is something that needs to be learned. So there’s merit in your face sitting school idea!
It reminds me of a situation I had with guy one time when I was filming a porno. We’d done a fair bit of topping a bottom guy (I was filming with another top) and the next scene we had was the bottom would sit on my face. The bottom had been heavily used and I guess we’d pumped a lot of air in….(no one had cum yet). As the bottom squatted over me, his hole an inch from my face he let out an almighty long and loud fart. I simply couldn’t continue from laughing so we had to stop and take a break while the bottom got all the wind out of his system.
It could, I acknowledge, have been much worse (as in the mistype above…) but it’s one of those things that should be taught to professional face sitters: check your face sittee (the receiver of the ass) is ok with a bit of blowback before you go down. That would be lesson 1. Lesson 2 is let him breathe a bit occasionally….
 
 

I can continuously add on to this.  If any of you have PM'd me about this specific masseur in Hell's Kitchen who provides nuru style erotic massages then you've probably gotten all these details already, BUT..
I showed up at this place for my erotic massage (although I had no idea it included nuru as well) and he answered the door in his wife beater and sweats. He smiled and introduced himself as we shook hands and he asked how I was doing. He was happy as hell that I'm black too since his exact words were "I'm always happiest when I get clients who look like me." .. He asked if I wanted to shower or if I needed water or anything, so I said I'd take some water. He told me to make myself comfortable and then hop up on the massage table when I'm ready, so I undressed while he went to get the water. As I hopped up on the massage table, he walked back into the room (butt ass naked, dick already semi hard) while holding the water. He smiled as he handed it to me, and then he smacked my ass playfully and said "Nice!". After I finished my water, he turns on the relaxing massage music and starts to oil up his hands and my body. He started with my neck and back of course, working his way down to my lower back and ass, spreading my ass cheeks and blowing on my hole a bit. He asked if I was okay and comfortable to which I replied "I'm absolutely amazing, do your thing." He laughed and continued playing with my ass and hole before moving down to my legs. Once I turned over, I was rock hard and precumming, as was he although he was precumming a lot more, so I asked him if I could taste it, and he said "Yup!" so I squeeze some precut out of the head of his dick, and tasted it. He asked me how he tastes and I said "good as fuck". We both laughed and he continued massaging my while I laid on my back. From my neck to my stomach down to my dick, which he grabbed and started stroking it. He once again asked if I was comfortable to which I replied "Even if I wasn't, my dick seems to be." and we both laughed. I came all over his hand, and then he cleaned his hand off, and I started to get up, assuming the massage was over. He told me it's not over yet, and to turn back over onto my stomach. He then oiled up his body and my back area again before climbing onto the massage table and rubbing his body against mine. While he's on top of me, he's moaning loudly as am I, while he's holding both of my hands. I felt his dick precumming against my ass, and then I felt him kinda squirm for a sec. I asked him what's wrong and he replied "I don't wanna cum yet!", so then I turned over and he's now rubbing the front of his body against the front of mine. My hand are on his ass, pulling him further onto my body, and then he starts to kiss me, which I didn't mind at all. After a little while of that, he turns me over, and climbs onto the back of me again. Now for the unexpected part, I feel him rubbing my hole which was fine, but then he leans into me with his precumming dick against my ass, and he grabs my hands while slowly pressing into my hole. I literally feel the head of his dick sliding into me, so I flinched and pushed it out of me and he goes "I'm sorry, I was just going with the flow, I hope I didn't hurt you or make you uncomfortable." I was like nah, I'm good, just wasn't expecting THAT part, LOL. But we both laughed it off, he made me cum again, I stroked him and gave him some head and let him cum all over my face, he had me looking like a damn chocolate glazed donut, but it was a good time all in all. I haven't booked with him since then since a few other forum members have said he's become very unreliable, but yeah..
 
 
 

"Benjamin are you trying to seduce me?"  Mrs Robinson was very hot as played by the beautiful Anne Bancroft, but my point surrounds the fact that she was playing a game and making her partner feel wanted and presented a very sexy and desirable companion.  Don't expect the escort to do all the work.  Yes he is getting paid, but if you want more than just getting laid, you got to work for it.  I am a fucking fat sixty something year old man with no hair and doughy old man muscles.  But that doesn't mean  I am not sexy.  It does not mean I cannot provide my partner with excitement and desire.  It does not mean I can't get him fully aroused and sweaty and breathing hard and eventually coming like a fountain in Las Vegas.  It does mean I have to work  harder to do so.  And in putting in that work, I get more enjoyment and I get a better performance from my partner and ultimately I get, a "Jeez, I wasn't expecting that" from both of us.    But I put in the work and I reap the benefits.  
So sex is like a conversation, if you want it to be stimulating and satisfying, you need to do more than just hold up your end.  

I’d pay to see this video!!! 

I want to thank you Jarrod for sharing your input as a provider. I’ve read many of your post and it’s been very helpful to see things from a provider’s perspective. So thank you and other providers for sharing! 
In regards to hiring, from my perspective, I would say that most of my hires are not done days in advance. I would say 9 times out of 10, I will contact a provider in the hopes of hiring within the next 2 to 6 hours. That obviously isn’t always successful as I know last minute requests can be a long shot. But for me, I need to be in the mood mentally, and I have to be ready physically as mostly a bottom. If I plan days in advance, there’s no guarantee that I’m going to be 100% ready on a given day and time. So basically I mostly only hire when I’m horny. Lol. I suspect a lot of us are like that.
I understand the difficulty for you in trying to travel to a different city and make it fruitful. And in fact, this makes sense now after having contacted some providers who were supposedly in my city based on the listing. I’m not sure I can really offer up a good solution to your problem.
One thought that I did have though is that as a man of color, you might consider going to cities where that is more of a novelty. For example, when I lived in Atlanta, the majority of the market there was men of color. So it is understandable that going there might not be successful with more competition from other men of color. Likewise, I am in South FL now and the majority of the market here is Latino. You might do well in this market, especially given several major cities are clustered into one area. If you based in FTL, you could still serve Miami to the south and a whole wealth of population to the north.
If you do make it to South FL, I’d be willing to discuss being an “anchor client” for you. 

Not in DC or NYC, but I had a very positive experience with Anthony Cruz in FTL recently. Highly recommend him if you find him traveling or make your way to south FL. 
 
https://rentmen.eu/AnthonyCruz/#platinum
https://rentmasseur.com/AnthonyCruz

I’d pay to see this video!!! 

I’d pay to see this video!!! 

I’d pay to see this video!!! 

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