Tom Harding

Who knew the thread I originally started would turn out to be such a hot topic. I kid. I received this message. I’m posting here for those interested in Lewis.

I’ve told you several times. Read back. You receive what you give. I’m finished with this conversation with you. It’s insufferable.

This was your original statement. You are in the wrong. Learn from this. (1) Making a broad statement. Off of zero to little interaction on a forum to damage the character of a provider isn’t ok. (2) You showed us all how you did not communicate effectively to the provider. He turned you down and your feelings were hurt. (3) You’re now telling others to move on. It’s clear via your messages, you did not move on when Lewis told you NO. You had to text him a day later to call him “dismissive”. A day after commenting on this forum and calling him conceited??? Your interactions do not make sense. No this isn’t a Del Taco. This isn’t a restaurant. This isn’t a typical “customer service industry”. Therefore you need to learn how to better communicate with providers. You are the person looking for a service. Communicate effectively what you are seeking and maybe your outcomes will be better. Looking at peoples emoji reactions I’m not alone In this thinking!

Again would love other people’s input. I believe Lewis dodge a bullet with you. You are comparing apples and oranges with careers. I am not Lewis. I wish I had his physical attributes. This was a thread I created. I received a notification someone wrote on it. You. I responded to your accusations. I read a lot and do not engage much. I will not accept a person trying to damage someone’s character from one small interaction with such a broad statement. Someone a lot of us here have met and know to be a very nice young man!

First off you said “We’ve been chatting on RM” You haven’t been. According to his response you only requested his private pictures. Therefore, you start off with a lie. That’s already concerning. He then asks you “what’s up?” and you asks to take his pictures. That’s all. I’m sure Lewis is asked all the time to have his pictures taken. Why do you think he asked for your professional link? You did not say - I would like to take your pictures, I’m only an amateur. But, if that doesn’t interest you Lewis, I would love to set up an appointment to meet for a massage or … His response was direct to what you asked. “Sorry not interested” and even said “Thanks though” Providers are contacted by multiple people daily. Lewis himself is in school and has a full time job. This isn’t a sales career for him to pitch himself to you. The same with many other providers. So yes providers are busy and do not have the time. You then antagonize him 24hrs later. By asking him “How many people fucked you over to be so dismissive” To be honest, his response afterward was still polite. Why did you need to contact a day later. Especially after commenting on this forum that is was conceited? I’m sorry but you are way off. Take accountability. Lewis is not in the wrong here. You need to know how to communicate to providers. Would LOVE other people’s opinions on this!

Since PD1_jap did not want to share his conversation. I contacted Lewis. “Hi Lewis, I’m excited to see you this coming weekend. I have a quick question before we continue to speak about our meeting. I’m sure you get a lot of clients contacting you throughout the day. I’m curious in the past few days have you had anyone contact you and been rude toward you? Or called you rude, conceited, dismissive?” Lewis - “ Hey hey, hahaha. What a funny question, it doesn’t happen often that someone is rude, but yes! Yesterday/day before that. How do you know? What makes you ask? Some guy contacted me and asked to take my pictures, so I asked for his professional link, he said he isn’t a pro but an amateur, so I replied “Sorry not interested. Thanks though” then he got butt hurt and asked me “How many people have fucked you over to be so dismissive” haha….so I told him to move on and don’t be so butt hurt by me politely declining his offer. Not heard back since thankfully. That’s it though. Why?” ”Thank you Lewis. As always I appreciate your time. I was asking as on an online forum someone mentioned you being dismissive toward them and I was curious why? Doesn’t sound like you. I know from experience that is not your vibe. I was checking facts. Lewis - “Ha hilarious! Some people are weird! Thanks for checking in……..” How coincidental only one person has called him dismissive in the last couple of days.

Please copy and paste your interaction for all too see………

After one interaction, you call someone conceited. It’s says more about you than him. Many of us have had incredible interactions with Lewis and have stayed in contact. He’s far from conceited. He’s treats people how they treat him……. Very excited he is visiting the west coast this week.

Most likely something you said

I met Lewis. Wow. He is handsome! I asked him previous to meeting if I could experience his massage skills. His skill as a massage therapist is the best I’ve ever had. I did want a fully skilled massage (back pain) plus extra after. He charged me appropriately. For a true massage and for time after. This was my first experience. Thank you for the information on him. I wish he was permanently in my city. A nice guy too! I said “you’ve a very kind spirit” his response was “I give back the energy I receive, I appreciate your kindness and sweet communication”. Not providing that last piece of information to toot my own horn. I mention this as I’ve read some say their communication hasn’t been the best with him. It seems kindest goes a long way with him.

Thank you!

I contacted this guy today. Trying to search the discussion board on Lewis - Link - https://app.rent.men/UncutJock Any info would be appreciated. I see he is traveling to a city near me.