EastbayMike

so you said no.......   what is there to refund?  your post makes no sense. 

No rates, no face pic, no discussion about training or technique. 

These are men who have the means of paying hundreds of dollars for your time. They are definitely in touch with their bodies. They are also definitely in touch with their extreme social ineptitude. 
 
Ill bet you that if a provider decided not to wipe and put his toilet-tissue-stuffed butt in the clients’ face, not only would he be suddenly “aware” of such matters, but he’d complain about it vehemently too. 
This lack of social respect goes beyond this level of personal service too. I’ve seen numerous Reddit threads where professional waxers and doctors have encountered filthy people who know they are about to receive a service in very “personal” areas, and will show up disgustingly unclean. 
 
You owe people who present themselves like this no empathy. You don’t have to be rude, but you don’t have to coddle them or comfort them either. Please use your right to refuse service. 
 
 

I consider proper hygiene to be a moral, social and spiritual obligation. 
If anyone (client, provider, hookup), presents themselves to you in an extremely unhygienic manner, consider it an act of disrespect and end the encounter. No discussion, no suggestions to take a shower and no sensitivities about it. 
No grown man should be walking around with toilet paper stuck to his improperly-wiped butt crack. Nor should he have dingleberries or skids. He knows of his activities throughout the day and knows that he should take care of ALL of that before meeting up with anyone. This means that soap, suds and water must be scrubbed and rinsed thoroughly through your body before any and every encounter. 
Period.
 
 

You say thank you but that's more than I'm comfortable spending. 

I texted Luke 4 days before the date I wanted to schedule. He was very responsive and we set a rate and tentative time. Two days later I confirmed the date and time. With no reply from him a day later, I texted him again asking to please confirm so I could make other plans if he was unavailable. He replied back that yes, he would book it. 
The day of the appointment he texted me  3 and a half hours before the scheduled time asking me to confirm. I was driving so it took me about 50 minutes to reply but said yes, still on, please text me when you're on your way. 
An hour later he texted me that "something has come up" and he wants to delay our session by about 2 hours. 
I politely declined. 

You say thank you but that's more than I'm comfortable spending. 

No rates, no face pic, no discussion about training or technique. 

The Department of Motor Vehicles? I know they have been trying to improve the experience so people don't feel they have to stand in line forever -- but having available providers is above and beyond.

I suppose I could, but I don't think anyone would want to see my nude pics.

You say thank you but that's more than I'm comfortable spending. 

Perhaps @Marc in Calif is right that it's an NYC/DC/Chicago thing. But A list celebrities take the subway in NYC. Broadway stars take the subway. So the idea that some fit, healthy 28 year old can't take the subway is just silly. 

15 minutes in with no prompting from me, he starts caressing my head with his big erection while I'm face down in the face cradle. Surprised, I lift up my head and he starts rubbing the head of his dick on my cheeks. When I go to put it in my mouth,  he recoils and says "ay papi,  that's extra!" I got up off the table,  dressed, and paid half what we agreed to thinking i was being generous since I wasn't even there half of the agreed to time.  He was pissed but so was I. 

Let me guess. You're going to text him something insulting then hide behind a block. If so, just let it go.  

15 minutes in with no prompting from me, he starts caressing my head with his big erection while I'm face down in the face cradle. Surprised, I lift up my head and he starts rubbing the head of his dick on my cheeks. When I go to put it in my mouth,  he recoils and says "ay papi,  that's extra!" I got up off the table,  dressed, and paid half what we agreed to thinking i was being generous since I wasn't even there half of the agreed to time.  He was pissed but so was I. 

15 minutes in with no prompting from me, he starts caressing my head with his big erection while I'm face down in the face cradle. Surprised, I lift up my head and he starts rubbing the head of his dick on my cheeks. When I go to put it in my mouth,  he recoils and says "ay papi,  that's extra!" I got up off the table,  dressed, and paid half what we agreed to thinking i was being generous since I wasn't even there half of the agreed to time.  He was pissed but so was I. 

15 minutes in with no prompting from me, he starts caressing my head with his big erection while I'm face down in the face cradle. Surprised, I lift up my head and he starts rubbing the head of his dick on my cheeks. When I go to put it in my mouth,  he recoils and says "ay papi,  that's extra!" I got up off the table,  dressed, and paid half what we agreed to thinking i was being generous since I wasn't even there half of the agreed to time.  He was pissed but so was I. 

I see he's a "masseuse" .
Is he a recent Trans person ?

I feel the same way.  When that happens I offer to cancel.  

Let me guess. You're going to text him something insulting then hide behind a block. If so, just let it go.  

Let me guess. You're going to text him something insulting then hide behind a block. If so, just let it go.  

Let me guess. You're going to text him something insulting then hide behind a block. If so, just let it go.  

And no tattoos! 😃

Let me guess. You're going to text him something insulting then hide behind a block. If so, just let it go.  

Let me guess. You're going to text him something insulting then hide behind a block. If so, just let it go.