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Links don’t work. Is this EddieManhattan?

I don’t believe this story for a second. 

I think you can count on MT and HE. Nothing more. 

2 minutes ago, Mrprofessional said:

Hired him for an erotic Massage. He’s beautiful and sweet … but must have had a recent scare or Something. Was happy to finish himself (so willing to go there) but nothing beyond hands were engaged.    That decision to be ultra careful Might explain why his Rentmen ad expired. His massage skills were mostly about making you feel horny … but weren’t particularly strong on  the merits. 
 

Nevertheless he’s cute and sweet enough that I might try again and show him a recent clean bill Of health. I’d love to own that ass. Wow. He definitely said he wants to see me again. He’s suggested by our play that he could be a bottom. So we’ll see if I can get him to renew his primary calling. Lol

Sounds like you want to hire an escort and not a masseur. You’re barking up the wrong tree. 

14 hours ago, acks0104 said:

It sounds like you both got what you wanted from the situation and that if he was expecting payment, he would have brought it up at some point? I wouldn't worry about it. 

This. I’d leave well enough alone. 

Correct. 

So much misinformation in this thread. Non-lawyers crowing as if they know everything and with certitude. 
If you are the victim of serious extortion you need a good attorney. Often criminal defense attorneys represent victims as well. 
Find a really good attorney and go from there. 

On 11/12/2023 at 6:31 PM, ChelseaWest said:

It happens 😐 I do appreciate that everyone needs to make a living.

Not sure what you mean by that (everyone needs to make a living). I had a good experience and am thinking of going back today. 

You’re an optimist haha

Of all the guys on RM how many do you think are certified?

😂😂😂😂

Be honest. 

Sorry you had such a bad experience. Just shows YMMV. Different strokes. 

On 11/4/2023 at 6:26 PM, Pd1_jap said:

For a lawyer, logic is not your strong suit. If "well adjusted people don't need therapy." Then all people seeking or in therapy are maladjusted. QED

Assumes facts not in evidence. Where did you get the idea I’m a lawyer?  I’m not a lawyer. Thank God. 

I found him to offer a strong thorough massage and a super hot guy with a smoking hot body. To me a definite repeat. Very sensual and happy ending. 

1 minute ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I'm waiting for someone to pop out and scream April Fool's, maybe Halloween Fool's actually.

I was thinking that too. Sounds a bit far fetched. 

10 hours ago, Anthony said:

I am insane for him!

Herein is the problem. Your self-acknowledged insanity will come through in your response. Hence I believe you will come across in a different way than coolwave likely comes across when approaching guys. This may already explain why he hasn’t responded to your multiple approaches already by text, email etc.

Leave him alone before there’s REAL trouble. 

9 hours ago, FrankR said:

That is your conclusion? I was thinking “he reads and he is smart/thoughtful about this topic”. No need to be intimidated. 

I wasn’t intimidated. Tbh I was being judgmental  lol

Tygerscent seems like you have a lot of somatic worries. 

19 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

So is that one, or not ? Looks like it has tits.

I find this offensive. Whether you were allegedly joking (which potentially makes it worse, sarcasm or not), this is remarkably transphobic. As a repeatedly self-proclaimed bisexual this is incredibly insensitive.  Stop dehumanizing someone by calling them “it.”

I’ve met him. Reluctantly agreed to sensual massage for me. 90 mins for $400. Good massage but not extraordinary. 
Several weeks later I asked about repeating and he said he wasn’t into doing sensual massage after thinking about it. 
Whatever. 

2 hours ago, Luv2play said:

And what makes you think so?. That I'm not well adjusted? I think I'll let the therapists work on people who need it more than I do.

At 76 I have three part time jobs, two volunteer and one paying a low stipend for a job I love and can be creative. I also write a biweekly newspaper column, for which I am paid.

I wake up each day with something fun and rewarding to do. I also have a wonderful pension that allows me to indulge in some hobbies. 

lol I never said I didn’t think you weren’t well adjusted. Those were your words. 

On 10/29/2022 at 7:37 PM, Luv2play said:

Maybe it helps me that I took an undergraduate degree in psychology and sociology. I then studied law and graduated with a degree in law. I acquired a lot of theoretical and practical knowledge of human behaviour. Along the way I learned a lot about myself as well. 

Society was undergoing incredible changes in the 1960's when I was in school and university. I was undergoing changes in myself and learning to live with being gay in a largely straight world. 

I managed to survive and I would say thrive in those times despite the difficulties of fitting in. Having friends, family and colleagues and some lovers along the way gave me great support. I also tried to be nice to people along the way. You get back what you give. 

I never felt the need for therapy. Having gay family doctors at crucial times in my life helped. I consider myself lucky but I also made good decisions for myself as well. Like avoiding drugs, too much alcohol and other self destructive behaviour. 

With (the greatest of) respect you’re exactly the type of person who needs therapy. (Like the most). 

On 9/8/2023 at 8:08 PM, purplekow said:

In reality PCP is way of naming a primary care provider not a medical doctor.  This abbreviation, to my mind, has diminished doctor, as if they wanted to name a doctor they could have used the abbreviation PMD, Primary Medical Doctor.  PCP suggests equivalency of a Medical Doctor, a Nurse Practitioner, a Physician Assistant and several other professions which have their own niche.  If one chooses to use those non-physicians as a primary care provider that should be a conscious decision but by grouping all of these together it clouds the actual educational qualifications of the person you are selecting.  Granted on most identifying data, a series of initials after the name will give the educational information to those in the know,  However, there are certainly many who do not know the difference among MD FACP, DO, CNP, PA.   Or between a resident and an intern and a fellow.  

Have you been to an emergency room and had the provider introduce themselves by their first name.  

Nowadays, it seems prudent to ask what level of practitioner you are encountering.  I mean, even Dr. Pepper tries to pass himself off as a doctor saying he is a Fizz-ician,.  

PCP on my book refers to Primary Care Physician and is a medical doctor. 

I also found it easy. 

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I’ve met a guy on IG. I forget what word I used but I thought it was meet—as in do you ever meet guys for private meetings but maybe I used a different word. He said yes then gave me his phone number and asked me to text him there which I did and we made an arrangement.