LookingAround

On 12/14/2023 at 3:58 PM, wsc said:

OK, I'll ask the obvious question. Who?

There's no point in reporting a fire if you don't give the address.

This. Plain and simple. 

On 12/11/2023 at 12:44 AM, glutes said:

I just add 20% to their stated age.

Better than my Grindr rule which is add 10 years 😂😂😂

I would too in Chicago 

Curious how much sleep the posters have lost over this. Geez. 

20 hours ago, KensingtonHomo said:

I don't understand the caution here. If you send a pic, what's going to happen? If it's a G-rated pic, there are likely several of you on social media that anyone could download or screen grab. A naughty masseur having one doesn't mean anything. Do you think they can prove you sent it? If so, who would care? 

If you're someone who avoids social media altogether, then I can understand it. But there are so many pictures of me on the Internet, I would say, "I guess they downloaded that from my Facebook profile," and move on... 

If I'm going to a provider's home (or hotel), I generally offer to send a face pic so they know who is showing up. 

As usual you are the voice of reason. Agree completely. 

I see. Ok now I understand. Thanks. 

What does that mean “finishing doesn’t come easy.”  What’s so difficult for the masseur to get the client off? I don’t understand.

Links don’t work. Is this EddieManhattan?

I don’t believe this story for a second. 

I think you can count on MT and HE. Nothing more. 

2 minutes ago, Mrprofessional said:

Hired him for an erotic Massage. He’s beautiful and sweet … but must have had a recent scare or Something. Was happy to finish himself (so willing to go there) but nothing beyond hands were engaged.    That decision to be ultra careful Might explain why his Rentmen ad expired. His massage skills were mostly about making you feel horny … but weren’t particularly strong on  the merits. 
 

Nevertheless he’s cute and sweet enough that I might try again and show him a recent clean bill Of health. I’d love to own that ass. Wow. He definitely said he wants to see me again. He’s suggested by our play that he could be a bottom. So we’ll see if I can get him to renew his primary calling. Lol

Sounds like you want to hire an escort and not a masseur. You’re barking up the wrong tree. 

14 hours ago, acks0104 said:

It sounds like you both got what you wanted from the situation and that if he was expecting payment, he would have brought it up at some point? I wouldn't worry about it. 

This. I’d leave well enough alone. 

Correct. 

So much misinformation in this thread. Non-lawyers crowing as if they know everything and with certitude. 
If you are the victim of serious extortion you need a good attorney. Often criminal defense attorneys represent victims as well. 
Find a really good attorney and go from there. 

On 11/12/2023 at 6:31 PM, ChelseaWest said:

It happens 😐 I do appreciate that everyone needs to make a living.

Not sure what you mean by that (everyone needs to make a living). I had a good experience and am thinking of going back today. 

You’re an optimist haha

Of all the guys on RM how many do you think are certified?

😂😂😂😂

Be honest. 

Sorry you had such a bad experience. Just shows YMMV. Different strokes. 

On 11/4/2023 at 6:26 PM, Pd1_jap said:

For a lawyer, logic is not your strong suit. If "well adjusted people don't need therapy." Then all people seeking or in therapy are maladjusted. QED

Assumes facts not in evidence. Where did you get the idea I’m a lawyer?  I’m not a lawyer. Thank God. 

I found him to offer a strong thorough massage and a super hot guy with a smoking hot body. To me a definite repeat. Very sensual and happy ending. 

1 minute ago, BuffaloKyle said:

I'm waiting for someone to pop out and scream April Fool's, maybe Halloween Fool's actually.

I was thinking that too. Sounds a bit far fetched. 

10 hours ago, Anthony said:

I am insane for him!

Herein is the problem. Your self-acknowledged insanity will come through in your response. Hence I believe you will come across in a different way than coolwave likely comes across when approaching guys. This may already explain why he hasn’t responded to your multiple approaches already by text, email etc.

Leave him alone before there’s REAL trouble. 

9 hours ago, FrankR said:

That is your conclusion? I was thinking “he reads and he is smart/thoughtful about this topic”. No need to be intimidated. 

I wasn’t intimidated. Tbh I was being judgmental  lol

Tygerscent seems like you have a lot of somatic worries. 

19 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

So is that one, or not ? Looks like it has tits.

I find this offensive. Whether you were allegedly joking (which potentially makes it worse, sarcasm or not), this is remarkably transphobic. As a repeatedly self-proclaimed bisexual this is incredibly insensitive.  Stop dehumanizing someone by calling them “it.”