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So what’s the answer to the OP? What NYC spas have older masseurs and who does he ask for? What’s the distillation from all the posts?

I think Pubic Assistsnce (and I) have been shown to be correct. No one has named a spa with a significant stable of older massage therapists. 
Time to retire this thread? Yes, pun intended. 

1 hour ago, Lazarus said:

I absolutely have never been with Mike Gaite. 

Me either 

6 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I have never in my life cum more than once in a day. I had no idea that a) it’s possible and b) there would be a desire to. I’m seeing a provider today for two hours and I’m going to try my damndest to come a second time. My mind is blown by this thread. 

Remember there’s a lot of marketing going on in this thread. 

What was option #2?

Anyone else on Xyosted? My doctor switched me from testosterone gel (like Androgel) to this because it was rubbing off too much onto my clothing. Seems to be working a lot better. My blood levels of free testosterone are much better. Curious if anyone else is on Xyosted. 

On 1/18/2024 at 6:54 AM, d.anders said:

What are my chances that he'll take my call on first try? What are my chances that he'll call back? Or, call back at a convenient private time for me? Since I don't know his name, with whom do I address a message? I can only imagine what happens when I dial a wrong number, and leave a HE question on someone else's machine. LOL. Email is the only sane, friendly option, if you ask me, yet more and more guys insist on using text only. Whatever. Another guy knocked off my list. I doubt he's licensed anyway.

You’re certainly opinionated with…err…rigid requirements. Text him for gods sake. 

I’m beginning to question how sincere the OP is versus a troll. He seems to want to keep an argument going for the sake of arguing. I’m not buying it. Made up post. 

2 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Andy is great. I concur. Has he been around so long that he's now considered "old" ?

The Andy there I met was, to my surprise, around 40. 

Great to know! Thanks for sharing and glad you got the info. 

I believe pubic assistance, with whom I disagree almost daily, is mostly right here. (Btw if you believe you already have info to the contrary, why don’t you share it instead of crowing that you know a secret).  
Chicago has a spa that employs older masseurs. 
I have not come across this in the MANY gay spas I’ve patronized in NYC where I live. Why? Probably because the rents are high and they need to keep the boys busy and there just isn’t a sufficient market to keep older guys busy. 
If you (or others) know differently, prove me wrong by letting the cat out of the bag but I believe I and pubic assistance are right. It’s not us trying to be ageist (though I have accused him of such things in the past, lol), I think it’s the marketplace at large in this instance. 

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

The normal maximum for humans is 5 to 8 times in 24 hours.

Rodents like rabbits and rats can ejaculate 15 times a day.

You should check for a tail....😆

Or a tale? 😉

17 hours ago, Ali Gator said:

I said pushing 50 but yes you're right - upon closer look, I think he's in his 50s. The photo with the sunglasses on suggest he went to Barry Manilow's plastic surgeon and said "I'll have the Manilow".  He has definitely had work done, and I think hair plugs. 

I saw him a good 20+ years ago and he was in his 30’s then. 

14 hours ago, d.anders said:

I don't act as though I have no control. I do my best to project normalcy. But I know the truth. I am diabetic, and Metformin fucks with your digestive system in a horrendous way. For awhile I was in denial, but those years are behind me. I would love to reject my truth, but life doesn't work that way.

I’m on metformin too.  Anyway we have different experiences of control of ourselves but I accept what you say of your experience. 

16 hours ago, d.anders said:

I totally disagree. The mere act of "getting up" from the table could cause a sudden release, making the trip to the bathroom a precious waste of time. Furthermore, who on earth wants to jump off his table once his body is in the massage zone to take a bathroom break simply to release gas? I'm sorry, but after I turned 50, my body does things I never imagined it could. I'm sure the medications I now take are partly to blame, since I consider myself to be a healthy eater. The bottom line is I have control over almost nothing. Some days are great, while others are awful. If only I could schedule a no-fart day. Ridiculous to call this inconsiderate and nasty.

This is way off base. Yes I get your point but there’s a tone that being older absolves you of responsibility. I’m over 65 and to act as though I have no control over my body is absurd. I completely reject this. 

On 8/12/2023 at 1:10 PM, JckBNimble said:

The Sugar Daddy, Professional Hair Removal

THESUGARDADDYNYC.COM

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Strong, professional massage from New York State licensed therapist. Deep. Relaxing. Peaceful.

Not sure if they offer trimming but their sugaring is exceptional.

Anybody who’s used them could you DM me? They also offer trimming. Seems from their website I’d leave happy too. Anybody know if this is the case? Haha

Any updates for a full body trim?

No idea what you are talking about. You’re not making sense. 

Looking at an ad is VERY different from actually reaching out to a person. Simply ignore their email. This is their attempt at marketing. It’s. It s personal email to you. They don’t know you. Ignore it. 

It’s such a “who cares?” Issue that I can’t help but ask what’s behind the question? That is, why are you even asking? What’s motivating you to ask?

Steamroom 

On 12/20/2023 at 1:36 PM, Jockbottom said:

Unlike others on the massage sites he actually cares about the craft and tailors the massage to your needs. 
 

LOL Really now. They don’t care and he does. 

Wouldn’t he be 60’s or 70 by now?

3 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

How old is this guy ? 

Looks like kiddie porn.

 

24. All relative. 

15 minutes ago, newdad said:

Though, I would say, venting out and talking it out also helps mental health. If that's OP's only goal, it was just as good.

I sort of felt he was teasing us…he wants to tell us who it is but wants to be coaxed. Telling us it’s a celebrated porn star and the like. Quite a bit of drama over this. Just get it over with otherwise what’s the big deal?