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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from + APPLE1 in ass eating/rimming???   
    I LOVE rimming. It’s among my best sexual talents, and one of my specialties. I enjoy doing this for my clients, and sometimes they book me just for a rimming session. It’s not infrequent I make men cum this way. Great if a client enjoys rimming me too, but I’m truly a giver. I wrote a guide. Linking below:
     
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from + bashful in ass eating/rimming???   
    I LOVE rimming. It’s among my best sexual talents, and one of my specialties. I enjoy doing this for my clients, and sometimes they book me just for a rimming session. It’s not infrequent I make men cum this way. Great if a client enjoys rimming me too, but I’m truly a giver. I wrote a guide. Linking below:
     
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from nate_sf in ass eating/rimming???   
    I LOVE rimming. It’s among my best sexual talents, and one of my specialties. I enjoy doing this for my clients, and sometimes they book me just for a rimming session. It’s not infrequent I make men cum this way. Great if a client enjoys rimming me too, but I’m truly a giver. I wrote a guide. Linking below:
     
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from jeezifonly in ass eating/rimming???   
    I LOVE rimming. It’s among my best sexual talents, and one of my specialties. I enjoy doing this for my clients, and sometimes they book me just for a rimming session. It’s not infrequent I make men cum this way. Great if a client enjoys rimming me too, but I’m truly a giver. I wrote a guide. Linking below:
     
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    Simon Suraci reacted to edinbrooklyn in ass eating/rimming???   
    Where have you been all my life?!!
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    Simon Suraci reacted to Archangel in Question about escort standards/norms   
    I hire for extended time. So sex isn’t all that it’s about. We often fuck then go do something else. I enjoy when the Provider cums…in me 😈 If I don’t cum during every fuck session, that’s fine; we will have more opportunity when we get back to the room or to my place. The benefits of overnights and weekends over a one-hour session…
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from + keroscenefire in Definition of a regular client   
    It varies on context.
    Many of my clients of course live in my city and see me on a regular basis, such as monthly or quarterly. A client hiring me only twice or less per year I generally do not consider a regular.
    Clients in my city who see a bunch other providers and hire me again many months later, only to see them again after they cycle through their long list of guys  - those are not regulars. I don’t mind that they hire others. That’s only natural, but it means that they are not seeing me as often, even though it would be very easy for them to do so. The issue is neither how often they are willing/able to hire nor travel distance. They just don’t want to hire me as frequently as they do someone else, or they have many different guys in rotation. Which is fine. But they are not what I consider regulars.
    Once a month on average is a good general baseline I consider to be a regular. I have many monthly clients.
    Clients traveling to my city, or me to theirs is a bit different. I see some clients who visit my city on a monthly basis which in the same straightforward way I consider regulars. Or some travelers see me as little as a couple times a year, but every time they are in town, they make sure to prioritize booking an appointment with me. Some of my regulars in Dallas booked me about once a month (sometimes more frequently), and they still book me in San Diego whenever they visit. They may not see me as frequently anymore, but I still consider them regulars.
    Any sustained period a client hired me on a consistent, regular basis, I will always consider a ‘regular’. One client told me recently that any time I am anywhere on the east coast that he will travel to see me in any city no problem. He was a regular in Dallas and still is, as far as I am concerned. We have a great connection and although he still hires others occasionally, he considers me his top choice whenever and wherever I am available. He travels frequently for his work and so the only thing keeping him from hiring me monthly or more is his travel schedule and travel distance. That’s a good regular.
    Clients I reach out to when I am going to be in their city I consider regulars if they hire me more than once. I still have people texting me from cities I visited last year asking when I am visiting their city again. Those too are regulars.
    Recently a client was visiting from out of state and hired me twice in the same weekend. He was delightful. I had never met him before that weekend but I consider him a regular. I am positive based on our connection that whenever I visit his city he will hire me again. 
    One client in Dallas used to see me weekly, sometimes twice or more per week for therapeutic massage with a HE. He was very guarded and did not like to connect. Very little chatter, very little in the way of physical or emotional connection. Did not like anything more than the standard ending, and even then only after many visits was he even comfortable receiving that part (which he enjoyed thereafter). He never tipped. He only ever contacted me with about 15 mins notice. If I wasn’t available immediately, forget it. It was an odd dynamic. I felt at times his demanding, erratic booking behavior was disrespectful toward me but I came to accept that it is what it is, and am glad to have the regular work. I appreciate that he visited me often, more so than any other client to date. However, I can’t consider him a regular,  because when I visit Dallas he will be the last person on my list to contact. He might fill in a gap when he texts last minute but I can’t count on him to prioritize his time with me. There’s no way he would book ahead and plan his schedule around a time I had available. Sometimes considering someone a regular is less about how frequently he sees you, and more about how much he values your work, your time together, your mutual connection, and you as a person. 
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from Brock O in Question about escort standards/norms   
    I don’t always cum, but my reasons have less to do with saving it up for the next client and more to do with client satisfaction. My focus is the client. If he wants me to cum, perhaps in a specific way, I make it happen for him. If he is ambivalent, I see no point in wasting my sexual energy trying to put the spotlight on my climax. And yes, saving up my spunk is very much a real concern, particularly when I have more than one client in a day.
    Frankly, I am often not ready to cum when the client asks/demands it of me and I have to catch up. If I can satisfy the client without having to force myself in such a way, it’s a big relief. I would rather not cum at all than push myself into a rushed, less than stellar orgasm. That thinking applies whether or not I have other clients that day.
    Recently in a session I came a bit early, about halfway through the session, pulling out and shooting all over the client. We were having quite a hot time together. It was one of those jizzy but not quite complete orgasms. I told him not to worry, that we weren’t done. We played around doing other activities for a while (which he very much enjoyed) until I was ready to go again. I lasted much better the second time, and made him cum as I pounded him. Then shortly afterwards, at his request - much more intentionally and pleasurably this time - I came inside of him. It was hot!
    Sometimes all the client wants is for one of us to fuck the other (or flip) until the client cums in whatever way he wants. Sometimes it’s fast, sometimes it’s drawn out. I’m not rushing the client. I respond to his body language and verbal cues. The time is his. If either or both of us cum well before the time is up, I offer several things like cuddling, massage time, or a shower together, or sometimes all three when the client is eager to reach the finish line way early. 
    It’s less frequent, but some clients don’t feel the need to cum at all. Fine by me. As long as the client is happy, because that’s what really counts.
    Some of my clients end their sessions early. It’s never me saying it’s over and then rushing them out the door. When they are done early, I ask if they are satisfied, and if there is anything I can do to make the rest of our time together enjoyable. Sometimes they say they are truly satisfied and ready to wrap up. With me at least, the approach to all these issues is client centric.
    Tip for any client for whom provider cum is an important part of his satisfaction: request this when you book. When your provider knows your expectations, he can meet them.
    Even better: book him regularly so you don’t even have to say what you need the next time. He knows what you like, what’s important to you, and if he’s any good, he will note it and deliver it again and again.
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from youngboldone in Attention! – 21st Annual Palm Springs Weekend, 2024   
    I preemptively booked a whole week in a deluxe pool view room at InnDulge for next year 4/7/25-4/14/25. That room type has a better shower, more clear floor space for my massage table…and more room for various extracurricular activities. Maybe I will set up a sling 😈 
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from JamesB in Definition of a regular client   
    It varies on context.
    Many of my clients of course live in my city and see me on a regular basis, such as monthly or quarterly. A client hiring me only twice or less per year I generally do not consider a regular.
    Clients in my city who see a bunch other providers and hire me again many months later, only to see them again after they cycle through their long list of guys  - those are not regulars. I don’t mind that they hire others. That’s only natural, but it means that they are not seeing me as often, even though it would be very easy for them to do so. The issue is neither how often they are willing/able to hire nor travel distance. They just don’t want to hire me as frequently as they do someone else, or they have many different guys in rotation. Which is fine. But they are not what I consider regulars.
    Once a month on average is a good general baseline I consider to be a regular. I have many monthly clients.
    Clients traveling to my city, or me to theirs is a bit different. I see some clients who visit my city on a monthly basis which in the same straightforward way I consider regulars. Or some travelers see me as little as a couple times a year, but every time they are in town, they make sure to prioritize booking an appointment with me. Some of my regulars in Dallas booked me about once a month (sometimes more frequently), and they still book me in San Diego whenever they visit. They may not see me as frequently anymore, but I still consider them regulars.
    Any sustained period a client hired me on a consistent, regular basis, I will always consider a ‘regular’. One client told me recently that any time I am anywhere on the east coast that he will travel to see me in any city no problem. He was a regular in Dallas and still is, as far as I am concerned. We have a great connection and although he still hires others occasionally, he considers me his top choice whenever and wherever I am available. He travels frequently for his work and so the only thing keeping him from hiring me monthly or more is his travel schedule and travel distance. That’s a good regular.
    Clients I reach out to when I am going to be in their city I consider regulars if they hire me more than once. I still have people texting me from cities I visited last year asking when I am visiting their city again. Those too are regulars.
    Recently a client was visiting from out of state and hired me twice in the same weekend. He was delightful. I had never met him before that weekend but I consider him a regular. I am positive based on our connection that whenever I visit his city he will hire me again. 
    One client in Dallas used to see me weekly, sometimes twice or more per week for therapeutic massage with a HE. He was very guarded and did not like to connect. Very little chatter, very little in the way of physical or emotional connection. Did not like anything more than the standard ending, and even then only after many visits was he even comfortable receiving that part (which he enjoyed thereafter). He never tipped. He only ever contacted me with about 15 mins notice. If I wasn’t available immediately, forget it. It was an odd dynamic. I felt at times his demanding, erratic booking behavior was disrespectful toward me but I came to accept that it is what it is, and am glad to have the regular work. I appreciate that he visited me often, more so than any other client to date. However, I can’t consider him a regular,  because when I visit Dallas he will be the last person on my list to contact. He might fill in a gap when he texts last minute but I can’t count on him to prioritize his time with me. There’s no way he would book ahead and plan his schedule around a time I had available. Sometimes considering someone a regular is less about how frequently he sees you, and more about how much he values your work, your time together, your mutual connection, and you as a person. 
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Question about escort standards/norms   
    I don’t always cum, but my reasons have less to do with saving it up for the next client and more to do with client satisfaction. My focus is the client. If he wants me to cum, perhaps in a specific way, I make it happen for him. If he is ambivalent, I see no point in wasting my sexual energy trying to put the spotlight on my climax. And yes, saving up my spunk is very much a real concern, particularly when I have more than one client in a day.
    Frankly, I am often not ready to cum when the client asks/demands it of me and I have to catch up. If I can satisfy the client without having to force myself in such a way, it’s a big relief. I would rather not cum at all than push myself into a rushed, less than stellar orgasm. That thinking applies whether or not I have other clients that day.
    Recently in a session I came a bit early, about halfway through the session, pulling out and shooting all over the client. We were having quite a hot time together. It was one of those jizzy but not quite complete orgasms. I told him not to worry, that we weren’t done. We played around doing other activities for a while (which he very much enjoyed) until I was ready to go again. I lasted much better the second time, and made him cum as I pounded him. Then shortly afterwards, at his request - much more intentionally and pleasurably this time - I came inside of him. It was hot!
    Sometimes all the client wants is for one of us to fuck the other (or flip) until the client cums in whatever way he wants. Sometimes it’s fast, sometimes it’s drawn out. I’m not rushing the client. I respond to his body language and verbal cues. The time is his. If either or both of us cum well before the time is up, I offer several things like cuddling, massage time, or a shower together, or sometimes all three when the client is eager to reach the finish line way early. 
    It’s less frequent, but some clients don’t feel the need to cum at all. Fine by me. As long as the client is happy, because that’s what really counts.
    Some of my clients end their sessions early. It’s never me saying it’s over and then rushing them out the door. When they are done early, I ask if they are satisfied, and if there is anything I can do to make the rest of our time together enjoyable. Sometimes they say they are truly satisfied and ready to wrap up. With me at least, the approach to all these issues is client centric.
    Tip for any client for whom provider cum is an important part of his satisfaction: request this when you book. When your provider knows your expectations, he can meet them.
    Even better: book him regularly so you don’t even have to say what you need the next time. He knows what you like, what’s important to you, and if he’s any good, he will note it and deliver it again and again.
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from JamesB in Question about escort standards/norms   
    I don’t always cum, but my reasons have less to do with saving it up for the next client and more to do with client satisfaction. My focus is the client. If he wants me to cum, perhaps in a specific way, I make it happen for him. If he is ambivalent, I see no point in wasting my sexual energy trying to put the spotlight on my climax. And yes, saving up my spunk is very much a real concern, particularly when I have more than one client in a day.
    Frankly, I am often not ready to cum when the client asks/demands it of me and I have to catch up. If I can satisfy the client without having to force myself in such a way, it’s a big relief. I would rather not cum at all than push myself into a rushed, less than stellar orgasm. That thinking applies whether or not I have other clients that day.
    Recently in a session I came a bit early, about halfway through the session, pulling out and shooting all over the client. We were having quite a hot time together. It was one of those jizzy but not quite complete orgasms. I told him not to worry, that we weren’t done. We played around doing other activities for a while (which he very much enjoyed) until I was ready to go again. I lasted much better the second time, and made him cum as I pounded him. Then shortly afterwards, at his request - much more intentionally and pleasurably this time - I came inside of him. It was hot!
    Sometimes all the client wants is for one of us to fuck the other (or flip) until the client cums in whatever way he wants. Sometimes it’s fast, sometimes it’s drawn out. I’m not rushing the client. I respond to his body language and verbal cues. The time is his. If either or both of us cum well before the time is up, I offer several things like cuddling, massage time, or a shower together, or sometimes all three when the client is eager to reach the finish line way early. 
    It’s less frequent, but some clients don’t feel the need to cum at all. Fine by me. As long as the client is happy, because that’s what really counts.
    Some of my clients end their sessions early. It’s never me saying it’s over and then rushing them out the door. When they are done early, I ask if they are satisfied, and if there is anything I can do to make the rest of our time together enjoyable. Sometimes they say they are truly satisfied and ready to wrap up. With me at least, the approach to all these issues is client centric.
    Tip for any client for whom provider cum is an important part of his satisfaction: request this when you book. When your provider knows your expectations, he can meet them.
    Even better: book him regularly so you don’t even have to say what you need the next time. He knows what you like, what’s important to you, and if he’s any good, he will note it and deliver it again and again.
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Edras in LA - the best ever   
    Here is his Booksy website link. I believe he is accepting new clients and is working his regular schedule through May. You can book online.
    Sports Massage And Barber - La Habra - Book Online - Prices, Reviews, Photos
    BOOKSY.COM Check out Sports Massage And Barber in La Habra - explore pricing, reviews, and open appointments online 24/7!  
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from mike carey in Definition of a regular client   
    It varies on context.
    Many of my clients of course live in my city and see me on a regular basis, such as monthly or quarterly. A client hiring me only twice or less per year I generally do not consider a regular.
    Clients in my city who see a bunch other providers and hire me again many months later, only to see them again after they cycle through their long list of guys  - those are not regulars. I don’t mind that they hire others. That’s only natural, but it means that they are not seeing me as often, even though it would be very easy for them to do so. The issue is neither how often they are willing/able to hire nor travel distance. They just don’t want to hire me as frequently as they do someone else, or they have many different guys in rotation. Which is fine. But they are not what I consider regulars.
    Once a month on average is a good general baseline I consider to be a regular. I have many monthly clients.
    Clients traveling to my city, or me to theirs is a bit different. I see some clients who visit my city on a monthly basis which in the same straightforward way I consider regulars. Or some travelers see me as little as a couple times a year, but every time they are in town, they make sure to prioritize booking an appointment with me. Some of my regulars in Dallas booked me about once a month (sometimes more frequently), and they still book me in San Diego whenever they visit. They may not see me as frequently anymore, but I still consider them regulars.
    Any sustained period a client hired me on a consistent, regular basis, I will always consider a ‘regular’. One client told me recently that any time I am anywhere on the east coast that he will travel to see me in any city no problem. He was a regular in Dallas and still is, as far as I am concerned. We have a great connection and although he still hires others occasionally, he considers me his top choice whenever and wherever I am available. He travels frequently for his work and so the only thing keeping him from hiring me monthly or more is his travel schedule and travel distance. That’s a good regular.
    Clients I reach out to when I am going to be in their city I consider regulars if they hire me more than once. I still have people texting me from cities I visited last year asking when I am visiting their city again. Those too are regulars.
    Recently a client was visiting from out of state and hired me twice in the same weekend. He was delightful. I had never met him before that weekend but I consider him a regular. I am positive based on our connection that whenever I visit his city he will hire me again. 
    One client in Dallas used to see me weekly, sometimes twice or more per week for therapeutic massage with a HE. He was very guarded and did not like to connect. Very little chatter, very little in the way of physical or emotional connection. Did not like anything more than the standard ending, and even then only after many visits was he even comfortable receiving that part (which he enjoyed thereafter). He never tipped. He only ever contacted me with about 15 mins notice. If I wasn’t available immediately, forget it. It was an odd dynamic. I felt at times his demanding, erratic booking behavior was disrespectful toward me but I came to accept that it is what it is, and am glad to have the regular work. I appreciate that he visited me often, more so than any other client to date. However, I can’t consider him a regular,  because when I visit Dallas he will be the last person on my list to contact. He might fill in a gap when he texts last minute but I can’t count on him to prioritize his time with me. There’s no way he would book ahead and plan his schedule around a time I had available. Sometimes considering someone a regular is less about how frequently he sees you, and more about how much he values your work, your time together, your mutual connection, and you as a person. 
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    Simon Suraci reacted to Your Man in Arlington in 4 words that change the dynamic of a session   
    This can sometimes be an issue with me depending on the provider, mood, or how recently I came. When this happens, I have no problem saying that we need to take a break, and even breaking contact (pulling out or guiding them off or away). Never been a problem, and providers have been more than happy to make sure I'm getting the desired experience.
    So, I would provide some direction along with those four words, eg. "I come very easily, so we may need to slow down or back off at times."
     
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    Simon Suraci reacted to LookingAround in 4 words that change the dynamic of a session   
    You’re hiring; you’re in charge. Take charge. “Woa! I cum very easily. Let’s slow down. I don’t wanna cum too soon.”
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    Simon Suraci reacted to Trick in 4 words that change the dynamic of a session   
    This is how I know a provider cares about my satisfaction. I’ve said those 4 words to some providers who were in a hurry to finish the session and I could not get their hands and mouth off my dick.  But the good ones?  They’d slow down and change things up with just the slightest nudge or cue from me.
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    Simon Suraci reacted to buckguy in Question about escort standards/norms   
    The usual objective is for the provider to get you off.  If him getting off is essential, then you need to negotiate that ahead of time, although I doubt that anyone can guarantee that outcome.
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    Simon Suraci reacted to caramelsub in Question about escort standards/norms   
    I have noticed a growing number of escorts do not cum in sessions. Many have told me if they cum they cannot work for the rest of the day, and aren’t able to perform or get hard for other clients. 
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    Simon Suraci reacted to BuffaloKyle in Question about escort standards/norms   
    I'm a top but when I hire other tops for oral only sessions I always will state I want to provide them oral to a happy ending completion. As others mentioned some providers will only cum during a multi hour session so make sure to ask.
    As far as providers staying the whole hour just a little bit of live and learn on how long for instance to spend on each thing you wanna do if you want to make sure you're not cut off early. I will keep a little bit of an eye on the clock as well during a one hour session and not get into really intense fucking or sucking until it gets down to around 15 min to go.
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    Simon Suraci reacted to jmichaeliii in Question about escort standards/norms   
    What I have found is if you see someone more than once, more things happen including cumming. 
    I have 3 regulars and none of them came the first time we met, now all 3 do everytime we meet.
    I also never get cut short on session time with my regulars, in fact they often go past.  I also don't screw them around and I tip well.  I always get a great time with all 3.  Treat them right and you get it back tenfold I have found.
    Someone you only see once, yea I have been cut short on things.
     
     
     
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    Simon Suraci reacted to Muscleking in Question about escort standards/norms   
    Totally agree with everything you said I’ve had same experience, I treat my guys good and they treat me even better.. 
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    Simon Suraci reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Question about escort standards/norms   
    If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
    This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
    As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
    If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.
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    Simon Suraci got a reaction from Lotus-eater in Edras in LA - the best ever   
    Here is his Booksy website link. I believe he is accepting new clients and is working his regular schedule through May. You can book online.
    Sports Massage And Barber - La Habra - Book Online - Prices, Reviews, Photos
    BOOKSY.COM Check out Sports Massage And Barber in La Habra - explore pricing, reviews, and open appointments online 24/7!  
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    Simon Suraci reacted to + keroscenefire in Definition of a regular client   
    I think "regular" is pretty subjective and might even depend on client vs escort. Like as a client, I honestly would consider a "regular" to be anyone I see multiple times a year. That might only be 3-4 times a year. But to the escort that could be just an occasional client. 
    Unfortunately I don't really have the budget to hire multiple times in a month and never would get a "regular" that I meet even monthly. But I have built a good rapport with several guys and definitely feel like we are somewhat "regulars" to each other. I definitely think about them if/when I am considering a bigger hire.
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