Your Man in Arlington

Sadly I have to report that he robbed me last night.  Seemed like a nice guy.  He came to my room and collected his fee for an overnight. He took a shower.  He was worried about his car being parked in the street.  I told him I would pay to park it in the hotel garage.   He told me I was sweet, put on his clothes, kissed me and left to move his car.   He never came back.   He disconnected his phone and closed him RM account.  It had been open for years and had no bad reviews.   I didn’t see that coming. I’m an in shape reasonably attractive guy.  

"years ago, even decades" should sufficiently answer the main question.  😂
I think all the hookup apps available now are still doing what they set out to do. Things change, but hours spent from search to climax, the freebies are shorter and more regular. 
In a real life chance meeting, at a party, at a bar, a job, etc we got to sum each other up, maybe speak, have a laugh. A spark. Everything online is antithetical to that. I was paired and past cruising before everything went on line. Bulletin boards were it.
The hobby is more recent for me, and very limited because I understand what I want. No strings.
Many of us who successfully cruised for hookups in person, (decades ago) are far less appealing decades later, when represented by the harshness of ones and zeros now.
When a treat is needed, hiring automatically runs everything I have through a flattering filter for me. Always adds a touch of green. 
 

I just don't have the time or bandwidth, but some of my friends do, and they're very successful at hooking up!

Central Park was lovely this evening!

Central Park was lovely this evening!

The short answer is   Not more than I can afford.  The shorter answer is. Way too much.  

I do high tech and clear about 2 mil a year so setting aside 50k/yr so I don't have to deal with grindr is a blessing.

Since the beginning of 2026, I have spent 21k on escorts. I gotta slow down cause I am exhausted. There are just too many delights to sample.

Red flag for me: lists "PNP" under "I am into".

FYI, PNP is back (wonder if this provider is watching this forum):

I’ve probably had an equal number of 2nd appointments that weren’t as good as the first time as I have had 2nd (and subsequent) appointments that were even better than the 1st time. It’s impossible to predict; there are a lot of factors at play. 

Can confirm the above. Didn't request a deposit from me, but that may be due to the completeness of my profile.

"PARTY FRIENDLY" but no PNP under "I am into"?

The use of "young" in a screen name is always suspect. Like a real estate agent advertising as "honest". 

"PARTY FRIENDLY" but no PNP under "I am into"?

I would never expect a provider to rim me.
You don't want a guy who goes around giving rimjobs to everyone, maybe for some that's their thing. I prefer a guy (or girl) to be more reserved

No I don’t agree. Some guys are really anxious to go to a bath house (sauna) alone. They want someone to go with who will show them how to behave there and who they can walk around with to get comfortable.
If you’re exploring your sexuality or if you’re not conventionally good looking (or you think you aren’t attractive) then bath houses can be intimidating. It’s therefore helpful to have someone who will accompany you and spend time with you there to build your confidence. I’ve arranged quite a lot of sessions at bath houses with my clients. It’s sometimes to take someone who’s never been, sometimes it’s to help guys who want to have sex in public but who want to do it with someone they are attracted to, sometimes it’s to pretend I’m their boyfriend. 
I think in @ThrowawayAccount’s situation he didn’t get a very empathetic provider. He was clearly too anxious and it seems like there wasn’t much communication between the two of them about expectations. Someone with more patience and understanding would probably have behaved differently to him. It’s a lesson for guys hiring: choose carefully. I’ve had a few clients who seem to be far too anxious to relax despite me trying to help. I think some of these guys are still trying to work out things and they have misguided ideas about sex. They don’t need an encounter with a sex worker at that point, they need a counsellor or someone to help them get over the issues they have about their sexuality. 

He does not share face pics, which is usually a deal breaker for me. But given the positive reception here, his reviews, and his assurance that he would be clean shaven for me, I decided to go ahead. And, I'm glad I did! He's very handsome, probably better looking than I was expecting. I have found it impossible to find the clean-cut, late 30's hot guy next door; for me, Karl fits that bill to a tee.
His rate is on the reasonable side for NYC.
Happy to answer any specific or more detailed questions as best I can by PM.

Gentleman beware. The number you text him is not him. It his manager and he very sketchy as hell. When I told him am not interested he ask for a deposit. 

Can confirm the above. Didn't request a deposit from me, but that may be due to the completeness of my profile.

Since the CollegeBoyFun thread popped back up recently, I was reminded of his sweet floppy balls. Felt great slapping up against mine while he pounded me doggy-style. More on him here:
 
 

The word "luxury" is an instant boner killer. Along with "luxury" brand apparel, etc... in the photos. Like anything posted on an internet forum, that's just me, though. 🤷‍♂️

Can also confirm; recently had an all around amazing experience plus he's genuinely good guy.

I saw him in DC he's very friendly had a lot of fun would recommend.

I saw him yesterday. The moment he open that door he greeted me with a kiss. He has a great smile to beginning and end. He did everything imaginable to please me. Put a lot effort to 110%. He a fantastic guy. I had a incredible time with him. He also great at conversation, he a sweetheart. I only wish I could seen him more times. I got addicted to him. He total professional and will not waste your time. Plus he was having some much fun and his verbal talking is hot. He become my number one guy. To me he totally the best. Never seen a guy go the lengths of depth to make guy feel great about themselves. I definitely recommend him.