TorontoDrew

I don't mind providing a face pic or stats.  I think the provider should know who and what to expect.  I don't mind being turned down either. 

What I didn't like in this situation was the way in which it was handled. 

Just a reminder, I'm told by someone I trust that these guys are a great hire.  In this case, the customer service was lacking.

2 hours ago, NyGold said:

Out of curiosity how are the saunas doing in Toronto? Before covid I remember during a visit thinking they were so much better than those in the us … cleaner and more lively. Has covid changed that? 

I didn't go much pre-covid but find they are doing pretty well.  I think the only two still open are Spa Excess and Steamworks.  Both have decent crowds during the day and seem clean.  Hard to tell at Steamworks as its pretty dark.

21 minutes ago, caramelsub said:

I remember with one particular escort, after he requested I pay up front, which I did, he then says he only receives oral with a condom on, and proceeded to put it on. It pissed me off because I don’t like to give oral with the guy wearing a condom. So no, it’s not as uncommon as it seems.

I had that happen about 20 years year ago.  Thankfully it hasn't happened since. I am not fond of the taste of latex.

34 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I think "the block" has become a cultural norm. Primarily through its common usage on Grindr. It avoids the uncomfortable -which is the explanation of rejection. Although being blocked may feel rude...I question whether you really want the alternative: "Thanks but you're too old". "Thanks but you're too fat". Do you REALLY want to hear WHY you've been rejected ?

Good point.  I would expect a "Not interested but thank you for contacting us.  Have a great day"

Thanks for the comments.  I have heard from multiple people that these guys are a great hire so take that into account.

6 hours ago, Marctraveler said:

What about Nickkxl? He has 17 five stars reviews.

https://rentmen.eu/NickkXL

I think three of those reviews are from me.  I'll see him again sometime but was wanting someone new.

4 hours ago, Mydavid said:

I met these two guys in Montreal. They didn't ask me to offer my age and pic, but it was not easy to meet them smoothly because they are very discreet. They didn't show their face on RM, they use a seperate mobile phone number for RM. They made sure I didn't know them and gave me their address at the last minute.

I wonder if they know you so that they avoid meeting you to keep their privacy.

I doubt they know me.  I'd  remember those bodies!

I was asked earlier about why I changed the heading of this post.

Another poster suggested that I change it to make it clear in the heading that I hadn't met them.  I thought about it and agreed.  I don't want to leave the impression it was a bad meet up.

It was also suggested that I had a bruised ego.  I thought about this as well.  That's not it.  I realize that I'm older and not winning any beauty contests (never have, never will).

I was upset because I despise rudeness and a lack of respect in any business relationship.  And that's what this is.  I was willing to pay $1,200 for a couple hours of their time. 

I that they treat the customers they meet with with more respect than this potential customer.

16 hours ago, Dolman said:

Have you checked out Ruudo? I had a fantastic time with him recently. Doesn’t seem to have been discussed on here, but he has multiple glowing reviews on RM. Older guy (lists his age as 49), handsome and muscular, very sensual, great kisser and excellent top. Would hire again.

https://rentmen.eu/Ruudo

 

Thanks for the recommendation

Not really on topic but the Mistr guys are really hot.

It's one of the reasons I just got new hearing aids.

It's really too bad they aren't as prevalent anymore.  The service was so good.

I come from a smaller town and went my parents passed we just told the hospital to call Andy (who everyone knew ran the funeral home).  When I called him in the morning he had already picked them up and asked me when I'd be in to make arrangements.

When my mother in-law passed I dealt with a chain here in the city.  They were nice but not the same experience.

I was blocked years ago by a local provider with whom I had no contact.  He's still active today.  I recently went to the site without signing in to check him out.  Meh.

Mine has 19.  I keep it to locals and those who visit regularly.

Contacted him earlier.  Prompt response.  Will likely meet soon.  I will report back.

Toronto the going rate is $300 to $350.  A deal for visiting Americans after exchange ($225 to $265 $USD).

I figured with the slump I'm in I would contact Juliog.  He responded quickly snd mentioned that he doesn't fuck with is a deal breaker for me.  Very prompt and polite though.

I can be in Detroit in 4 hours.  Looks like it would be worth it.

Hmm.  I may have to add this one to my list.  Looks great but no reviews.

6 hours ago, jusmeinbr said:

Thank you.  That’s enough for me to justify sticking with it, but I’m just not going to be so “trigger happy” on leaving reviews going forward 😒.

I have done the same thing many times.  I tend to write my reviews right after the encounter and fresh from an orgasm I am often too positive.  Maybe I should wait a day or two and think through the entire encounter.

I have had some good times lately but haven't really been wowed by anyone (except for Trev of course).  Does anyone have any recommendations for a Toronto top who provides a good BFE?  My usual type is muscular but I'm willing to branch out for a good time.  Kissing is a must.

Thank you.

Had a bad experience with

I'll start by saying that I never met with them.

These two guys are extremely hot and visit Toronto from Montreal fairly regularly.  When they announced this latest visit I was hoping to get together with them.

I contacted them on RM Messenger and they asked for a picture and stats.  I sent them what they asked for as well as what I was looking for and a couple of suggested times.  They read the message but didn't respond.  I followed up the next morning and still received no response.  So today I sent a very nicely worded message on WhatsApp asking them if they would be able to meet with me.  Looking at WhatsApp it shows that they didn't read the message.

I checked RM today and they have now blocked me.  If they didn't want to meet with me they should have just said so.

I expect this type of behavior on Grindr but not from providers. 

I'm sure someone else will gladly take my money.

He contacts me frequently on Rentmen messenger.  I have never met with him.

You find TSCs in small towns here in Ontario.  I try to stop in when I see one.

On 8/26/2023 at 1:20 PM, ICTJOCK said:

Well unfortunately,  a lot of the underwear companies  rely on different measurements for their sizes.   The same goes for swimwear.

With my speedos,  I wear almost exclusively  TURBO  from Spain and I wear an XL  with a 32 inch waist.    Most of my underwear is   C-in2  underwear brand and I wear a Medium.   In PUMP  underwear,   I wear a large.

My suggestion to you is to look around and find the look you like and the colors and design and contact the company on what size is appropriate. Know this.... anybody can look sexy,   it doesn't matter if you are 175 pounds or 300.    I hope you find something you enjoy.

I'm trying to picture you in each outfit 😉