CastaDiva

If you aren't going to mention the name of the provider, what is the purpose of the post? How to handle a similar situation? You didn't provide enough details for someone to provide you with an intelligent answer.
If you are concerned enough about what happened to you to create a new topic, then you should be equally as vigilant in giving us the provider's name so no one else has to experience this "dangerous encounter". Otherwise, this thread is totally useless.
BoZo
 

One of the benefits of this forum is for members to share good and bad information while engaging a provider. 
In the case of the dangerous person you described, forum members should be warned about who the person is and where you found the person, such as rentmen et cetera. 
A simple link to that bad guy's advertisement would be beneficial to members. 
 
 
 

I'm very sorry this happened to you.  It must have been very scary.  I'm glad you came out ok.  But please consider letting us know who he is so none of us meet him.

Update: had my first meeting and it was fantastic. Incredibly grateful to this forum and all the posters!

Maybe it's just me, but calling yourself "high class" just comes off as tacky.

Hi everyone,
There seems to be an understandable focus on which providers are the handsomest, sexiest, have the biggest endowment, are the best kissers, etc., but I am wondering who you would list as having the kindest character?   I don't mean just politeness and professionalism, but true kindness - a warm and giving heart and a genuine interest in those around them.  Maybe even self-effacing and unaware of how incredible they may happen to be?   
Perhaps it is too difficult to accurately gauge true kindness given the transactional nature of provider/client interactions, but if there are providers who stand out for you as being particularly kind, which ones are they?  I have never met with anyone, but I know that nothing is more attractive to me than someone who puts others first and and does not consider themselves better than anyone else - regardless of how hot they may be.
 

Does the gun only fire every one out six times?

Perhaps you might want to reconsider the use of grey text on a bright red-orange background. I think you want to start with clear, readable content. 

My cousin passed the bar exam but chose NOT to stay in this field, for he became disillusioned with it.  Perhaps the same applies to the man in question.

Please see the following topic, especially my last reply when I locked it.
The provider likes to come to this website and register a bunch of accounts pretending to be members (to the point where he creates hundreds of random posts in other forums to try and mask what he's doing) as a way to promote and defend himself.   Given how he has interacted with me and how he's treated this site, we do not recommend this provider in any way and will simply be locking any future topics about him.

The ad is fake. It's already been reported to Rentmen.
~Boomer~

A very few make huge money, most don’t. Some guys seem to think they’ll be able to retire in a year by just posting a weekly movie of them tossing themselves off in front of a mirror. They soon realise it takes more work than that. Then they lose interest.
I have a justforfans. I’m in the top 3% of models on there. I make a reasonable return but I’m not retiring anytime soon! It takes work to build up a subscriber base. I probably spend 2 days a month working on it, and I have a business partner who I pay (from the justforfans revenue) to do the editing and social media uploads etc. He spends a couple of days too. He manages all that admin side and I do the performing and finding guys to collaborate with, and setting up film shoots. 
It doesn’t displace my massage work but it is a nice income stream to supplement that. I think to make having a fans site at least worthwhile you need to find a niche, film good quality content (good lighting, multiple angles, professional editing) and publish regularly.
The problem is that it’s so easy to enter the fans site business that people set up a site thinking they’ll be rich… and now it’s saturated with average content produced by naive models. 
 
 

Please share this escort page so we don’t waste time clicking on it browsing RM

That's a good thing for escorts to remember:   If a client seems defensive or resistant to intimacy, it could simply be manifestations of anxiety. 

You can read my response about that I gave to mark. I always do my homework. And I do not believe as I just said that my post was gratuitous I really felt I should warn people and what I neglected to say in my first post was that I was given an incorrect address. Which was another red flag and I wish I would have said that when I did this. As I said if you want to think I'm going to told us so be here but you neglected or you just don't want to pay attention to the back that I have been in these neighborhoods in the past at other parts of the country because I am new to the midwest. I have walked amongst neighborhoods like this and I have distributive food and I have worked at food pantries. I have no issues whatsoever with people who are at poverty level I have struggled myself economically after I was diagnosed with cancer. What I wanted to let people be aware of is the fact that this neighborhood is riddled with crime. It is not safe and rather than appreciate that go ahead and tell me I'm going towards I really don't care I stand by what I said in my intention was to put out information so people can use the information to make an informed decision. I regret that I forgot to mention that the  reason I called him on the phone was because I had been given an incorrect address. I even had a feeling he had not lived there long at all based on other things he had said. Good day

I am new to the midwest. I am about 40 miles south of Detroit and I did not know this area. I looked it up with the GPS and I looked at photos of the neighborhood. What I saw did not resemble this whatsoever. I contacted him prior to my arrival which is why I understand how his voice sounded. I was not near his home originally as I thought I had arrived according to my GPS that he had given an address that was with an incorrect spelling which was another red flag I did not say that in my post because of good God that post was long enough and as for the person who thinks this is gratuitous I disagree. Totally disagree. Do not for one minute assume that I don't do my homework but it's a little hard to do your homework when you're given misinformation now isn't it.

Okay guys so to be serious I feel compelled if that is a right word to tell you about the experience I had as I attempted to meet Justin. The guy I brought up in this thread. I need to put this in context. I have worked with the homeless. I worked 7 years every Monday afternoon at a food pantry. I support those in poverty by trying to help come to remedies that will not keep these people in their unfair unethical unjust economic situations. With that being said I just cannot sit back and be silent knowing that this guy wants $200 to come to his home in what was an absolute horror of a situation. I am going to try to enclose two pictures as evidence of his neighborhood. Let me be emphatically clear that neither of these are his home and that his home is in not in this type of decay. His home was the nicest on the street but it is in a series of decline itself but not at this level. The neighborhood is crime infested. Windows are boarded up and other windows are open with a glass having been broken. There are people sitting out on the streets. It is in a section of Detroit by a street called schoolcraft. I do not fault Justin for the situation he is in. But I cannot be silent knowing that some of you may travel as I did to this destination to discover the situation. I called him on the phone apologizing telling him I did not feel safe. I have no problem with feminine men but this voice was so unbelievably Nelly that it just could not seem to me to have matched physically what I saw in his pictures and yet I know that is unfair of me and I fully admitted. None of this is anything that I would have desired and I was literally stunned. I just feel I need to put this information out there because this is what we do for each other on here. Please take the information and do as you wish. He does appear in his messages as well as when we spoke on the phone to be a genuine nice guy. Thank you for reading.

Although he is on the OTHER side of your size spectrum, I recommend https://rentmen.eu/MikeAustin.  He was my first top.  I decided that an escort would be best for "teaching" me how to bottom and an escort with a big dick would know how to use it correctly.  I was right.  Mike played with my hole warming me up.  Went slow, hit that first "ouch" spot and must have noticed my face and backed down a bit.  Soon he was full tilt up there.  I left with NO pain, just a nice warm feeling down there that it had been used.
 
Sorry if TMI!  🙂
 

Thank you for sharing this - likely not the easiest memories to recall and express, even anonymously.

Sherman, the "Daddy's Reviews" link in your signature is out of date and broken. 

I’m more than just my balls!   I’m a lady. 

Saw him recently in Florida. Had a great time. He's a friendly and fun guy with a great body and very well endowed. My experience was terrific. 

For sure put your RM profile and your web site on your signature on this forum. I've definitely clicked on those and booked directly before. 

As someone who runs a SaaS (Software/Subscription as a Service) company, I have two pretty huge pieces of advice here for every reader of this thread, both providers and clients alike. They’re a little complicated but this is me 💯% swearing the return on investment is here and anyone who buys stuff online should be doing this already. If not, take time out of your schedule and reorganize over the next few weeks:
First: Always, always, always pay for an entire year up front for sites and software you have already determined you like and already see good value in the service. 
Sure, trial them for a month or two but pay for it yearly after you see the value the site brings.  Almost every single one typically offers at least a two month discount (e.g, $99/year vs. $9.99/month) which comes out to a 17% to 20% discount at minimum (sometimes more!) and let’s be honest… prices never ever decrease. They only increase so you’re locked in for the remainder at an even better discount when that happens. This applies to everything from Netflix to Hulu to Amazon Prime to every site that has monthly subscriptions. You always come out ahead, and the company backing the site itself loves the extra revenue their finance folks can recognize on their balance sheet. Total win-win all around.  
Second: Almost every major bank and credit card company allows this now, so leverage online banking tools from  your bank or payment method’s site to create separate “virtual cards” unique to every merchant or website. Don’t pay with bank debits ever. Don’t use your main VISA/MC/AMEX card number that’s physically in your pocket either. At your financial institution site, in 2023, you can typically issue a new private card number and set a spend limit for each individual site you want to subscribe. 
For example, you can say a company is only allowed to charge $10/month to this virtual card. Sure, it requires a little bit more effort during the initial sign-up but once you’re in the habit, the benefits far, far outweigh the small inconvenience at the time and will make your finances exponentially easier to manage long after the fact. Anytime a site changes terms like Rent.men without notification, their charge is declined. Rent.men goes from $9.95 to $19.95 per change? Automatically declined.  I personally probably have 60-90 virtual cards in regular use for everything at any given time. Pro tip: Label them well and using consistent naming conventions  
Benefit #1: Doing this protects you when your physical card is compromised or lost, something we all know happens regularly these days and can be a royal pain in the ass.  With this model in place, you don’t need to re-enter your card everywhere when it happens. Not only software sites and streaming services, but little league fees for your kids, accounts at bookstores or libraries in town, saved payment methods at PayPal or Airline websites or Amazon or GNC.com or 5,000 other eCommerce sites. Trust me here, generating separate virtual cards for all your online activities —IS— a proven lifesaver not only with time but as a budget control stop gap measure. 
Benefit #2: It prevents sites from charging more without notice. It reverses the roles and puts you in control of the money and debits and you can easily shut off a virtual card where the site doesn’t make it easy to cancel.
“Hold the fuck up! You want me to wait on the phone to call to cancel and listen to someone for ten minutes trying to convince me otherwise??” — in this separate card for each site model, you login to your bank and toggle that specific card tied to that site to the off position and never speak to them again. They automatically close your account after 30 days of declined payments. Win-win all around. 

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That’s all for now typing from my phone at 3:15 AM. I have a half dozen other tips in these scenarios as this type of model is at the core at what my corporation does, but the ones above are mutually beneficial all around.
 
Well, except shutting off virtual cards for individual sites that don’t offer an easy method to cancel recurring charges (think gyms and health/fitness clubs). But that’s on the company for making it harder to cancel. SaaS platforms should be able to flick on and off each month just a light ditch. That’s simply good business in 2023 where you do t have a 12 month or longer contract. 
 
This stuff is kind of my wheelhouse, so if anybody has any questions on the intricacies of how any of this works, feel free to post. My only goal is to educate and help everyone here not only with Rent.men, but the other 20-30 sites we all pay monthly for these days. It also helps you set overall budgets (and stick with them!) on sites like OnlyFans so they don’t get out of hand. 👀😳🤣😎 
I hope this post was helpful to many others in the forum  Upvotes or reactions are very much appreciated to show thanks and let me know if contributing like this is something I should do more.
 
Anyway hope ya’ll got laid this past weekend. multiple times. 😳🍆 
 

The escorts I meet are completely out of my league and would ignore me on grindr so it does feel like a conquest to be able to bed them as a client.