Cbilly17

You got scammed dude, it happens to the best of us. Move on and don’t make the same mistake again. Sorry he got one over on you. It sucks. 

https://www.ladbible.com/news/health/doctors-average-penis-length-stanford-university-310583-20240506
 
Interesting read.  Who knew there was a study being conducted on such a topic!  😂 

I prefer the Starfish position.  Just lay there with all appendages spread out, and let the other guy do all the work. ⭐

Just rubbing cocks together feels good too  

I find that very interesting 🤔. I myself have been a bottom my whole life😏. The feeling of being filled up by another man using my ass has never been matched 😉.

I’m a bottom with a great dick who isn’t remotely interested in using it lol 

Yesterday I was with a top for over 7 hours in total, most of it with me on bottom. When I wasn’t on the bottom we were out dining. Today I am recovering. 

Bottom here. However, I used to top every time. It wasn’t until I met my partner did I begin to bottom. I don’t consider myself verse. I’ve always enjoyed sticking to a position with whomever I was with at the time (which is why I never bottomed previously). My partner was strict about topping so I had to make the change (there was no way I would walk away 😆). We have been together for a while now and I don’t see anything changing. So, I’m a bottom! 🎉 

I notice that because I’m large a lot of clients want me to top. The same applies when making films, I usually top. So generally in my professional sex (that’s what I call work sex) I’m a top. But for recreational sex I usually like to bottom. Perhaps it’s because it’s different.
Overall to me though it doesn’t matter, I like both roles (even at the same time  😈). It’s just that sometimes it’s simply more practical to top, or even to do everything else but penetrate. One of the roles not listed in the OP’s survey was ‘side’ but I find quite a lot of clients would describe themselves as just that. Nothing internal but lots of cuddling, body contact, frontage, hand jobs and kissing etc. That can be a fantastic session without the ‘pressure’ to penetrate anything. 

I have always considered myself as vers but, yes there is always a but, I will not bottom for just anyone. On the other hand, I will Top just about anything that moves. Does that make me vers Top?

Pics, please! Can you take a belfie!
I'm sure you could make a few extra bucks in this forum!

I was literally voted "best ass" in high school (by the girls).
I've been told I have the hottest ass so many times, I don't need to pretend I don't know it.

That assumption seems a little upside down to me.
When I was younger and was going with older men...I  bottomed a lot because all the masculine sporty men I went with were tops and I was possessed with a perfect round 🍑 butt that everyone wanted.
By my late 20s I only went with guys my own age and became more vers as many of them wanted me to top.
By my 40s I was now an older masculine man and everyone I met was younger and eager for me to top.
So in most of MY own experiences it was always younger bottom / older top.
It would actually seem kind of odd to me for a mature man to expect a twink to take over. 🤔
 

Just curious what the makeup of the forum is when it comes to sexual position. I'm guessing the majority are bottoms as we have a good amount of older guys on here. I'm pretty much a top although I like to be rimmed and fingered. Just no cock in my hole. Only been fucked a couple times and wasn't a fan.

I wouldn’t call any of these “horror stories”, but do have some negative experiences that come to mind.  Pre-pandemic, when I was actively looking to meet guys on Grindr, I was picky as to who I would message/respond to and then would vet hookups by chatting on and off for at least a few days prior to meeting.  I was lucky to have never been in a dangerous situation, due in part to these measures.  Anyway, here are some of these negative experiences:
1- A cute guy invites me to come to his place for a hookup. A few minutes before I arrive at his place, he sends a pic of his (slightly less cute) husband and asks if he can join us. I say yes despite not generally being into three-ways. When I arrive, the guy I had been messaging looks about 20 years older and 50 pounds heavier than his pics, but the husband looks like his pic so I went through with it. I honestly didn’t have a terrible time, but guys sending outdated and/or edited pics became a theme (which I won’t go into since it’s self-explanatory).
2- I’m giving a hot guy a bj in his living room and his (likely Orthodox Jewish female) roommate walks in, screams, and runs out.
3- Another theme: guys I [think I] have a great time with blocking me seconds after I leave.  Or better yet, blocking me or stopping responding/not giving an exact address right before we’re about to meet (I once waited on a guy’s corner for almost an hour before I realized he had ghosted me despite making plans).
4- I see a guy on Grindr who appears to be incredibly close, like 50 feet away.  I’m intrigued and we hit it off.  He then sends a face pic which I am not remotely attracted to, so I block him.  The very next day, we got on my building’s elevator together.  What an introduction to a new neighbor!
5- This one was completely my fault and I wonder if this guy could have become a boyfriend had our first encounter gone differently.  He was gorgeous and our chemistry via messaging was amazing.  In a nutshell, he asked if I could meet him for a quick drink and I should have said “not today” instead of “yes”… I arrived at the bar very sweaty/unkempt from a particularly physical day of work and didn’t realize I only had a few dollars in my wallet.  I fortunately noticed the latter before I ordered so only got a water.  I proceeded to be judgmental of my date for drinking “heavily” before his work function (I was an innocent 22 so my perception of heavy drinking was skewed).  I then walked my date to his function and he gave me a kiss on the cheek (which I could still feel), but I knew I’d never see him again.  Despite knowing his (relatively common) full name and vocation, I have not been able to track him down to apologize and ask for a second chance.

I just tasted another man’s cum for the first time a few months ago. I actually liked it. I want to work on my skills to have someone shoot their load down my throat and take like a champ.

I just tasted another man’s cum for the first time a few months ago. I actually liked it. I want to work on my skills to have someone shoot their load down my throat and take like a champ.

I've told this story before, but when I lived in an apartment, there was a guy laying out at the pool, very small speedo, who was apparently dozing in a chaise lounge and got an erection that started poking out of the waistband.  Lots of people, including myself, moving their chairs closer to watch. 

Any stories of sex in a country where it is risky? Curious...

Guess I'm an exception.   Just shy of 65.  And I feel elderly in many ways.
I say old people things.  I tell young people that they'll feel differently after they have more experience.   Roll my eyes at young folk willingness to follow trends.  Couldn't name 80% of the performers if I watched the Grammys,.  I occasionally hear a phrase leave my lips that was a staple of my grandfather. 
I've been known to groan upon standing from a very low sofa.  I can't stuff my face anymore.  I no longer consider using my teeth as tools as I might have when younger.  If I slip/trip and fall like a klutz, my friends gasp and make sure I'm alright... 30 years ago, they'd have laughed their asses off.  Two years ago, I fell asleep sitting up in a chair for the first time in my life.   I feel refreshed and accomplished if I wake up in the morning and realize that I slept 8 hours without a prostate bio-run.
I spent the better part of my younger weekends in gay bars and clubs.  Not only doesnt the bar scene interest me anymore, I cringe at the idea of being one of the old guys I used to see sitting at the bar.  Even 6-8 years ago, I was perusing Grindr when traveling.   My last hire was February 2020, and I was sick with Covid 36 hours later.  Now, I'd rather read a book than deal with Grindr, rentmen, etc.  
I may not be infirm, or ready for the rocking chair.  But, at least attitudinally, I've developed many symptoms of fuddy-duddy-itis.  And the confirming symptom: I'm content with the other symptoms. 
 

I became sexually active fairly young (17), so most of the gay men with whom I had sex in the early years were older than I was, and most wanted to, or expected to, fuck me. They seemed to stereotype me as a "twink," since I was average height (5'10") and very slender, and I was attracted to taller men who were well built and hairy, so they often were taken aback when I resisted the classic script. As a result, when they did fuck me, I was usually less than enthusiastic about it, and rarely maintained an erection while being fucked.
The first time that I discovered that getting fucked could actually be pleasurable occurred in my early 20s. I was a regular at a local gay bar in Philadelphia, and one of the bartenders was a favorite with many customers. I found him physically and personally very attractive, and I was told by other regulars that he had a big cock and loved to fuck, and he was good at it. One night he suggested at closing that he would like to accompany me to my apartment, and I said yes. Because I liked him and already knew what to expect, I was relaxed and prepared to make the best of the experience. When we tumbled into bed we were still partly dressed, and he quickly took me from behind. He whispered sweet nothings in my ear as he slowly fucked me while jerking me off, and to my own surprise I came explosively at the same time he did! It wasn't until he withdrew that I saw his cock, and was shocked at the size of it--how could I possibly have taken that?! The answer, of course, was that I was strongly attracted to him, was psychologically prepared, and he was an expert at what he did to make me enjoy the whole physical and emotional experience. Unfortunately, it was a once-in-a-lifetime experience, but he did make me realize that it was possible.

I am 200% bottom but I want my Dick to stay hard when am getting fucked. I don’t care so much about ejaculation as there is something about a selfish Top whose only focus is his Dick and my hole is a huge turn on 😌😇

One of my hottest encounters with a provider....   Brody lived on the West Coast but grew up in Boston area.   I saw his ad up in Boston one weekend, our schedules did not allow us to connect but we started txting and it was almost a year before he came back to Boston.  In the meantime, we txt'd weekly or so....and built up an incredible amount of sexual tension.  Brody was not a full-time provider, he had a day job in finance and only escorted when he was traveling - did not want to do this on his "home turf".    It was more about the fantasy, he didn't need the money.  Something about that made him even more appealing to me.
As his next trip came upon us, I told him I wanted to act out a fantasy.  I wanted to come into the hotel room and find him sleeping.....sneak into bed with him and slowly have my way with him.
Brody flew the redeye in and I got a hotel room in advance so he could check in once his flight arrived.  Before his arrival, I left a single rose, small box of Belgian  chocolates and a card on the pillow.  I left work about 11am to head over to the hotel.  As promised he was naked in bed with the covers on, lights out and room darkening shades drawn.
I entered the room every so quietly, and slowly got undressed.   Tiptoed over to the bed and crawled under the covers from the side of the bed.   The energy in the air was electric.  Mind you, his eyes have been closed the entire time....we had never seen each other in person before.  I started kissing the back of his neck, and slowly worked my way down his back.  When my tongue reach his ass, he let out a moan.  I said "is it bad manners that I'm eating your ass and I haven't even kissed you yet?", we both chuckled....at this point he was "awake".   The rest is.....up to your imagination but it was the hottest 90 min of tops-n-bottoms dad/son role play you can imagine, we set the bed on fire 🔥.
I saw Brody several more times when he would come back to Boston.  The sex was incredible every time.   His last visit was kind of a disaster, though and we agreed to move on.   No hard feelings, and I wish him the best.  Thanks for the hot memories Brody 😉

One of my favorites is “catching” the “son” jerking off. 
 
You catch him, it’s embarrassing for him but gives you the opportunity to have ‘the talk’ with him; how all men do it, proper techniques, and other things that can be done to make it feel even better. You could show him, but it’s got to be kept secret from his mother because she would get upset and you have to hurry because she could be home at any minute. 
 
You can fill in your own blanks, for example, whether he blows you or vice versa, etc. 
 

I don’t discriminate as long as it’s clean 😂