Cbilly17

I wish you could filter out PNP. I see a delicious guy and then have to pass because of it. Show me the men that don’t do it.

This is a fantasy of mine, but an all day kiss, suck and fuck fest.

I’m sure there are guys out there that would love what you offer and not need the penetration. I’d be one of them.

I wish you could filter out PNP. I see a delicious guy and then have to pass because of it. Show me the men that don’t do it.

Kissing is a must. I need that connection. Even in my fantasies it always starts with kissing.

If the chemistry is right I will definitely cuddle during and after sex.

If the chemistry is right I will definitely cuddle during and after sex.

If the chemistry is right I will definitely cuddle during and after sex.

I wish you could filter out PNP. I see a delicious guy and then have to pass because of it. Show me the men that don’t do it.

If the chemistry is right I will definitely cuddle during and after sex.

You and I have very similar situations except, in my case, there is very little touch or physical affection at home.  If I am with an escort I know well and click with, I welcome the chance to spend time after sex, chatting while continuing to hold and touch one another.  If I’m with a new provider or one with whom I have no chemistry, I’m outta there fairly quickly.

I hire escorts for sex. Not affection.
So cuddling after sex is NOT something I want and would turn down if offered. 
Like a lot of men, I compartmentalize my sex life. I still enjoy the company of my wife, so any needs for affection are still satisfied at home. But like a LOT of people, when youre married for nearly two decades, your sex life at home takes a nose-dive and its nice to be able to branch out and find other ways to satisfy those needs. 
I do still feel very happy curled up next to my wife (and former bestie). So cuddling with anyone else would feel wrong to me. Not just with an escort. 
 

PNP and attitude!
Bad work ethic, laziness, etc

I would guess his age is listed this way on RM due to the filter settings. If he used his real age, it could impact his visibility in search results for people looking for younger men. It’s a business decision. Age in gay years is like dog years—every year feels like seven. It’s a shame in many ways. He should be proud of his age and the experience he brings. By not being upfront about it, he risks disappointing clients who are expecting someone much younger when they open the door. Personally, I’ve always been drawn to older, more mature men. Even when I was younger, I gravitated toward the older guys.

Kissing is a must. I need that connection. Even in my fantasies it always starts with kissing.

I like some chat before, during, and after. It makes the playdate seem more natural and less transactional. However, a few escorts have endlessly prattled on, seemingly to minimize the time we would spend playing. That is a bug "not OK."
 

I don’t care what an escort does in his private life as long as he fulfills what I want. Also, me and my husband (who is a top) hire together so guys who can really top and bottom in a session are *chef’s kiss.” 
I’ve seen members here question the masculinity of providers as if there’s some authentic masculinity. There isn’t. It’s all a performance that we learn growing up and some of us then lean more into what feels “natural” to us. 

Never had an issue on RM but definitely used a burner number, do not host only hotels, avoid anything PNP on their profile, use well reviewed established providers. I can tell a lot by their texting style words used as well. 

YMMV but a near foolproof method is to only hire well-reviewed providers on CoM.

I reiterate my suggestion for you to come to Hong Kong in one of your trips to Asia. You are an Asian side who loves rimming -that’s already three huge plus on my list-, and now you write that edging is also your thing. 👏👏👏👏👏
That takes you to the top of my wishes, @asiantwunktop

Fuck, I love edging. Feeling a well-slicked cock swell and throb in my mouth before tasting that wave of precum right before release, and then backing off for the umpteenth time… these are the moments worth living for. 

Some guys (like me) are into edging scenes. You could promote something like that, too. 

Frottage is an under-appreciated sensual activity. 
When I was young, I used to volunteer for a workshop that taught young gay men to enjoy sexual encounters that didn't involve penetration as a way of reducing the spread of HIV.  
When you grow up in a religious community like I did, you learn to engage in a variety of sexual activity that doesn't involve actually fucking your girlfriend. Most girls wanted an expression of love and commitment before they would go there...so you learned to be satisfied without, if you werent yet serious with a partner. (Unless you went out with one of the sluttier girls)....who I eventually learned were more fun.

My point, "side" means everything except anal. 

I’m sure there are guys out there that would love what you offer and not need the penetration. I’d be one of them.