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I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

Johhny Hazzard, Max Grand, Jeff Stryker & Adam Russo.

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

Reasons for doing sex work are as varied as reasons for doing any other kind of work. Sometimes it’s a necessity for money sometimes it’s a calling. It will impact how dedicated and committed someone is to it.
It’s a lazy assumption to make that people only do sex work out of desperation. The other sex workers I know do it out of choice. So do I. I enjoy it. I like the flexibility, the variety, the excitement, meeting people, helping them to explore their sexual selves and other aspects of their personality that come out in a truly intimate situation. 
I think though that because the work is precarious, and unpredictable (sometimes busy, sometimes not) then it’s important to have a secure source of alternative income from a part time job or other work that fits around the sex work. Flexibility is key here. That gives you the security to build the sex work client base and keeps things in perspective I think.
 

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

If one is truly "in the market," one has to spend endless hours (and scads of dollars) advertising one's wares in bars, or cruising the internet, and then--if one happens to wrangle a date--there comes the potentially more expensive period of courtship, after which (for the pleasure of a few nights in the sack... if one's lucky!) either party determines there are greener pastures elsewhere, and the process begins anew. Yes, there are stick-to-it-boyfriends, but their terms are interspersed with YEARS of single mingling.
This applies to the straight crew, too... Note all the lonely-hearted married men looking on [hookup websites] because they are unfulfilled...
Or am I stating the obvious?

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

I too, like several others replying here, started my escorting career at what some would consider late: 40 (GASP!).
After 17 years & counting, I'm now semi-retired...cut back on a LOT of the traveling I used to do and see mostly regulars. I will admit there's still that rush that comes with each new client, though.
There seems to be a "market" for us older guys, and personally, I enjoy what I do too much to give it up because of a number.

Posted in Oliver’s Calendar section as well- in San Fran the 3 days before the weekend, but will be out in Palm Springs, Saturday, Sunday, and probably Monday. Looking forward to seeing you all!

Big assumption that 30’s brings a decline. I didn’t start working in the sex industry until my 40’s. I was far too immature and naive when younger to do this type of work properly. It would have eaten me up. Now I eat it up 🙂 
I’ve always been physically active and am fortunate enough to have good genes I guess so I keep looking fit but more importantly feeling fit and healthy. I don’t drink or do any substances either so I’m sure that helps. 
One thing I learned working as a sex worker is to discard all the lazy stereotype assumptions about sex workers I had previously. All kinds of people do this work and if my experience of them is anything to go by they’re a lot more genuine, decent and open minded group of people than I encountered working in the world of big corporations and board rooms. And a lot more intelligent too. 

 

I didn’t start escorting until I was in my 30s. Twenty years later my retirement in America’s biggest city is fully funded. 
 
Kevin Slater

Wow...  a lot of assumptions here.  
MOST escorts don't live in "the big city with the high life".   In fact I would venture a guess to say very few live the "high life".  All of the ones I know across a dozen cities are just normal guys who are not rich by any means. While some escorts are able to sustain their lifestyle through their work, I would venture a guess that MANY do it as a side gig to have extra spending cash or supplement their income.   You make the assumption that once you hit your mid 30's, it's all downhill and that their escorting days are over.  Some escorts just start hitting their stride in their 30-40's.  Not everyone is looking to hire an 18-25 year old.    There are several escorts that I know who have been able to make a pretty long run out of the activity with no signs of slowing down.   You're making the assumption the escort would not have made provisions for later in life. This is no different than someone in ANY field/career.  Some do and some don't.  As I noted, for many it's not even their primary income.  Those that do have it as their primary income typically are smarter about knowing it does not last forever and have something else they can do outside of escorting.  One started his own massage business...  another went into construction...  another is a motivational speaker.  There are a lot of career options outside of escorting!  

I don't think you can generalize the situation. Aging is a gradual process and while mid thirties is perhaps the peak of male powers in many ways, the descent into the 40's for many is a great time given the added experiences and skills one acquires.
I have hired providers up to around 50 or so and enjoyed the experience. At that age they still seem young to me.

One of my favorite topics! Entitlement, smugness, lack of consideration for others, an attitude of "I'm paying so whatever I say, goes" or "I'm the customer and the customer is always right". You can find a little bit of that obnoxious childish sentiment on here, in fact.

I can handle arrogance and ego, to a point, until it goes into the territory of entitlement and insult to others. 

I also usually don't give second chances to flakes/no shows either. That kind of goes into the category of "lack of consideration for others", but I get it.  People can panic and be anxious around something as vulnerable as sexuality. I'll cut those people some slack. But if you didn't show up because you "found someone else" or just changed your mind, then no. The least a person can do is message if they are canceling. I'm not wasting my time on you again if you couldn't even give me the bare minimum courtesy of telling me that you're canceling at the last minute. 

Very rarely have I regretted an appointment. I'll be pretty quick in detecting the entitlement right away and not even entertain meeting such characters in the first place. The flakes are harder to detect, but once you flake then nah not again. So my zero tolerance for flaking and entitlement has done me pretty well in preventing appointments I'll end up regretting. My sanity and self-respect are worth whatever amount they're willing to pay. The power to decide who I meet is one of the greatest perks of this job. 

A +++++ (!)

I received several texts from long time (and a few new) clients. All were a very pleasant distraction from family texts/calls, & added to the fun of the day....
Wishing everyone all the best in the upcoming year!
 

I received several texts from long time (and a few new) clients. All were a very pleasant distraction from family texts/calls, & added to the fun of the day....
Wishing everyone all the best in the upcoming year!
 

The idea of sex with guys in porn is nice.
The actual sex is usually pretty unspectacular.  
When you're in a biz where everyone tells you how amazing you are, it breeds an egotism and laziness that can translate to the bedroom.  
That said, there are some porn guys who are fucking incredible to get naked with.