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I love spanking a muscle ass barehanded.  Draven Navarro does indeed enjoy a good spanking but you have to vary the tempo with him.  Hard slaps with a loud sound by using a cupped hand and then when he feels comfortable, open the hand and slap so that the slap is just as hard but not as loud and because there is more area struck, it is a bit more painful.  That is when you will get the best reaction, a yelp, a moan, even a sob.  A kiss to the reddened area and a gentle massage will cool down the area and once he is comfortable again another extra hard slap.  
For me though, it is the sound of the slap that I find the most erotic, that and the sound of the moan.  It is not so much a power dynamic.  Also, I never do an over the lap spanking, standing bent over or lying face down are preferable for me.  Allows more variation in the intensity the stroke. Spanking is never the main event, so five minutes would be a long session but there may be more than one session in an encounter.  Also slapping an ass while giving oral usually leads to a jump and a particularly hard thrust which can be fun. 
Do not give up after one encounter, and spank when the fancy strikes you to strike him.  
A belt is also fun but I tend to leave that for one or two strikes as I am concerned I might really strike more than my partner enjoys.  
The redness after is a nice afterglow image.  

You commented with humor and didn't get personal or mean.  You know the difference.  You always have.
My comments weren't directed toward you (or anyone in-kind).
 

So some people say though I believe the original expression was.   The proof of the pudding is in the tasting.  Unless of course you are cheating on a high school math test by putting the answers in your dessert.  In that case the proof would be in the pudding and the quadratic equation is in the ice cream.     

If that was the intent of your statement, it was less than clear to me.  Do not vote the way most people vote sounded as though you were suggesting write in and third party voting, which are fine if that is your desire, but should not, in my opinion, be the goal of encouraging people to vote.  Perhaps teaching people to vote their conscious, or vote their best interest would have made your intent clearer to readers such as I.     Clearly I agree with your statement that most black Americans do not vote, as I made the same statement in my post.  

Most black Americans do not vote at all, so educating people in general and black youth specifically in view of this lack of participation, is a wise use of volunteer time.  Explaining to them how to that their "vote counts best by not voting the way most people vote" is proselytizing not volunteering.  

I clearly commented on his profile and its content not on him, as did most others.  However, when one chooses to have oneself represented by the gobbledy-gook which is his profile, it is not surprising that there is a run over effect.  

Would only hope he was not a English Composition major.  His profile was so overdone, that if it were Thanksgiving dinner he would be tossing out the turkey from the silver platter and ordering in McDonald's on his platinum American Express. 

Would only hope he was not a English Composition major.  His profile was so overdone, that if it were Thanksgiving dinner he would be tossing out the turkey from the silver platter and ordering in McDonald's on his platinum American Express. 

Columbo  TV detective who always had one more question.  

Apparently they have called for volunteers again to dig out the stadium for the Bills Chiefs game.  When I lived in Buffalo three feet of snow in a week was not that unusual but the city seemed to always be prepared for it while down here in NJ three inches of snow calls for school closures and winter weather warnings.  I guess it is all in what you get used to seeing.  

Columbo  TV detective who always had one more question.  

Theoretically, professional sex workers are not looking to get pregnant  but even if some of them are, the percentage would likely be lower than the number of women looking for a steady paycheck for child support from a rich professional basketball player.  Professional athletes, but it seem professional basketball players in particular have been known to have large number of children by a wide variety of women.  Jason Kidd for example. 8 children with four different women.  Six by wives and 2 from outside dalliances.   

Well that is much clearer. Thanks for unravelling my confusion at your initial post.    By the way I said that write ins and third party voting should not be the goal of teaching about voting, not that it should not be part of the education.  

If that was the intent of your statement, it was less than clear to me.  Do not vote the way most people vote sounded as though you were suggesting write in and third party voting, which are fine if that is your desire, but should not, in my opinion, be the goal of encouraging people to vote.  Perhaps teaching people to vote their conscious, or vote their best interest would have made your intent clearer to readers such as I.     Clearly I agree with your statement that most black Americans do not vote, as I made the same statement in my post.  

Most black Americans do not vote at all, so educating people in general and black youth specifically in view of this lack of participation, is a wise use of volunteer time.  Explaining to them how to that their "vote counts best by not voting the way most people vote" is proselytizing not volunteering.  

Sean Knight.   He of the magic left nipple.   He would practically come from playing with the left nipple.  The right one not so much.  He left the business and was traveling as an assistant and trainer to several different professional tennis players.  Great guy and seemingly doing very well after a short but illustrious career in our favorite profession.  

Columbo  TV detective who always had one more question.  

Always welcoming in the trips to Palm Springs.  Not always welcoming to ideas not consistent with his own which led to some interesting and well considered debates.  I recall at one of the pool parties he was in a debate with another guest, he was sitting on a couch next to an escort who he would either stop to enjoy orally when his opposing viewpoint guest was speaking or manually massaging the escort's member to emphasize his own point.  It seems to me the two things he enjoyed the most were a good debate and good sex, but I know he many other passions such as cooking and traveling and history and....well the list goes on.  I know he was a great friend to Oliver and to many others.  

This is generally an affluent group so it is not a surprise to have many people with no debt.  I am also an Amex user with monthly full balance payments taken automatically.  I use Amex to pay all my purchases and bills.  I see no reason for automatic payments of utilities and the like when I can have them paid automatically through Amex  and get the points.  When I redid my kitchen, I got all of my appliance with points and racked up a bunch of new points with the purchase.  

I would have responded to your original posting adding Eric Hassan to the list, but I could not locate it.  There are some photos of Eric in which he is definitely classically handsome and others in which he is devilishly handsome.  I must say he is more handsome in person and thanks for bringing him up, it has been way too long since I called him last.   

I would have responded to your original posting adding Eric Hassan to the list, but I could not locate it.  There are some photos of Eric in which he is definitely classically handsome and others in which he is devilishly handsome.  I must say he is more handsome in person and thanks for bringing him up, it has been way too long since I called him last.   

So some people say though I believe the original expression was.   The proof of the pudding is in the tasting.  Unless of course you are cheating on a high school math test by putting the answers in your dessert.  In that case the proof would be in the pudding and the quadratic equation is in the ice cream.     

My first advice would be to get an experienced partner who can hit the right spots and let you know what you should be feeling and how much you want to feel it again.  
I have used that particular toy on others and while stimulating, it did not bring the kind of excitement I would have expected, so perhaps it is not the way you are using it that is the problem, rather the design itself.  
It is difficult to massage your own prostate.  The easiest way is probably using a thumb though you may not be able to get in deep enough that way.  Using any of the fingers requires a bit of practice and agility.  So I get back to trying to find a partner who can do the job for you.  
Anatomically the prostate is located anterior to the rectum and is usually about 1/2 to 2 inches in from the sphincter, so once you are in you should pretty much have your finger on the button if you are using fingers.  With the thumb it may be just at the tip of the thumb. 
Again, learning the anatomy on another person is probably the best way to familiarize yourself with where things are and what is what.   Pressure should be enough to tingle but not hurt and movement from side to side is pleasing and as you become accustomed to it, pressing down harder will make the sensations more intense.