ThroatCummer

How many times do you answer the phone in your real life when someone who calls isn't already in your contact list? 
For me: ZERO 

Are you saying that a provider and a client can't become friends?
Shit, I should ask that one provider who asked me to move into his apartment with him. I mean it was tough because he had a ton of clothes and not much closet space, but when I finally packed up and moved he figured out a way to make room for both of our stuff. 
Don't judge. You have no idea of the dynamic between this poster and the provider and whatever relationship they may have. 

Are you saying that a provider and a client can't become friends?
Shit, I should ask that one provider who asked me to move into his apartment with him. I mean it was tough because he had a ton of clothes and not much closet space, but when I finally packed up and moved he figured out a way to make room for both of our stuff. 
Don't judge. You have no idea of the dynamic between this poster and the provider and whatever relationship they may have. 

I don't think we can have a discussion about PNP without first defining what it is for everyone.  Here's the rub, everyone's definition varies. 
Consider the following: 
Adderall Heroin Caffeine Aspirin Sugar Poppers Alcohol Meth Weed GHB TRT/Hormones Crack Cocaine Nicotine Xanax LSD (Acid) Ketamine Ecstasy (MDMA) Mushrooms (Psilocybin) OxyContin Fentanyl You get the idea.  Those are just two dozen and there are many more. Many are prescribed. Many are available at the corner store for a few dollars. Many laws in many countries consider many different variables. Many countries will put you in jail for having a substance in your body that is legal in another country. Some doctors prescribe things to one person they would never give to another. 

I absolutely hate when anyone, in any circumstance uses the word "drugs" under the connotation they are bad. Why? Because every person on this planet puts a drug into their body dozens of times each ….. Edit: Please! No discussions on religions. 

Did you see the case of a dude from the USA who smoked weed every day, stopped before his flight, got on an airplane, got off in Egypt or Saudi Arabia, fell down, broke his arm at the airport, was taken to the hospital, then jailed because he had "drugs" in his system? But for this moment, let's assume this discussion is USA-focused. What is a "drug" and which ones are good and which are bad? 

Over the various years, I have been with providers who say NO PNP but come to find out they actually do, but say that to weed out the meth heads. I've seen providers advertise PNP, but don't partake and only list it to open up their client base to those who wish to partake. 
Personally, I use each drug as a tool to enhance my life or experience what I want in any given moment. Adderall to focus on work and be a high performer. Alcohol to socialize. MDMA/GHB/Cocaine to rip lines and party with my friends all night and off the charts crazy good sex. I do stay away from any injectable recreational drug like heroin that isn't explicitly used because I need it to live, or any of the highly highly addictive recreational ones like crystal meth. Then again alcohol is a highly highly addictive recreational one and that's sold freely and celebrated, and destroys more lives and kills more people than all of them combined, so who are we kidding?
If you hold down a solid job, you provide for your family and friends, you show up for those that need you and who you care about, and you're a well functioning member of society who overall contributes good to the world, do whatever the hell you want.  If you're in and out of jobs, or you aren't around when people need you, or you're racking up DUIs or whatever else [insert drug here] is doing harm to your life, then you need to stop. 
So back to PNP.  Tricky three letters, don't ya think? 

Are you saying that a provider and a client can't become friends?
Shit, I should ask that one provider who asked me to move into his apartment with him. I mean it was tough because he had a ton of clothes and not much closet space, but when I finally packed up and moved he figured out a way to make room for both of our stuff. 
Don't judge. You have no idea of the dynamic between this poster and the provider and whatever relationship they may have. 

I don't think we can have a discussion about PNP without first defining what it is for everyone.  Here's the rub, everyone's definition varies. 
Consider the following: 
Adderall Heroin Caffeine Aspirin Sugar Poppers Alcohol Meth Weed GHB TRT/Hormones Crack Cocaine Nicotine Xanax LSD (Acid) Ketamine Ecstasy (MDMA) Mushrooms (Psilocybin) OxyContin Fentanyl You get the idea.  Those are just two dozen and there are many more. Many are prescribed. Many are available at the corner store for a few dollars. Many laws in many countries consider many different variables. Many countries will put you in jail for having a substance in your body that is legal in another country. Some doctors prescribe things to one person they would never give to another. 

I absolutely hate when anyone, in any circumstance uses the word "drugs" under the connotation they are bad. Why? Because every person on this planet puts a drug into their body dozens of times each ….. Edit: Please! No discussions on religions. 

Did you see the case of a dude from the USA who smoked weed every day, stopped before his flight, got on an airplane, got off in Egypt or Saudi Arabia, fell down, broke his arm at the airport, was taken to the hospital, then jailed because he had "drugs" in his system? But for this moment, let's assume this discussion is USA-focused. What is a "drug" and which ones are good and which are bad? 

Over the various years, I have been with providers who say NO PNP but come to find out they actually do, but say that to weed out the meth heads. I've seen providers advertise PNP, but don't partake and only list it to open up their client base to those who wish to partake. 
Personally, I use each drug as a tool to enhance my life or experience what I want in any given moment. Adderall to focus on work and be a high performer. Alcohol to socialize. MDMA/GHB/Cocaine to rip lines and party with my friends all night and off the charts crazy good sex. I do stay away from any injectable recreational drug like heroin that isn't explicitly used because I need it to live, or any of the highly highly addictive recreational ones like crystal meth. Then again alcohol is a highly highly addictive recreational one and that's sold freely and celebrated, and destroys more lives and kills more people than all of them combined, so who are we kidding?
If you hold down a solid job, you provide for your family and friends, you show up for those that need you and who you care about, and you're a well functioning member of society who overall contributes good to the world, do whatever the hell you want.  If you're in and out of jobs, or you aren't around when people need you, or you're racking up DUIs or whatever else [insert drug here] is doing harm to your life, then you need to stop. 
So back to PNP.  Tricky three letters, don't ya think? 

So here's the thing.  I have been on here a long time. I have hired a ton of guys and even turned many into actually friendships and relationships. I'm saying that because I know my way around to prove a point.  Look at my posting history -- I never say bad things about one particular escort. 
But this guy, Stud Hassan. He's fucking hot as hell but stay away. He likes big, older, daddy types. That's his natural type which I think has been discussed here plenty before and he may even mention in some of this profile(s). 

If you're that type and you don't want to see him regularly or disengage or stop paying, he gets very possessive and needy. He has constantly texted me years after we hooked up again.  I finally got a text tonight from him saying he would be in my area and against my better judgement, I was 1) kind of in the mood, and 2) wasn't talking to anyone else at the time and have/had free time.  But then it just turned sour so I blocked his phone number. 

I went on Rent Men and sent this to him in a private message.... if he replies, I will probably just block him there too. 
"I just blocked your number but want to say one last thing so listen VERY CLOSELY: I was the one paying you. This was a business transaction. If I wanted more I would ask and invite. I have no problem getting laid big some of the hottest guys on the planet for free, and I have an entire network of friends and connections I can text with that keeps my time more than full. You don't get to text me, and then when I engage and ask questions, deflect or say, and I quote: "You don't get to ask questions lol"  -- YES, I DO. I was hiring you for something at the time. You're not needed anymore. Know your place. " So that's my experience with him in mid Sept 2025. 
For the record, I hired him ONE TIME back in 2022. 

I don't think we can have a discussion about PNP without first defining what it is for everyone.  Here's the rub, everyone's definition varies. 
Consider the following: 
Adderall Heroin Caffeine Aspirin Sugar Poppers Alcohol Meth Weed GHB TRT/Hormones Crack Cocaine Nicotine Xanax LSD (Acid) Ketamine Ecstasy (MDMA) Mushrooms (Psilocybin) OxyContin Fentanyl You get the idea.  Those are just two dozen and there are many more. Many are prescribed. Many are available at the corner store for a few dollars. Many laws in many countries consider many different variables. Many countries will put you in jail for having a substance in your body that is legal in another country. Some doctors prescribe things to one person they would never give to another. 

I absolutely hate when anyone, in any circumstance uses the word "drugs" under the connotation they are bad. Why? Because every person on this planet puts a drug into their body dozens of times each ….. Edit: Please! No discussions on religions. 

Did you see the case of a dude from the USA who smoked weed every day, stopped before his flight, got on an airplane, got off in Egypt or Saudi Arabia, fell down, broke his arm at the airport, was taken to the hospital, then jailed because he had "drugs" in his system? But for this moment, let's assume this discussion is USA-focused. What is a "drug" and which ones are good and which are bad? 

Over the various years, I have been with providers who say NO PNP but come to find out they actually do, but say that to weed out the meth heads. I've seen providers advertise PNP, but don't partake and only list it to open up their client base to those who wish to partake. 
Personally, I use each drug as a tool to enhance my life or experience what I want in any given moment. Adderall to focus on work and be a high performer. Alcohol to socialize. MDMA/GHB/Cocaine to rip lines and party with my friends all night and off the charts crazy good sex. I do stay away from any injectable recreational drug like heroin that isn't explicitly used because I need it to live, or any of the highly highly addictive recreational ones like crystal meth. Then again alcohol is a highly highly addictive recreational one and that's sold freely and celebrated, and destroys more lives and kills more people than all of them combined, so who are we kidding?
If you hold down a solid job, you provide for your family and friends, you show up for those that need you and who you care about, and you're a well functioning member of society who overall contributes good to the world, do whatever the hell you want.  If you're in and out of jobs, or you aren't around when people need you, or you're racking up DUIs or whatever else [insert drug here] is doing harm to your life, then you need to stop. 
So back to PNP.  Tricky three letters, don't ya think? 

I don't think we can have a discussion about PNP without first defining what it is for everyone.  Here's the rub, everyone's definition varies. 
Consider the following: 
Adderall Heroin Caffeine Aspirin Sugar Poppers Alcohol Meth Weed GHB TRT/Hormones Crack Cocaine Nicotine Xanax LSD (Acid) Ketamine Ecstasy (MDMA) Mushrooms (Psilocybin) OxyContin Fentanyl You get the idea.  Those are just two dozen and there are many more. Many are prescribed. Many are available at the corner store for a few dollars. Many laws in many countries consider many different variables. Many countries will put you in jail for having a substance in your body that is legal in another country. Some doctors prescribe things to one person they would never give to another. 

I absolutely hate when anyone, in any circumstance uses the word "drugs" under the connotation they are bad. Why? Because every person on this planet puts a drug into their body dozens of times each ….. Edit: Please! No discussions on religions. 

Did you see the case of a dude from the USA who smoked weed every day, stopped before his flight, got on an airplane, got off in Egypt or Saudi Arabia, fell down, broke his arm at the airport, was taken to the hospital, then jailed because he had "drugs" in his system? But for this moment, let's assume this discussion is USA-focused. What is a "drug" and which ones are good and which are bad? 

Over the various years, I have been with providers who say NO PNP but come to find out they actually do, but say that to weed out the meth heads. I've seen providers advertise PNP, but don't partake and only list it to open up their client base to those who wish to partake. 
Personally, I use each drug as a tool to enhance my life or experience what I want in any given moment. Adderall to focus on work and be a high performer. Alcohol to socialize. MDMA/GHB/Cocaine to rip lines and party with my friends all night and off the charts crazy good sex. I do stay away from any injectable recreational drug like heroin that isn't explicitly used because I need it to live, or any of the highly highly addictive recreational ones like crystal meth. Then again alcohol is a highly highly addictive recreational one and that's sold freely and celebrated, and destroys more lives and kills more people than all of them combined, so who are we kidding?
If you hold down a solid job, you provide for your family and friends, you show up for those that need you and who you care about, and you're a well functioning member of society who overall contributes good to the world, do whatever the hell you want.  If you're in and out of jobs, or you aren't around when people need you, or you're racking up DUIs or whatever else [insert drug here] is doing harm to your life, then you need to stop. 
So back to PNP.  Tricky three letters, don't ya think? 

Alright, I am going to go against my general rule and reply: 
I've hired him fairly recently. My advice would be to find someone else. He is hot, yes. Great body, handsome face, all of the above. 
But he's not a great escort. He's only concerned about himself and what he wants. He just doesn't give off the "comfortable" vibe and not for nothing, I can get comfortable with almost anyone in the world.  
Pass and move on.... 

I have met with him when he was visiting New York City twice. He's very, very sexy so don't let the no face turn you away, he just values discretion as this isn't his main job and he only does it occasionally. He's probably bigger in person and has a really outgoing, extroverted, personality... the type that can get along and engage with anyone. This can be rare for such a jacked muscle guy like him but he is very humble and quite funny/joking and all smiles.  Definitely recommended. 

I've hired him and reviewed on RM. Passionate, totally into it, fully present, and will absolutely repeat. 

I have met with him when he was visiting New York City twice. He's very, very sexy so don't let the no face turn you away, he just values discretion as this isn't his main job and he only does it occasionally. He's probably bigger in person and has a really outgoing, extroverted, personality... the type that can get along and engage with anyone. This can be rare for such a jacked muscle guy like him but he is very humble and quite funny/joking and all smiles.  Definitely recommended. 

So here's the thing.  I have been on here a long time. I have hired a ton of guys and even turned many into actually friendships and relationships. I'm saying that because I know my way around to prove a point.  Look at my posting history -- I never say bad things about one particular escort. 
But this guy, Stud Hassan. He's fucking hot as hell but stay away. He likes big, older, daddy types. That's his natural type which I think has been discussed here plenty before and he may even mention in some of this profile(s). 

If you're that type and you don't want to see him regularly or disengage or stop paying, he gets very possessive and needy. He has constantly texted me years after we hooked up again.  I finally got a text tonight from him saying he would be in my area and against my better judgement, I was 1) kind of in the mood, and 2) wasn't talking to anyone else at the time and have/had free time.  But then it just turned sour so I blocked his phone number. 

I went on Rent Men and sent this to him in a private message.... if he replies, I will probably just block him there too. 
"I just blocked your number but want to say one last thing so listen VERY CLOSELY: I was the one paying you. This was a business transaction. If I wanted more I would ask and invite. I have no problem getting laid big some of the hottest guys on the planet for free, and I have an entire network of friends and connections I can text with that keeps my time more than full. You don't get to text me, and then when I engage and ask questions, deflect or say, and I quote: "You don't get to ask questions lol"  -- YES, I DO. I was hiring you for something at the time. You're not needed anymore. Know your place. " So that's my experience with him in mid Sept 2025. 
For the record, I hired him ONE TIME back in 2022. 

To echo some of the comments above, I took one of my escorts on an overseas trip because I needed a companion -- sex was not the primary focus at all.
I am the Founder of one of my companies.  The CEO that I hired and his son were planning a trip to a specific country they hadn't visited before that I really, really wanted to go and see myself. None of my friends were around to make the trip last minute and it was going to be an epic adventure and three is just an odd number so we needed a 4th person.  My regular escort who I had known for a while and done tons of overnights with was free so I asked him if he wanted to be the 4th in our group.  The CEO and his son had no idea, they just though he was a friend of mine., This escort is really, really good and can get along and manage in any situation and the trip was a complete and total success.  Comfortable all around, great times, a thousand pictures, it was freaking incredible.  Yes, the escort and I had sex a few times during the trip, but the main goal was literally just to have someone to run off and do things with with the CEO and son were doing their own thing. 
So yea, it does happen.  Also, this trip was to one of the last places on the planet where there is no modern stuff. Think: No Uber, no credit cards (Visa/MC don't work), no Google maps, nothing we all take for granted. You can probably guess it.
To your question: We negotiated a rate that was much lower than his hourly or overnight.  I was offering up the opportunity to see a country that hardly any Americans ever get to visit, and we had built a rapport over time where we were comfortable enough with each other that it wasn't "work, work, work, sex, sex, sex" all the time. It was legit a life adventure. Some people would spring at the chance and do it for free just having the flights/hotels/expenses paid. I did all that and gave him some on top. It was mutually beneficial to us both and a great business transaction with lasting memories.  It was very helpful that we liked the same things like going to the gym, having some similar interests, and common stuff to talk about. It was like having a best friend along for the ride... and CEO and son to this day still ask about him. LOL

My voicemail message literally says:  "You've reached [my name]. I don't regularly check voicemail, so if you need me, please send a text, e-mail, or reach out through any one of the 100 more modern communication methods for a response. *BEEP*"

My voicemail message literally says:  "You've reached [my name]. I don't regularly check voicemail, so if you need me, please send a text, e-mail, or reach out through any one of the 100 more modern communication methods for a response. *BEEP*"

How many times do you answer the phone in your real life when someone who calls isn't already in your contact list? 
For me: ZERO 

As someone who has travelled out of the country with a few guys and had it go really well, here's some questions you need to discuss before you go anywhere: 
1. What time do you normally wake up and go to sleep? Are you a morning person or night-owl?
2. When do you generally like to go to the gym, mornings, mid-day, afternoon?
3. Do you eat three square meals a day or just one huge one and when is that?
4. What interests you about [travel destination]? Is there something you want to do there? 
5. Should I take the lead on making all the plans or do you want to be a part of it? 
6. Do you have a contact in case anything bad happens to you? (This is crazy important; I went to a really disconnected mostly third world country with one of my guys -- a place where if he was put in the hospital I couldn't even make a phone call without making it a huge issue)
 
Those are just some to get you started. There's more, but it's a good base. 

That's an amazing story actually. 
First, you learned a huge lesson on how all this works. 
Second, you really didn't know and he could read that about you. That is a very good escort. 
Lastly, if you had a great time and the chemistry and energy was there -- and he really did seem to enjoy it and was sincere in that statement -- I would hire him again in a heartbeat and offer to over-pay the next handful of times (break it up if you can't afford it) and be straight up honest about it. It's a teachable moment and you could turn out to be one of his best clients if you really valued him. 

Thank you, ThroatCummer, for this review. After a really great first meet up last year, I had a not great second encounter with him a few months ago.  If people want details feel free to DM me but as hot as he is (and he is SOOOOO hot), I wouldn't see him again if he paid me.  He's a very self-absorbed person who is not focused on his clients needs.  

So here's the thing.  I have been on here a long time. I have hired a ton of guys and even turned many into actually friendships and relationships. I'm saying that because I know my way around to prove a point.  Look at my posting history -- I never say bad things about one particular escort. 
But this guy, Stud Hassan. He's fucking hot as hell but stay away. He likes big, older, daddy types. That's his natural type which I think has been discussed here plenty before and he may even mention in some of this profile(s). 

If you're that type and you don't want to see him regularly or disengage or stop paying, he gets very possessive and needy. He has constantly texted me years after we hooked up again.  I finally got a text tonight from him saying he would be in my area and against my better judgement, I was 1) kind of in the mood, and 2) wasn't talking to anyone else at the time and have/had free time.  But then it just turned sour so I blocked his phone number. 

I went on Rent Men and sent this to him in a private message.... if he replies, I will probably just block him there too. 
"I just blocked your number but want to say one last thing so listen VERY CLOSELY: I was the one paying you. This was a business transaction. If I wanted more I would ask and invite. I have no problem getting laid big some of the hottest guys on the planet for free, and I have an entire network of friends and connections I can text with that keeps my time more than full. You don't get to text me, and then when I engage and ask questions, deflect or say, and I quote: "You don't get to ask questions lol"  -- YES, I DO. I was hiring you for something at the time. You're not needed anymore. Know your place. " So that's my experience with him in mid Sept 2025. 
For the record, I hired him ONE TIME back in 2022. 

I'm pretty much the exact same as you. Read my post above. LOL

So here's the thing.  I have been on here a long time. I have hired a ton of guys and even turned many into actually friendships and relationships. I'm saying that because I know my way around to prove a point.  Look at my posting history -- I never say bad things about one particular escort. 
But this guy, Stud Hassan. He's fucking hot as hell but stay away. He likes big, older, daddy types. That's his natural type which I think has been discussed here plenty before and he may even mention in some of this profile(s). 

If you're that type and you don't want to see him regularly or disengage or stop paying, he gets very possessive and needy. He has constantly texted me years after we hooked up again.  I finally got a text tonight from him saying he would be in my area and against my better judgement, I was 1) kind of in the mood, and 2) wasn't talking to anyone else at the time and have/had free time.  But then it just turned sour so I blocked his phone number. 

I went on Rent Men and sent this to him in a private message.... if he replies, I will probably just block him there too. 
"I just blocked your number but want to say one last thing so listen VERY CLOSELY: I was the one paying you. This was a business transaction. If I wanted more I would ask and invite. I have no problem getting laid big some of the hottest guys on the planet for free, and I have an entire network of friends and connections I can text with that keeps my time more than full. You don't get to text me, and then when I engage and ask questions, deflect or say, and I quote: "You don't get to ask questions lol"  -- YES, I DO. I was hiring you for something at the time. You're not needed anymore. Know your place. " So that's my experience with him in mid Sept 2025. 
For the record, I hired him ONE TIME back in 2022. 

That's an amazing story actually. 
First, you learned a huge lesson on how all this works. 
Second, you really didn't know and he could read that about you. That is a very good escort. 
Lastly, if you had a great time and the chemistry and energy was there -- and he really did seem to enjoy it and was sincere in that statement -- I would hire him again in a heartbeat and offer to over-pay the next handful of times (break it up if you can't afford it) and be straight up honest about it. It's a teachable moment and you could turn out to be one of his best clients if you really valued him.