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Oh, fuck, I think I am going to like this thread in this particular forum, especially if I view a few more photos as the one that precedes my reaction.

no expert at all, but have been to all those place except Ha Long Bay......
quick comments....
flying "domestically" between these places was remarkably inexpensive.....booked the local flights ahead of time using Google Flights, etc., and didn't have any snafus......you might decide to pre-book meals and all that when booking the flights......airport operations and flights/crews were very efficient and a bit no-nonsense........
I'm not a big foodie, but did get some street food in Bangkok......it's often served in a plastic bag (my experience) and we took it back to our airbnb to put on plates......you'll probably enjoy it more than I did!.......late one night while returning from the "Hangover" movie rooftop bar location, huge rats ruled the sidewalks where street food vendors were during the day and we had to carefully watch where we stepped in the dark.......we took a river boat ride (not a guided tour) for about 30 cents (go to a "cheap" non-tourist dock), went to the Jim Thompson House (excellent!!), and the usual wats and buddhas (travel partner, usually wearing a tank top, had to rent a modesty shawl for the wats and buddha places)......generally an inexpensive city, very noisy and crowded, big, skyscrapers in all directions with no concentrated 'downtown' area of them.....and get a foot massage - holy cow!
I found Phuket to be overrated....the vegetation/landscape was somewhat desolate and almost-arid.......transport is not inexpensive if you're on your own as sites on the island are just distant enough from each other to require the captive audience to hail taxis for every little move......Bangla Rd., the very popular party district, though, was very fun and much less depressing than Pattaya's popular party area.....beach sunset views were great (if you're on a beach facing west!!!)......we didn't do any of the James Bond Island/Phi Phi stuff, but would've if we had time - very touristy, I'm sure, though.....
HCM City (Saigon) is much more modern now than years ago (skyscrapers in areas).....but the old central area still has significant remains of intact war and pre-war history, American hangouts, etc.....we even bribed a building guard 100,000 dong ($4) to go up on the roof of the building famously pictured with the last helicopter evacuation of Americans (careful!, no fence up there!!!).....nice to walk the streets, people-watch, etc.....decide what you want to see in areas away from the central part.......the Presidential Palace, the propaganda museum (War Remnants Museum) all very worth it......
and even staid Siem Reap (Angkor Wat) had a hopping party area....some California dudes offered us drugs and a young woman with a baby in tow tried to drum up business from us.......if you're on your own, just walk out from the airport and ask a taxi stand attendant if a driver is available to take you to Angkor Wat for the day (we arrived in the morning from PP).....the guidebook suggested that and we had great luck that way....embarrassingly cheap and he helped us with admissions, told us which way to walk in areas where he'd meet us later at the other end of the walk, had lunch with us, then drove us to our hotel after a fairly long day........no, we didn't fight the crowds for famous sunset/sunrise views over the ruins......
PP was ok......nice river views from a developed riverside walk downtown, but not a remarkably attractive city.....many people go there for the Khmer Rouge torture museum and the killing fields (a little ways out of town)......we only had time (one night there) for the torture museum which is right in the central area......it was worth it.....if you have more time, pick out what interests you from the guidebook!....... 
if you can wangle the time, Chiang Mai, Thailand, is very nice....mercifully cooler and less humid......whew!......flew there from Bangkok for a night or two and full day, leaving most of our stuff in the airbnb in Bangkok......took a riverboat ride, went to a Muay Thai fight thing, had a fantastic foot massage, walked inside the moat area (the historic area).....we didn't have time for the elephant attraction or the big temple up on the hill......a forum member recommended a nice little guesthouse-like place to stay and it was a great local 'old Thai'-vibe spot much nicer than staying in some chain hotel...... 
since this isn't a sex tour, skip Pattaya........depressing, but the beach is ok......
if you can squeeze in Hanoi, the central area around a small lake is very nice, especially at night.....plus the usual stuff in the guidebook.......Hanoi Hilton, HCM burial site area, B-52 Lake, etc....watch out for the constantly-honking (beeping) scooters!.......travel partner came within about six inches of getting nearly killed by one in Hanoi.......I later realized they constantly honk/beep to let others know they're there, not because they want everybody out of their way.......
even in the "dry" season, the humidity was overwhelming for a desert rat like me.......have a change of shirt at the ready!.......
wow, thanks for the chance to remember some great trips.....   
 

Have been through Cambodia and some of Thailand.  Siem Riep - if you are into food - Cuisine Wat Damnak should be on your list.  https://www.cuisinewatdamnak.com  In Bangkok one of the fine dining options I did was Nahm https://www.comohotels.com/thailand/como-metropolitan-bangkok/dining/nahm   Plenty of options for more street food in both locations.   I would add in Laos to your potential countries to visit while in the region.   Specifically Luang Prabang https://www.travelandleisure.com/how-to-visit-luang-prabang-laos-7555706  a Unesco city, relaxed setting.  Great food and diversions close by.  I flew in from Bangkok, and then flew to Vientiane (capital) and onto Cambodia from there.  Seems there is a train between Luang Prabang and Vientiane; Vientiane was ok for transit, not as overwhelming as a capital city as Bangkok or Hanoi may be.   Have fun planning!  

I'm a BFE kinda guy.   What you describe makes the decision of the person to hire less about top/vers/bot/safe/ask me/anything goes much less important than the provider's total package.

Just thought I'd throw my 2 cents in. At my stage in life, it is really more about the kissing and tactile stuff then fucking. I had one of the World's Best Lovers and lost him to AIDS. Don't get me wrong. Fucking's great too. Butt (!) I've got toys for that, in the meantime. I know...that communion will come again. The whole enchilada when I click with the next right guy. I've been lucky to have found a few guys on rent.men who are Masters Of The Boyfriend Experience. The talking, touching, slow kissing, slowly undressing one another. The lite nipple play. Lite ass exploration. And then a nice mutual j/o while kissing. I keep my mouth in great shape. I make it clear up front kissing is on the menu. I've been lucky. Have found many great kissers out there! DM if you want more intel. Happy Spring men. 🙂

I do agree with you that 99% of clients who ask "do you rim" is because they can't get it for free in our bidetless country. 

Wow! This thread takes the biscuit for word count!

What an Interesting Educational and calm discussion. I, for one, will be a better patient and Client Because I read through all of the passages above. Thank you To all who contributed.

Back in the days when I used to hang out in backrooms, arcades, and sex clubs, I learned not to go during flu season. Experience taught that getting the flu, or a winter cold, was much more likely than VD or AIDS, for which you can take at least some precautions. Likewise, as much as I love kissing, during flu season, I don't want to kiss a provider who may be kissing five people a day. I can't speak for AaronVIP, but when you are getting paid "by the client", flu or a cold much less Covid really put a dent in the income.  

I feared that this discussion had trailed off and am glad it has not.  Thank you Lewisuc for not letting a bump in the road derail you.  
I can say this discussion allowed me to have a private discussion with Lewisuc where I felt respected by him and I believe he did of me.  I am impressed by the amount of time and care Lewisuc has put into his participation here.  It surely has provided me a more personal connection and sense of who he is for time spent in the future. 

NO ONE PERSONAL NAMES OR DETAILS ARE MENTIONED IN THIS POST. I AM LEWIS_LMT AND I AM REPLYING TO A THREAD ABOUT ME. THANK YOU.
Thank you to many members who reached out who enjoyed my post when it was originally posted. Happy to keep conversations going with different subject matter in other forums.
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I guess it’s time I enter the chat. For a while, I’ve had clients and peers notify me of this website, and I’ve never paid much attention to it. Many of the comments and postings that I’ve come to privy to (through a client usually) I’ve laughed about.
Example, I’ve read a guy ranting about me because I politely declined wanting my photos taken by an amateur. We had never met. Yet he created a post commenting on my character? Funnily enough, members on the forum called him out on his ridiculousness.
Another recent posting, a mentally unstable Meth user calls me “dense”. How do I know that posting was from the meth user who lit up in front of me at his place? (1) I journal all my encounters (2) No one has ever called me dense in person, then it appearing shortly on a forum to discredit my character. I said no to this encounter, leaving uncomfortable and hastily. Yet I'm discredited because I way extremely uncomfortable....
What I usually take from this website is that some of these client postings/experiences are not at all accurate and, in a small way, for them to mischaracterize a provider and try to discredit them? To me, that always speaks more about the client. But on the other hand, there is no way for other readers to understand the truth.
I'm lucky in the fact that I have a long list of clientele who know me for who I am. My clients outside of this particular world always come first. Hence why it can be difficult to reach me. I would much rather work on one of my oncology clients, my rehabilitation clients, my PT or Chiro client referrals, or my aesthetic clients at my private studio, than take an erotic session. Why? Because I get more satisfaction from my therapeutic work, and I don’t have to deal with a huge portion of flakes, drug users, time wasters, weirdos. Why do I continue to advertise on RM? Because extra income comes in handy when I’m actually available.
Always, I give what I receive. You will read my communication is short on this thread. Correct. Those who communicate with “sup”, “hey”, “what’s up” with no other communication, I just don’t respond. If you are contacting a provider and incapable of basic communication to set an appointment up for yourself, it's not worth my time.
I think what clients have to understand is, you are one person communicating with one person. As a provider, I am one person communicating with 50 on a daily basis. It’s more productive for both to get to the point.
Providers are not also there to sex talk and take up too much time communicating back and forth for it to get nowhere. Time is money. You’ve not paid…yet.
The many, many clients out there who I've enjoyed my time with usually contact like so: “Hi, my name is ….. I’m very interested in booking time with you. I’m looking for XYZ this coming Thursday at 8 pm, would you be available?” This type of communication gets my attention and usually ends up being a very successful encounter.
I just got back to Chicago. I snowbird in the winter. Today I decided (because I have the time and I was notified again of a posting on my name), that I would respond on this thread. And give a better understanding of some of the recent comments made.
In the last 5 days, Ive taken a few RM clients. A few were regular clients. @Umichdude93 would be a new client and the newest posting here.
@Umichdude93 has contacted me twice before. I never delete my messages. It’s also how I keep track of past events. They have scheduled twice before. No-showed twice before. Costing me time and money. When looking up their info, I see I am not the only provider this client does this to. This encounter I played with him, just like this client has played in the past. You receive what you give. When I realize he actually showed. Third time's a charm, I guess. I met them. They asked for an erotic massage. (Nude, mutual touch, release is what I offer) He didn't want what he booked. I told them, I explained my services and costs. They said okay. He got what he wanted, he paid, he left. It was short.
This is me personally. If you are booking a massage and I’ve given you my rate, that’s what the service will be.
If you want something else, it's going to cost differently. I communicate this every time. 
Expectations should always be met, I do not wish to feel uncomfortable. Therefore we’ve usually had good communication about our session and are aware of the expectations, plus a price has been agreed to.
Do not come into a service without full communication of what you are wanting/expecting. Don’t be sneaky in thinking you’re going to get something if we have not discussed it. You will leave disappointed.
I've had many clients I’ve stopped and said “hey if you want to changed what we have spoken about, these are my rates” given them my rate, and they have declined, and we have continued respectfully.
Have there been times where I’m personally into the guy (I do like grey-haired older men) and will hookup for fun outside of my massage service? Yes, but that is my choice.
A few others I wish to reply back to on this thread to clear a few things up.
@questbear I remember our time together, also date and time (I journal). Appreciate the compliment. I did not short you on time. You had a left rotator cuff issue. I spent time therapeutically working that shoulder for you. You were a very nice person. You did, without asking, put your mouth around below. Because you were very sweet, I did let it slide. I didn’t charge you extras or stop you. Again, that was my choice to let it happen. At the end of a service, I leave 10 min for you to release. You released very quickly. You went to the bathroom to clean up. I too went to the bathroom to wash my hands. When coming back out of the bathroom. You were half dressed. Yes, there was 5 min left on the clock… but I wouldn’t say I shorted you on time. That is a mis representation of the session.
@DC Otter You are one of those clients with beautiful communication and a very, very nice human in person. I thoroughly enjoyed our experience. Price correct and all expectations met/fulfilled.
@Chads I’m 5’7  Had a great session with you also. Thank you
@MassageDrew - Thanks for booking a therapeutic massage. You did indeed miss the details in booking online on my professional account.
At that time, booking a 60 min massage the title was called - **$125 - 60 mins Heal, Repair & Rehabilitation**
The description being - “This is NOT a full body massage. This massage is for injuries, healing and rehabilitation. If you are currently seeing a PT or Chiropractor, this is your massage. We will thoroughly work on the areas that need your most attention.”
Secondly, during the covid19 mask mandate, I offered all my clients to go maskless. Your head being in a headrest with a mask on is uncomfortable. I took my mask off while my clients were face down. When face up and working on face, neck and shoulders, my mask would go on. I think that’s considerate and thoughtful considering the climate at that time and me seeing multiple clients a day.
Thirdly, Thai massage is a lot more physically demanding and way more than “stretching”. It takes a further toll on the therapist's body and it is an advanced skilled technique that required further paid training hours after school and state board exams. Therefore, these massages are always charged at a higher rate. If you check out spas nationally, you will find that massages based on skill levels are at different rates. A Swedish will never be the same rate as a deep tissue or Thai.
@Jayson03The same as @MassageDrew, you also booked online via a professional website. You booked a COMBO Massage/Facial.
Firstly, the facial is always after the massage. I would never do a full facial and then flip you over face down in a headrest. That's bizarre! 
Secondly, It stated in the description of the COMBO service - “Massage 60 mins, NOT a full body massage. We will focus on a couple of problematic areas. (Which we did) Facial 60 mins. Depending on your extractions facial can extend more than 60 mins, time will be taken from massage time”
Thirdly, tantric massage was advertised because I was getting a lot of requests. Therefore, I advertised it. Not due to a low customer return rate. Thank you.
@dctraveler His massage was not cut short. He got exactly what he booked and paid for. Yes, doing a combo service or any service is very physically demanding. Thank you for understanding that. Jayson03 did not read what he booked.
Hopefully this post gives more clarity to this thread. Appreciate you reading.

I was hoping and praying for Cameron Taylor to come out of retirement and he finally did!! : ) Ive hired many escorts over the years and hes by far, MY FAVORITE. 
Met him in Chicago this week when I was there on business and stumbled on his ad. He said he was in IL for work for the next few months. I had to hire him for an overnight. Met him at my hotel at the Park Hyatt at the bar. We had a couple drinks. It was so nice catching up with him. He is the most genuine guy, strikingly handsome, but the whole time at the bar… All I could think about and stare at was his giant package bulging out of his jeans. He noticed me staring and smiled at me. He pulled me from the bar and headed to my room. 
I wont go full on Diane Steele but lets just say… had the most passionate, fun and amazing night and morning. He is an amazing kisser, lover, and dont get me started on his big piece. Hes hung and a true 10 inches. I cannot say enough about him. If he would let me, I would marry him in a heartbeat. 
 
Dont hesitate, just hire Cameron. You will NOT regret it. 
 
PS… He told me he would be staying in the area for awhile, in central IL. Meeting him in St. Louis in a few weeks. I CANNOT wait. 
 

Expired

My "go to guy" of a few years back, loved my nips.  He'd reach for them even while outside in the streets.  Because I am somewhat shy--I did NOT let him proceed--even in San Francisco.  This guy had one hell of a talented mouth and kept my nips aflame.  To date I miss that mouth and him as well!!

He’s a cutie 

What is the his twit name?

What is the his twit name?

I find it completely in bad taste, disrespectful, and also very rude that people talk about people's physique or how they look… no one has the right to give an opinion on how people look, no one knows for what each person passes on their physical appearance so that another person without any reason comes to judge and give an opinion because them life is surely very miserable and you have nothing more to do.

Just found this one… An explosive happy ending… 
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I hear he may be in Belgrade trying to reunite the former Yugoslav republics...

His scene with Kyle Kennedy is one of my favorites of any couple, ever. I'd want an experience like that, but that isn't happening.

Damn, you are correct.  I googled his name and two videos came up.  I would not have recognized him if it weren't for his tattoo in one of the videos.  Thanks
 

Alright, so I will jump into the pool here with the first feedback: 
I hired him this past weekend. Initially, the intent was an hour or two, but that turned into an overnight. 
His pictures and profile are absolutely real, authentic, and genuine. He's who he says he is and sexy as fuck in person.  His communication skills do need improvement. In fact, after a few hours, we talked about that, and I showed him these threads here on this site. Escorting is not his main thing. He has a full-time job and other life obligations which contributes to the flakiness of his replies at times.  Best of all, and this is what makes him great, is that he really valued the constructive feedback and acknowledged his age combined with ADHD was a challenge in getting back to everyone and following through sometimes. He knows he needs to improve and is working on it. That's awesome in my book.  As far as the session, it was everything I wanted. He's a really great bottom with an ass like two fucking marbles that won't quit. Damn it was good.
If you are able to pin him down (pun intended) then you won't be sorry with the time and money you're investing in this one. He's worth it. 
 

My dumbass try again to see him. So I finally saw him. We text each other the things we agreed. His kissing was terrible, he never kiss me back. Very emotionless. His oral last for 10 seconds. When came to bottom he couldn't because he didn't have lube. He told me he can bottom next time I see him. Am like they won't be a next time. I ended the session their. This guy is total waste of time. Pretty much did nothing. Big mistake of seeing him.

Unfortunately, his behavior is not unusual among twinks, I guess he was multitasking, etc. This ME, ME, ME mentality with a goldfish attention spam is creating folks who can't put themselves in someone else's place, I'm sure he felt no empathy after cancelling a few minutes before the appointment because the world revolved around him anyway.
Hopefully he'll mature but it might take a while....