claym

Still on RM, just yet another name change. And still no RM reviews.
https://rent.men/HamiltonRexx
 

So @12is12 some answers from me. But I will first admit that my “method” is totally subjective and has worked for me. It doesn’t work for other folks - some pay more, some pay less. I have my fun and if I don’t, then I move on and look forward to finding a muscleman to worship another day.
Of the two guys that kept me busy, one knew me well from a previous visit.  He is probably the closest thing to a bodybuilder in the bars at the time (I was there the weekend before Thanksgiving this visit). We had done a few private dances on the previous visit to PV and he knew me to be a very supportive patron inside and outside of the club - even after returning to the States. So, we have history.
The second was a young dancer that was new to me, although he said he had danced in PV for three years now but only for visits (he live in CDMX) for 3-4 weeks at a time.  He was young, adorable, muscular, and liked to flex so I was smitten. I noticed and then he started pointing out, that he did not typically spend a lot of time with individual patrons but usually liked to just keep getting up on the bar to dance and then make rounds to collect tips.  But that night he kept coming back to me cause we “got along” and for some reason he enjoyed me.  I am normally pretty respectful, asking before I touch anything private but once I have a green light, I enjoy the access.
My “method” in PV is that I tip in USD and I come with plenty of $1 and $5 bills.  I typically just keep slipping dollar bills in over and over. But because i know how much I bring i know I didn’t spend more than about $75 each on the two guys over the course of that few hours. I didn’t do any privates that night because I had spent plenty in other bars and was thinking I might enjoy more on Sunday.  
I did go back the next night and repeated as much, adding a couple of other guys into the rotation since the first (bigger) guy had another patron that was enjoying his company as well. So on the second night he jut came back and forth between me and his other patron.
Unlike other patrons and even members of this board, I do not typically do anything to sexual in public in PV. I will grope a penis and play with their erections, but I do not usually suck in public. I’ll kiss but not many dancers do that in public. I will suck in the private room and I have normally negotiated that with the dancer before going down there so i know what I can and can’t do before we ever get into the room. I would suggest you do as much so you’re not wasting your time talking when the clock is running…
This last visit I stayed at Hotel Eloisa which was nice and extremely convenient. One block off the beach, on the same street and two blocks down from these bars. My only issue is they, like other hotels, are very particular about allowing guests to your room.  Which in my brain is bullshit! I have also stayed in AirBnBs and while I loved the freedom of the coming and going, i would say choose well for location and convenience. 
As for the tipping for the stage shows, i just give them $1 and tell them thanks and then go back to the man that I am worshipping at the time.  The performers typically don’t linger out of respect for the dancer that I am engaging at the time.  Some of them try to come back by and get in for more tips since they can see that i am continuously stuffing dollar bills but if I am with someone I’m enjoying, I don’t even let them catch my eye so they have no reason to believe that I am going to pause and invite them in for the playtime…
Hope this helps and I’m happy to answer any questions you have. Happy worshipping!!!

Let me close the case for SamCheng here. Did some research on Chinese social media, and the photos are from a model currently based in China.

Met Travis this week for the first time. Super hot guy! Great experience and highly recommended!

I left NJ and moved to Palm Springs where I knew few people and none of them really well.  Most of them were known to me from this forum or the Palm Springs weekends.  It has been 10 months and I am very glad I made such a drastic move at an age when most are moving into adult living facilities.  I have a house I like.  I left the RoUTine I was in in NJ.  I started going to the gym.  I bought season tickets to community theater.  I have invited friends to come and spend a week with me.  I have made a few acquaintances and one or two friends along with the ones I already knew.  In some ways, it has been difficult, but by leaving a known life and taking up in a completely new environment, I have become less lonely.  My dogs are company in the house and they force me to go out to get them food and toys and exercise.  I joined a dating app and have had several sexual encounters with men I have met from there.  I have been more vigorous about hiring but by the hour and not overnight so shorter meetings but more frequent.  I call my friends more often and text others more regularly.  
If you are traveling through Palm Springs, give me a call and we can get a drink or a coffee or just a visit.  
I do not know that such a drastic change would have worked for everyone but it has for me.  

I live in Dallas, one of the fastest growing cities in the U.S. (please don't bother with the Texas bashing responses.)  Dallas is a pretty liberal city and has a very active gay scene.  I also understand that the greater Dallas area has a growing Filipino community.  Rapidly growing cities are always in need of healthcare professionals.  The summers can be hot, so there is that.  But Texas has no state income tax, so you can take what you would pay in other states and invest for the future!  It may not be for you and that's okay.

For me, I've been on some form of PrEP since Truvada trials in late 2010.  I get bloodwork every 90 days.  My renal numbers have remained perfect.
The talked about side-effects aren't widespread and are highly overdramatized.  The rough percentage of those who have any renal issue is 2.3%

This is an injection I won't likely be getting.
Most providers will want to inject it into the abdomen and it's a rather large dosage of liquid.
My own ID doc said that it's likely it will remain visible on the stomach for some time, either as a pouch of liquid or a slightly raised plateau.

very true. We already lost men4rent.com. Now there is really only Rentmen.com. There is something called mint.com, but providers really don't use it very much. Craigslist used to have a dating section but got rid of it, probably to avoid just what we are talking about here. I am grateful for Rentmen.com and would be very disappointed if it went away. Also I confirm what most everyone else has said: YOU are responsible for your own sexual health. Please do not take unnecessary chances. The results could be tragic. 

@Vegas_Millennial will be the headliner next month at the club de comedia opening up in the heart of the Zona Romantica

Some of you have noticed that my activity on the site has been more limited than usual for a while. Over the last six months, I’ve been pouring most of my time, energy, and sanity into a major project. The moderators have known at a high level what has been going on, but I’m finally at the point where I can share it openly with everyone here.
Eagle Medellín is my newest project. It is the first Eagle bar in Colombia and only the second in all of South America (the other being São Paulo, Brazil). It's located in Medellín’s El Poblado neighborhood... literally across the street from Club Oráculo and one street over from Bar Chiquita for those who know the area.
We’re building a space rooted in energy, masculinity, music, and freedom.  Think leather. Think connection. Think a night that belongs fully to the men who step inside.
Our goal is simple: deliver the experience people expect from an Eagle.  Leather. Fetish. Kink. Presence. Attitude. A place where men can show up exactly as they are.
Eagle Medellín is split into multiple zones, each with its own vibe:
Front mezzanine: an open-air second floor level overlooking the main street that is more chill and social.
Main floor: the main dance floor, the main bar, and a dedicated VIP zone.
Second floor play area: our full cruising space with its own bar. Yes, we’ll have tires, chains, structure pieces, and all the atmosphere you expect.
Back upstairs patio: an outdoor smoking and hangout area.
The entire concept blends sexuality and music into one continuous experience.
Alongside local and international DJs, we’ll feature:
Hombres del Águila (Men of the Eagle): dancers who embody the look, attitude, and energy of the Eagle brand
Guest porn stars
Rotating performers and themed nights
We want Eagle Medellín to become a must-visit spot not just for locals, but for travelers, working guys, and anyone who values a space that’s kink-positive and judgment-free.
Our grand opening is next Friday evening. There is still a long list of things we’re racing to finish, but at this point I’m confident we’re opening. Some details/features may evolve as we settle in, but the doors will be open, the music will be loud, the drinks will be strong, and the energy will be exactly what an Eagle should feel like.
I’m incredibly excited about this project and what it means for the community. I know some of you pass through Medellín and Colombia. If you do, I hope you’ll check out what we’re building.  This is something I’ve put a lot of blood, sweat, and tears into, and I hope it will live up to the high expectations of the iconic Eagle legacy.
For transparency...  I'm one of four owners who share an equal stake in the venture.  When I talk about "my" club, it's a venture with some of my closest friends.  We're all committed to making this an area that will be a destination for those who enjoy what an Eagle is all about.  
I'll toss out the social media links in case anyone is interested.  And before anyone asks... yes, I checked with the site owners here to make sure he was cool with this spamvertising! 🤪.  I also checked to make sure it was OK with me posting this in the Lounge instead of The Americas for South America travel!  🙃
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My guess is you are using a the dark mode theme. I wrote some of my post offline while in an uber and pasted it from my Notes application. So my guess is the copy/paste retained the formatting which would have included the font color. 

After we migrate to Invision Community 5, that issue should go away. 

I'm not saying I'm not weird for other reasons. But a guy I've played around with once loves being rimmed. He's used to being rimmed long and hard. He said he had never come across someone like me as regards rimming. 
 
As for me-I've never wanted to at all-not in the slightest. And while I don't watch porn a lot, when I did, if there was a long rimming scene, I'd fast forward thru it.
 
I do have to admit that I don't mind being rimmed. In fact sometimes it's felt really nice. But I don't ask for it because I figure it's not fair if I'm not willing to reciprocate. Also to be honest the thought of kissing someone who's just been rimming me is not that appealing either. And I'd much rather kiss than be rimmed. 
 
(By the by, I'm not really fond of seeing cum leaking out of a hole either.) 

i noted that a few weeks ago Bjorn Andresen died at age 70. He was the blonde teenage actor (on the right in photo) who played Tadzio, the lissome highly sexualized youth in (openly gay) Luchino Visconti's Death in Venice, based on the novella by the same name penned by (bisexual pedophile) Thomas Mann. 

This naturally bring my mind back to Venice, Italy, often called La Serenissima. Serene, my foot. It is no accident that Venice is known variously as the City of Love (move over Paris) and the Queen of the Adriatic. Casanova, Ernest Hemingway, and other authors far and wide have sung of Venice's seething sexuality.
In my experience Venice is full of queens of the Adriatic. I was first there when I was 20, going across Europe with a backpack, and trying hard to avoid all the feelings that kept welling up about my peers and their cocks. My goal was to not jerk off all summer. Enter Venice...and..."the best laid plans of men," and all that. My friends and I were staying in a cheap pensione, with "shower down the hall." As it happened, there was a window in the shower, looking out on a small light well, chest height up. As I was showering one afternoon, there was a youth in the building across the light well also showering...a blonde northern Italian, maybe my age. Our eyes locked on each other, and soon we were both jerking off, imagining our lips interlocking and our penises rubbing together. Wham. Bam. Pow. So much for my summer resolution.
One of my favorite Venice destinations is the Peggy Guggenheim Collection, housed in an 18th c. unfinished palazzo. This was the home of Peggy, and a series of artist husbands and lovers, and is now a museum that is home to her extensive collection of modern art. When you disembark from the vaporetto, you are greeted by a bronze statue, Angel of the City, of a man on horseback with his prominent erection begging you to grab it. (There is a similar one in the Getty Center in LA).

The artist was Marino Marini, one of Peggy's many lovers, who was "artist in residence" in Peggy's bed for a while. Angel my foot. The story is that the phallus was originally removable (to function as Peggy's dildo when Marino couldn't get it up?) but it kept getting stolen so he had to weld it in. Peggy bragged that she had slept with over 1,000 men. Gay guys take note: we don't have a monopoly on that delightful hobby. 
The only piece of furniture in the museum is, tellingly, Peggy's bed...the headboard designed by another lover, Alexander Calder. It may be said that the history of modern art was written on this bed. 
Peggy was perhaps inspired by the once-popular Venetian practice of cicsbeo, where young women married older wealthy men, and by agreement, kept a young male stud close at hand for sexual services for the woman. Except in her case, she was the money, not some elderly cuckhold. 
Venice is a tight-knit renaissance-18th c. agglomeration of buildings and islands of no particular geometry, leaving corners and crannies just made for casual hookups. Knowing this, Venetian sidewalks are better lit at night than any other city I have visited. One night, some decades ago, I was prowling the city looking for a blowjob. And finally I found it...the cranny where some enterprising queen had unscrewed the light bulb. And indeed, when I arrived, he was lurking there waiting for his next victim. I was one happy victim. 
For all the seething sexuality of the city, there are no overt gay bars much less sex clubs, although of course the more stylish hotel bars attract birds of a feather. At some point, I was given (by a fuck buddy) a now-lost sex travel guide written by two gay Americans who had a van they traveled the world in, screwing locals day and night. The book pointed me to a public toilet just off the Rialto Bridge. This is the area of a busy public market and throngs of locals and tourists. Indeed, there is a proper public toilet nearby. But for the cognoscenti, there is (or at least was) a filthy (you're standing in urine) toilet literally attached to the side of a church, at which a jerk off, if not a blowjob, was virtually guaranteed. I loved that it was hiding in full view, and attached to a church to boot. Of course, we have since learned that were there are priests there is a lot of gay sex going on. 
But back to Death in Venice. It takes place in the Lido, one of the outer Venetian islands reachable by vaporetto. In the story (novella, movie, and opera all by the same name) an elderly German composer (played by Dirk Bogard, who himself was gay and living with a lover) is smitten with the youthful somewhat flirtatious Tadzio, which leads to the elder's throwing caution to the wind and ultimately dying from the plague.
A couple of decades ago I had my own Lido Death in Venice experience. No, I didn't die of the plague, but I went to the Lido both to take in the rays and to cruise the nearby woods (as noted in that gay sex travel guide). On the beach there was a remarkable scene...seven or eight teenaged Tadzio's, in the skimpiest of Speedos, playing, dancing, wrestling, and literally dry humping each other on the beach for all to see. I snapped a bunch of pictures, lest no one ever believe such a sight. (Unfortunately, for whatever reason, I threw out all my sex pictures in a fit of housecleaning at the start of the Covid lockdown.) I was however unsuccessful in luring any of them into the woods. They undoubtedly were going to one of their houses to fuck each other's brains out. If I were them, I wouldn't have paid any attention to me either. 
The next morning, I took one last cruise around the city before I left. Not a block from my hotel, I saws a magnificent specimen, tall, dark, handsome, black curly hair, wearing a tight body shirt and revealing pants advertising his significant bulge. We took one look at each other, and he signaled me to come down an alley and into his workplace, a clothing warehouse. We instantly tore each other's clothes off, and my god did he have the dick of death. There among the racks of women's frocks, he fucked me mercilessly, and I limped out one happy camper. This was years ago, but it is one of those experiences I will never forget.
Yes, Venice, Queen of the Adriatic...a city of fond memories that continue to inspire the occasional jerk off. 
 

Judging by what you read on this board, it seems there is a percentage of messed-up customers. Perhaps it's the nature of the beast. Some gay men don't know how to behave. It's a shame, because the bad apples tend to spoil everything for everyone else.
Thank you Lewis for having the courage to post here. I loved reading what you had you to say.

Recent ads up in case folks are curious 

My understanding is that the main problem with getting it at a later age is that it may not elicit as much of an immunologic response to offer effective protection. In reality, application in older adults hasn’t been studied adequately to draw conclusions. Can’t see any harm other than autistic offspring (just kidding). 

Excellent response from LewisLMT: firm but non-defensive.  

I was notified about this post, so let me clear this up, because some people love making wild accusations whenever their own lack of communication or basic social skills gets exposed.
Just like “Project X” above, the meth head I walked out on after arriving for a massage and he tried to turn it into a party while literally blowing meth in my face. Some guys love to smear providers when they don’t get their way. It’s tired at this point.
First: Thompson and I haven’t been together for over two years. I don’t know what his space looks like now, and I can’t speak for him. 
Second: I’ve been traveling Central and South America for the last nine months. Outside of this work (which I do enjoy with the right clientele), I’m a master professional scuba diver, and I’m starting school again in January as I continue toward my PhD. I wanted to adventure before classes resume.
Third: Before returning to Chicago, I went to Atlanta to collect my dog, who barely sheds.
And while I don’t have my old private massage studio anymore (where my dog never set foot), I now see select clients in my new residence, and if you look at my X or Bluesky, where I make video collaborations only with content creators, it’s very obvious I work in an extremely clean, controlled space, on a professional table, with an incredible view.
Some of you are wild and hate being called out for your own behavior. When you get checked, you sprint to forums like this out of spite. Predictable.
“Afraid for your safety”?
If you’re talking about Thompson, that’s hilarious. He is literally the most non-confrontational person alive.
Me? If you’re a decent human being, you get my full respect.
If you act like a twat, by text or in person, I’m not shy about calling out disgusting behavior. Most of these so-called “experiences” people complain about boil down to who THEY are as a person.
And “Beefy dude” not sure how my prices are “all over the place” when they are written clearly on my profile:
$150 therapeutic
$200 sensual
$300 erotic
Now, when someone texts me asking for things far beyond what I offer, and yes, people really do send messages like “slap me, cum in my face, and shit on my bed” I shut that down. Sometimes with “sure, $3000 upfront” just to make the nonsense disappear.
Then suddenly I’m “inconsistent”? Right.
Take accountability.
Communicate like an adult.
Stop projecting your own mess onto providers who are being clear about what they do and don’t offer.
And lastly, I don’t discriminate based on looks. I go by energy and kindness. Yes, I’ve said I like white haired older men before, but the ones who truly get the best of my time and energy are the decent, genuine, respectful ones.
That really shouldn’t be that hard to grasp. 

HPV. Should be in Men’s Health

HThroat cancer may not receive as much attention as some other medical conditions, including other cancers, but experts are urging older men to educate themselves about this growing health risk.     Rates of throat cancer, which had declined for many years, are now on the rise, especially among men 50 and older. And a major reason for this shift has to do with a common and highly contagious virus.
For a long time, cases of oral and throat cancer (also known as oropharyngeal cancer) were linked primarily to lifestyle habits like tobacco and alcohol use—behaviors that have become less common over time, explains Dr. Maie A. St. John, director of the deparment of otolaryngology–head and neck surgery for the Johns Hopkins School of Medicine.     But over the past three decades, the incidence rates for oral cavity and oropharyngeal cancer have been rising, she says, and this increase has mainly been attributed to the rise in cancers caused by human papillomavirus (HPV) infections. In fact, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) says HPV is now identified as a probable cause for up to 70 percent of all oropharyngeal cancers in the United States.
    “The incidence of throat cancer caused by HPV has surpassed cervical cancer as the most common cancer associated with the human papillomavirus,” St. John says. “So we actually do consider it an epidemic.”
    The role of HPV — and a problematic stigma
  HPV is an extremely common virus that can cause certain types of cancer, including cancer of the cervix, vagina or throat. The virus is spread through sexual activity, including oral sex, and other direct skin-to-skin contact, according to the CDC.
      Bobbi Dempsey is a freelance writer who has written about a variety of topics, including health and entertainment, for aarp.org and AARP The Magazine. Her work has also appeared in Parade, The New York Times, Harper’s Magazine and other outlets.
 

Thanks 56. @gar ya’ll get too complicated with your rules. It’s the same thing. 🙄 rentmasseur v rentmen so plz settle down dad. 😉 

Been following Luke for years and finally saved up and had the courage to message him on rent men and everything was perfect.  His pictures are a story that leads to him as sexy as ever now.  

The 2 hours were had was so sexy and magical; it was worth every thing that transpired.  

I saw him recently. Good massage skills, some extras. A bit short on the time. DMs are always open.

I find these tend to get arranged on Sniffies app. Guys book a hotel room, advertise their presence and that they’ll be taking loads, and then of course they wait in the room, ass available and receive the loads. Usually they have a buddy available to make sure the tops are organised. You don’t want them to hang around after shooting, or to take too long, or to cause a commotion in the hotel. The rule is, turn up, wait in line if necessary, get yourself close, and then ensure you dump it in him and then leave. I’ve done a couple of these (hired as the buddy to a bottom and to leave the first load to get him started). It’s important to find a good location, advertise it, and of course be patient. 
Alternatively you can sign up to be a mare at a horse fair event.