Does silence say a lot around here?

[Greathands]

I recently inquired about a guy in NYC. From my perspective, I would have thought he'd be very popular. He was quite good looking with a great body. Alas, there were no responses. This also happened with another inquiry I made 6 months ago about a guy in Philly.

 

People on here are always quite helpful, so it makes me wonder what the 'silence' says. I guess if the guy is very new to escorting, than no one might have had experiences with them yet.

 

But, in general, if an inquiry about an escort comes up with no responses, would you take that as a warning?

[Kevin Slater]

< crickets >

 

Kevin Slater

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

FWIW: I usually don't read threads with unclear or vague subjects.

 

For example, your post "Reddish Boy" might have gotten more attention with subject "411 ReddishBoy in NYC"

[big-n-tall]

The forum is just a microcosm of the escorting hobby world. As such, not everyone who hires an escort knows about this site or if they do... aren't willing to participate.

 

With that said, if you get no response to a post about someone (you perceive to be popular), it's not a sign of whether the escort is horrible or great. What it means is that no forum member has met the guy. Or possibly that the guy in question isn't keen on reviews. He may have asked a forum member to not be talked about on the forum.

Edited December 29, 2017 by big-n-tall

[rvwnsd]

...But, in general, if an inquiry about an escort comes up with no responses, would you take that as a warning?

I wouldn't take it that way. To me, it would be a signal that no member who read the post has experience with that escort.

 

@big-n-tall makes an excellent point in his post - the Forum is not representative of all men who hire.

[+ FrankR]

I wouldn't read too much into it. Life happens and we all roll with the punches; sometimes that means we can't keep up with emails and texts...

[LaffingBear]

I agree with everything @big-n-tall stated above.

 

I'd add that consideration of screen size and physical-view attention span can also be a factor. On phones or tablets, at a busy time, new posts can quickly migrate down the list to page two.

 

I rarely go looking for new threads past page 1. I suspect I'm not the only one....

 

I've seen older threads "bumped" or repositioned by updates, and subsequently generate alot of buzz.

 

It's a social media spin on "location location location. "

[MikeyGMin]

FWIW: I usually don't read threads with unclear or vague subjects.

 

For example, your post "Reddish Boy" might have gotten more attention with subject "411 ReddishBoy in NYC"

I think this is really important. I rarely click on posts with obscure titles and including the location is really important. Where he is home based is more important than where he may be traveling to. I'm pretty well-versed in the Austin escort scene (that's more of a confession than a brag ) so I will always click on something regarding an Austin-based escort, but unless I'm really bored, probably won't click on someone in a city that I've never been and a name I don't know.

 

And as said above, bump it once or twice before giving up. After that, you just have to wait and see if anything turns up or take a risk.

[big-n-tall]

I agree with everything @big-n-tall stated above.

 

I'd add that consideration of screen size and physical-view attention span can also be a factor. On phones or tablets, at a busy time, new posts can quickly migrate down the list to page two.

 

I rarely go looking for new threads past page 1. I suspect I'm not the only one....

 

I've seen older threads "bumped" or repositioned by updates, and subsequently generate alot of buzz.

 

It's a social media spin on "location location location. "

 

I hadn’t thought of that. Good point as well.

[+ azdr0710]

on the other hand, has anybody heard of a Ryan Steel?.....

 

[LADoug1]

< crickets >

 

Kevin Slater

 

 

What does that mean?

[MikeBiDude]

What does that mean?

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=%2Acrickets%2A

[Deadlift1]

ribit

[MikeBiDude]

ribit

How’d frogs come into this?

[+ purplekow]

Well there are to schools of thought on the saying of nothing good.

1-The Pollyanna School If you have nothing good to say that is exactly what you should say.

2-The Alice Roosevelt Longfellow School. If you have nothing good to say, come sit next to me.

 

Many here are in the second school but occasionally, there is an escort who seems to attract only those of the first school. When finally a second school member hires him and speaks out , the flood gates open with experiences both good and bad.

In general though, if you are going to find a diamond in the rough, you need to get down in rough territory. If your budget allows for the occasional less than stellar hire, go with your gut and hire that unreviewed guy. If you are like me, counting pennies and then paying an escort with them, stick to well travelled ground and assume that if your guy is worth having, someone will have him and let us all know.

Edited December 30, 2017 by purplekow

[+ nycman]

I take silence as a bad sign. There are just too many horny rich guys on this site to think NO ONE has

hired the guy in whom I am interested. So I assume they just don't want to say anything bad publicly.

 

I know if I've hired a guy and liked him...I speak up quickly.

 

If I've hired a guy...and it just wasn't great....I tend to chalk it up to chemistry and stay quiet.

 

If it was a scam or really horrible...I say so.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I take silence as a bad sign. There are just too many horny rich guys on this site to think NO ONE has

hired the guy in whom I am interested.

 

I think you are wrong. You are overestimating the reach of these forums.

[+ GregM]

This is a small sample of clients here who post. Over the years I've come across many who are not aware there was a message board or review site. And that's no fault of Daddy's. He has enough issues with hackers and what not and the lower we fly the less likely we attract the attn of LEO. So silence about someone most likely means no one's eaten at the table. Take one for the team and do a review.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[rvwnsd]

In addition to the reasons listed above, many times a member requests information about a relatively new escort. Given Forum members' penchant for hiring only long-standing, well-reviewed escorts there might truly be no intel on the escort.

[Bearofdistinction]

Well there are to schools of thought on the saying of nothing good.

1-The Pollyanna School If you have nothing good to say that is exactly what you should say.

2-The Alice Roosevelt Longfellow School. If you have nothing good to say, come sit next to me.

 

Many here are in the second school but occasionally, there is an escort who seems to attract only those of the first school. When finally a second school member hires him and speaks out , the flood gates open with experiences both good and bad.

In general though, if you are going to find a diamond in the rough, you need to get down in rough territory. If your budget allows for the occasional less than stellar hire, go with your gut and hire that unreviewed guy. If you are like me, counting pennies and then paying an escort with them, stick to well travelled ground and assume that if your guy is worth having, someone will have him and let us all know.

 

I vote for the 2nd School -- You can always count on Alice!

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

There are just too many horny rich guys on this site

 

Extremely successful gents rarely have the free time to spend on sites like these. Time is money.

 

Silence on someone can go either way. I wouldn't automatically say it was a bad thing.

Edited December 31, 2017 by Benjamin_Nicholas