curious - one time vs. ongoing hiring

[OrdinaryJoe]

Howdy,

 

I'm curious how much of your hiring is one-time (seeing an escort once) versus ongoing (seeing an escort many times). In turn, I wonder how of an escorts business is one-time versus a regular.

 

I presume it's better for an escort to have a regular, versus one-time clients.

[GLEE]

I'm a stubborn and extremely risk-averse person. Ever since my first three hires, which are all disappointing, I've developed the pattern by carefully reading the reviews and talking to people having met the specific person regarding their experiences. My ultimate goal is to find someone I could hire on a regular basis and won't feel like a waste of time and money. My hires right now are all people I've hired before, and I'm not intending to try out for new guys.

[+ Funguy]

One time is simply a taste! if you enjoyed being with the guy, think of the many other nooks and crannies, positions, activities, etc. you can enjoy with someone who you already know you like to be with. After you leave, you'll go, "Damn, I meant to do this, this, and that! Guess I'll just have to do it next time." Sigh.

[liubit]

As a client, I like repeat hires, they are in my comfort zone.

[big-n-tall]

On occasion, I'll meet with a new hire to see if I like him enough to hire again. However, most of the men I hire are guys I've seen many times before. For the most part, the more I hire the guy, it seems the more I become sexually attracted to him. Maybe because we build some type of rapport and understand what we like and don't like.

[+ sf westcoaster]

When I first started hiring most of my hires were one time only and I might say most of them were not memorable. As time went on I became better at selecting escorts and as a result meet a number that I rehired. Now, in what might be called the twilight years of my hiring, I have a select group of gentlemen that I have returned to a number of times. It is the rare occasion that I hire someone that I have not been with previously.

[MikeyGMin]

I definitely prefer regulars. I'm not a fan of the nervousness that comes with meeting someone new, so they need to be pretty special to get me to go through that. Seems like about 50% of those then become semi regulars.

[+ easygoingpal]

The posts so far share a pattern that I see myself following... As I begin to feel comfortable with a regular, I stop looking for someone new. I brake the pattern on occasion when I see someone that gets my motor going and after I read the answers in their profile I give them a try just to see if the hire could become a regular. Also, I seem to go from 1 hr, to 2 hrs, to overnight...

[BluDay]

I have one regular escort, a (retired) one I see when he's in town, and another in town I'm making a semi-regular (see him on an irregular basis). Having a regular escort brings the advantage of not having to get to know each other, and an escort worth returning to will learn what you like and deliver that. I still make one off visits to others when they pass through or I travel to a city they are in as well. This lets me not only experience more hot men, but decide if I want to see them again (but that's the usual process isn't it?).

 

I think it's easier on the escorts as well. A regular client doesn't require all the initial back and forth as far as questions, and there is a much lower chance that there will be a no-show. With my regular, we just text each other and set up an appointment. He knows my basic schedule so knows when he can offer a visit, so it's all done quick. Quick's not bad: as a client I don't like the initial set up either.

 

So most of my hiring is with a regular. I get occasional experiments with others, and thanks to reviews, they are much better than when I started.

[+ bashful]

I’m not as experienced at hiring as most of you (just 5 guys since June of 2015).

 

I was initially afraid to hire locally, as what would happen if we met unexpectedly. Newbie jitters I guess. So, I initially confined my hiring to those who visited.

 

My first hire was very nice, but he doesn’t visit the US a lot. In February last year, he posted he would be in MIA. I decided to get out of the cold for a while, but waited to tell him until I was there. When there, I texted to set up a meeting. Made me feel good his response was “what a nice surprise”. I’d see him more, but logistics make it difficult.

 

Hire 2 has since retired, so I regret not being able to see him before that. Hire 3 is the only local I’ve hired. Have met 6 times. Hire 4, a visitor, let’s just say, makes me see why some hires are one time only. And then there is hire 5, a visitor. I actually decided to forgo seeing the local guy (budget constraints) to see this visitor. Have seen him twice, and would see him again.

 

Local guy (as it turns out I have not seen since Feb.) actually texted me this summer saying he missed me. I miss him too. But, budget, and other things have just gotten in the way. I guess all this means is you need to occasionally see someone new to appreciate those you’ve met.

[+ nycman]

I’d say of the my hires 75% of the time they are “one offs” and 25% of the time it’s with a repeat.

 

My “stable” of repeats normally contains 2-3 men at any one time.

 

It takes a strong connection for me to want to see the same escort twice. That’s unfortunately

rare in my experience. I’ve got to fall for their brain, their body, and their sexuality in order

for the chemistry to be worth a repeat. Even then, the 2nd hire is frequently a dud compared

to the first. In the immortal words of ABC....”What I though was fire....was only a spark”.

 

Many escorts aren’t great at customer relations and don’t realize the real money is in repeats.

[+ Keith30309]

About 50/50 when in my home city, weighted to one local who I see very frequently.

When traveling to a usual city about 70/30 new/regular.

[youngboldone]

Well, I've only had two hires. The first I would not repeat because there wasn't any chemistry, although I had an orgasm with him. My second I lost my anal virginity with and had a great connection with, yet didn't orgasm. He did, though, and I derived pleasure from seeing him get off. He would become a regular of mine, but alas, he isn't local :-(

[rvwnsd]

At home, my hiring is mostly regulars, as I have found a couple of guys I click with and because we have a small pool of escorts and not a whole lot of visitors.

[Mo Mason]

I've only done the one-time hiring. There are too many guys to sample and I'm just not ready to settle down yet.

[Guest]

Theirs nothing better in escorting than having a long list of loyal regulars. I know some people like the excitement of hiring someone new but most of the time when you connect with that right escort/client sex gets better overtime and you truly grow a connection thats beyond the psychical with that person. You grow to care for them. Plus with the amount of flakes, no shows, cancellations whenever your having a bad day of escorting, a regular texting you to schedule a meet up truly can be the bright light of your day

[DMICS]

I had 2 regulars but sadly 1 seemed to have quit (was only doing it for a short time while unemployed) and the other I decided to stop seeing. Now it's back to square one.

 

In general I prefer having a regular vs. meeting new ones. Less risk, more comfort.

[hornymm]

Howdy,

 

I'm curious how much of your hiring is one-time (seeing an escort once) versus ongoing (seeing an escort many times). In turn, I wonder how of an escorts business is one-time versus a regular.

 

 

I President it's better for an escort to have a regular, versus one-time clients.

[hornymm]

I love to repeat hire an escort 3 or 4 times if he is very hot and delivers what I request still hope to rehire a few

[amused1]

I have only done 1 repeat at this point. That said, I've been seeing him for almost 20 years. I recently discovered another provider who I may see again. I'm still debating.

[wklucas]

I greatly prefer regulars / ongoing relationships.....I still travel constantly for my own work, both domestic & international....having a sailor (or 2) in every port, errrr in some / most of my more frequent stops is always nice....but over time, regulars move along on their own or get replaced too....I hire "new" mostly when I'm going off my own beaten path.....although for a short biz trip to Russia (Moscow) this past summer - an unusual destination for me, I brought along a regular from London....I simply didn't feel comfortable or trusting enough to want to initiate a new hire in that country.....the small amount of time that I spend at my primary residence in San Francisco, I have ongoing "relationships" with masseurs who offer "extras".....for the most part, these SF guys have been on the scene for awhile, have no plans to quit or leave & make for easy arranging when I need / want their services.

[+ othermanc]

While I like the excitement of meeting a new escort when I'm travelling out of town I really enjoy the company, companionship and comradery of my regulars. The feeling of friendship, heightened by the experience of male intimacy,

is hard to beat. Sharing in-jokes and recalling other fun occasions brings a client/escort relationship to a very pleasant place. I'm lucky to have met some wonderful escorts who have created these relationships with me. Yes, new hires can be interesting and exciting but great regulars are the best! Thanks, guys! You know who you are and I'm forever grateful to you for enriching my life!

[Man Crush Morris]

I used to see a guy in my old town regularly. I really liked him and he did a great job for me.

 

I prefer seeing one guy who is to my tastes and does a good job, but I've had difficulty finding one. So I've seen some guys once over the last few years, though if one stands out I'd see him regularly and exclusively.

[adventurous old guy]

My two cents: New is a thrill, so I do look for people I haven't been with before, especially if we're likely to be a good fit based on reviews here and elsewhere (but mostly here lol). On the other hand, there's a bigger risk of disappointment when I don't know the guy. More misses than hits recently. I see two guys every chance i get because we just really click. And I still kick myself from time to time for losing track of someone with whom I had a great fit -- Derrick from DC to be specific. Saw him once, thought about seeing him again and inquired a couple times about availability when I was in DC, but then chased new instead of going back. And then he slipped away.

 

One factor that I have to manage is having a long-time partner. He encourages me to safely explore, have fun, and "learn something new, come home and show me." But when he hears I'm repeating, it prompts questions about whether I'm forming an attachment. One of the guys I repeat with there's no risk -- its just fun, hot sex with someone who remembers what I like and seems to enjoy upping his game every time. REALLY appreciate that! But the other is a young man who I worry a bit about and could care for, so I watch myself there.

 

Re Derrick from DC, hopefully he moved on to some greater adventure in life. Does anyone here know?

[+ JEC]

Like the idea of a regular, haven't found chemistry with one yet, but as I get more selective I may be getting close.

Also love the thrill of a 1st-time encounter, especially when it's HOTTTTTTTTTTTTT which can be elusive but great when it happens