OrdinaryJoe

Wow, dude. Harsh. I view the management of Corona/Covid as a shared responsibility. We're all in this together. I absolutely look to other people to their part, just as I hold myself to a high standard to do mine. I wear a facemask when I go out, not for what it does for me which is very little, but because it potentially (if I had Covid and didn't know it) helps others. My own personal view is that anyone who actively works against the spread of Corona, whether they have a dick I want to suck or not, doesn't get my time and certainly doesn't get my dollars. You want to call that stigmatization, go ahead. But the irony of saying that I should be "ostracized from humankind" is, in my opinion, a really horrible comment.

Who have I publicly shamed? And please share how one gets publicly shamed without being named?

Curious if any folks have changed their view of any escorts because of their actions during this crisis? I have a couple of guys locally that I had planned to get with. Neither of them stopped seeing clients. When I inquired, I was told they have "stopped kissing." I have lost total respect for them and could never hire them in the future, not out of Covid fear, but because of a lack of respect. Curious if anyone is in the same boat?

He is a former relatively high visibility leader in the gay community who was always incredibly sexy, handsome, very well built, smart and well spoken. He seems to have turned into a bit of a serious muscle head. I can't say I'm super attracted to his new look, but based on how off the charts hot he was, I would be there if I could.

That protection isn't going to keep you safe in a sexual situation unless they just walked out of the remote jungle where they've been for 6 months and you're the first human they've had contact with. I had a brief exchange with an escort today where he informed me he "isn't kissing right now, and isn't seeing anyone who has traveled." /facepalm You have to keep yourself safe because others won't.

I've had good conversations with both ScruffMuscle and TysonRyder. Ryder is a personal trainer by day, I believe so you'll definitely get the muscle you want.

Curious about thoughts on how long is appropriate to wait after sending an escort a text and receiving no response, before trying again without stepping into pest/needy territory?

Hallo, I am in conversations with an escort about getting together next week when I am visiting his city. I enquired about his rates and he responded "$xxx per hour for an outcall to a hotel, plus travel" I'm not clear on what the plus travel means, and I don't want to seem like a complete idiot by asking him. Does "travel" mean his hourly rate for travelling to my hotel? Is it travel costs (like taxi or uber fees)? And, is it normal to charge "travel" for an outcall in the same city that the escort lives in? Thanks, OJ

Of course there are alternatives to latex condoms. Kind of raises the question of how honest and trustworthy he is, since a latex allergy isn't a reason to not use a condom. A handsome guy with a kickin bod and a huge dick. And a deceitful jerk.

I don't get a pop up, more of a re-direct. I right click to open ads I want to look at in a new window. It seems that after opening about 2 ads, it starts to re-direct to the ad site. Happens sometimes and sometimes it doesn't.

He became a manager at a popular retail chain.

Are you asking if they are on Recon advertising as escorts? I have seen many an escort on Recon, but most as a personal profile, not a business/escorting one. Can't say that I've seen anyone advertising as escorts.

I'm shocked that some folks put the responsibility on you. It's pretty clear to me that there was no keeping him to an hour. He was there for a big payday and he was going to get it through any means, up to and including threats. If an escort wants to trick you and be deceptive to get more time out of you, then the breach of the contract was his. As far as going to the ATM, my lord....no telling what would have happened had you done that. You should count your personal safety on the fact that you didn't. I, personally think that drugs are bad news and the folks that do them are bad news. If you're after learnings from this experience, I would consider reviewing your own standards as far as escorts who use drugs, and/or what your response will be in the future if drugs come up again. But that's me projecting my own concerns. Everyone reacts differently to PnP.

Howdy, Hope all is well. Wondering if anyone has experiences with ArielBoyWonder in San Fran? Feel free to PM me. https://rentmen.eu/ArielBoyWonder Thanks kindly

Tattoos aren't done for you. They are done for the person with the tattoo. Some have incredibly deep meaning to the recipient, and others are just for appearance purposes. I, personally, see lots of tattoos that I like and lot's that I don't like. But I also recognize and respect that my opinion on someones tattoos, just like my opinion on their hairstyle, shoes, or choice of boyfriend, wasn't solicited nor likely welcome.