Do You Remember The First Time You Had Sex And With Whom?

[Traveler North]

I find it interesting that some don't remember their first time.

I find it interesting that some don't remember their first time.

 

My first time was in my 20s with a girl I was dating. We were at s drive in movie theater in my car. It began with kissing and proceeded to really hot finding of my cock and her breasts after which my hand moved down to her pussy. We did not go any further but I ejaculsted 4 time during our play session. Years later I married and after my wife died, I hired a few gals but they never did much for me. One time I went to a gay movie with a lot on man-man sex and it really turned me on to boys. That led me to hiring a guy from a local site who knowing I was new to gay sex, did virtually nothing to make me happy. But a bit later, I hooked up with a group of college guys who escorted to pay tuition, and they were great teachers in my education on man-man sex.

[OCClient]

I had mentioned that I had a few little encounters with a friend named Tim when I was 13 or so. Your story reminds me a lot of something that happened with him - I think it was the first time we experienced any sort of intimate touching. And it's probably a moment that led him to try seducing me a few times later on - though looking back on what happened with Tim, it's amazing to me that we didn't go further. One of the big regrets of my life that I somehow didn't encourage him more, lol.

 

Anyway - we're at Tim's house, watching TV on a couch in the basement recroom. It was summer, and we were in shorts, so his legs were exposed. He was sitting cross-legged, so one of his feet (he had sneakers and socks on) was right near me. I'll never know what my impulse was here, but at one point I somehow started working my hand under his sock and just kind of rubbing underneath. Nothing was said between us, no eye contact - and I do seem to remember wondering what the hell I was doing even as I was doing it, lol. But I was doing it, and he wasn't stopping me. Eventually I stopped and took my hand away.

 

And that was it.

 

It could be that he was as surprised by the touch as I was (especially being such an odd choice of places to touch him, lol) and just didn't know how to react to it. Given that we did try to do more fooling around in the future, he certainly wasn't offended by the touch. Maybe he was too afraid of being caught if we started something more, with his parents upstairs. Maybe he just wasn't sure what he wanted. Maybe it's just that we were both 13 and so unsure of ourselves (though I tend to think that Tim was more sexually curious, and possibly more experienced, than he let on).

 

But, it's one of those sweet moments I'll never forget. And I do fantasize about it...always wondering what would have happened if he had encouraged me to rub him some more, etc. (As an adult, I do have a foot fetish. Back then, I wasn't aware of it. But it would have been fun to imagine me getting to explore Tim's feet, lol...who knows?)

That is a sweet story @bostonman . I've had similar thoughts about what would have happened several other times as well, how he showed me and even told me obvious things. My own fear, and denial got in the way. I loved that guy. Funny thing is a got an e-mail from him after all these years encouraging me to attend our house reunion. He's married with kids and all.

[marylander1940]

I was 19, and it was with another shipmate. A lot of fun!

[marylander1940]

With a priest. His name was father John. At boarding school in Belgium. I was about 11. He gave me a glass of brandy, a cigar then he unzipped his pants and showed me his cock. He then masturbated while he fondled my ass (I had my clothes on). There was no other interaction. I don't know if this qualifies as 'sex' but I didn't forget it - and I am 58 now.

 

Doesn't sound consensual!

[+ Avalon]

I was 19, and it was with another shipmate. A lot of fun!

 

As it should be! Sex is suppose to be fun!

[marylander1940]

As it should be! Sex is suppose to be fun!

 

 

 

After that he spread the voice and I served the whole boat.

[+ Avalon]

After that he spread the voice and I served the whole boat.

 

 

Lucky Sea Dog ;-))))

[Stormy]

His name was Tommy. A beautiful curly haired blonde boy my freshman year in college. I was so ashamed of having gayvsex that I couldn't look at him the next day. He found someone else. I thought about him for years and found him on the AIDS quilt in the late 80s. I still think about him and glad he was my first man

[Rudynate]

How does one forget one of the most important events in one's life?

[Rudynate]

How does one forget one of the most important events in one's life?

 

My first sexual experience forever eroticized the scent of Tide laundry detergent for me. His clothes smelled like Tide, and I've been permanently imprinted to associate that smell with sex.

[+ quoththeraven]

I used to think sex (and semen) smelled a certain way but have since concluded my college boyfriend had unusually smelly laundry. Or maybe it was just his dirty socks.

[Rudynate]

I used to think sex (and semen) smelled a certain way but have since concluded my college boyfriend had unusually smelly laundry. Or maybe it was just his dirty socks.

 

That bleach-like odor is unmistakable. The smell of stale cum on somebody who beat off earlier in the day is also unmistakable.

[+ quoththeraven]

That bleach-like odor is unmistakable. The smell of stale cum on somebody who beat off earlier in the day is also unmistakable.

Maybe that was it!

 

It was also a room shared by two college-aged guys, so his roommate could have contributed to it as well.

[Bearofdistinction]

First time was when I was 7-8 with the neighbor boy rubbin weiners then eatin weiners and shoving crayons up each others buttholes -- started to produce cum around 11 -- had my first sex with adult men started when I was a Junior in High School with two sailors in a bookstore then their hotel - then with another of their friends at an adult cinema -- busy day!!!

[samhexum]

Do You Remember The First Time You Had Sex And With Whom?

 

I don't even remember which porn theater the toilet stall was in.

 

 

In the back of a friend's mom's car parked in their garage.

 

Well, that's better than In the back of a friend's mom parked in their garage.

[+ Gar1eth]

First time was when I was 7-8 ... shoving crayons up each others buttholes -- started to produce cum around 11 -- had my first sex

 

I was pretty nervous the first time I realized I was going to have to get a rectal exam when I was in my late 20's or early 30's-and not nervous in an excited way. I'm glad it went well for you. But I can't even imagine having wanted crayons inserted up my bum at the age of 7 or 8. And it still doesn't really sound like something I'd enjoy.

 

Gman

[Bearofdistinction]

u DID NOT PICK THE RIGHT COLORS!

[BabyBoomer]

u DID NOT PICK THE RIGHT COLORS!

 

My box of Crayola had 64 different colors.

 

~Boomer~

[+ Pensant]

I had sex with an 18 yo girl when I was 15. That same year I seduced the neighbor boy who was my age. He worked summers at his grandfather’s farm. When I saw him with his bronzed skin, bleached hair, faded Levi’s and those green rubber boots on, I resolved to have him, and I did, I have no doubt that Daniel has been married for years. He went to a Mennonite high school.

[+ Gar1eth]

First time was when I was 7-8 with the neighbor boy rubbin weiners then eatin weiners and shoving crayons up each others buttholes -- started to produce cum around 11 -- had my first sex with adult men started when I was a Junior in High School with two sailors in a bookstore then their hotel - then with another of their friends at an adult cinema -- busy day!!!

 

I was pretty nervous the first time I realized I was going to have to get a rectal exam when I was in my late 20's or early 30's-and not nervous in an excited way. I'm glad it went well for you. But I can't even imagine having wanted crayons inserted up my bum at the age of 7 or 8. And it still doesn't really sound like something I'd enjoy.

 

Gman

 

u DID NOT PICK THE RIGHT COLORS!

 

My box of Crayola had 64 different colors.

 

~Boomer~

 

My favorite color was always magenta. Is that a gay color? Does that make me gay?

 

Gman

[MDinNY]

19 years old... frat party. My roommate was drunk and fucked his girl. He told her to come fuck me. I was very nervous and came within 1 minute. Still waiting to have sex with a man. Mutual JO I imagine doesn’t count...