MDinNY

Ha. Yes.

I met him before his price went up. A very enjoyable experience.

Laid out my expectations. If he contacts me no payment and just for fun. If I contact I’ll schedule a massage. We met Friday night. Great massage. Fun after. Paid massage fee plus tip. Left happy. He messaged me to join him out for drinks. He paid. Went back to his place. He offered a massage. I was reluctant and he could tell. He said he enjoyed working on me. Ended up in his bed. This AM he asked for a “tip” as I walked out of the door. Just messaged him that we won’t be connecting again. Should’ve seen it coming. Thanks for the suggestions.

I agree there is nothing wrong with a for pay fuck buddy. I don’t think it’s a huge deal if we don’t connect again. That being said, the massage was really nice and I’d like that again so will try to clarify and set boundaries that when I reach out it’ll be for massage alone. Anything we do outside my scheduling a session is between two consenting adults and for our enjoyment. If he’s not on board with that no worries. I’ll have to move on.

I would probably phrase it differently - he’s getting something he wants that I had previously paid him for. I had a lot of fun hence my return visits. But I wouldn’t pay for fun alone - my focus was on the massage and the rest was good but not needed and not what I sought.

Hello. Want some feedback. I met a guy for a massage. Went very well and after the massage was completed, we played for almost an additional hour. I did not prompt that - the masseur invited me to his room and bed. He messaged me last week and asked to meet me this this past weekend for some fun - no discussion about massage. When I got there, he had his table out. Told me to get on. I told him I hadn’t planned to get a massage and that we probably have a misunderstanding. He told me it got him in the mood to massage me. We moved to the bed about 20 min later. At the end, as I was headed towards the door, he asked for his fee. I told him again I came per his request since we had fun recently but was not scheduling a massage. He was upset but said he would be clearer next time. He just messaged again and asked to meet. I asked if it was for fun or for a paid session. I told him I would reach out when I needed one. He then told me to come over for free. The massage was excellent but I now see him as too much drama. What would you do? Stay away? Or give him another shot? If so, as part of a session only or only for non paid fun?

Forgot to include his ad

strongtwohands on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

Any recent experience. I see his ad is expired but I met him years ago and would like a repeat.

Anyone see Colin recently?

This isn’t a new topic but have a consulting job that will put me there 2-3 days a week for a year. Historically, have been underwhelmed and my go to guy isn’t massaging much. Any recommendations for a quality deep tissue massage?

Los Angeles has a lot of options but my main guy if in town is Miles. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/17928/

Mmmmm wonder if he sleeps on the top bunk

My buddy does this when he’s contacted and he’s up for more play - “Great to hear from you. Been meaning to contact you. Finances tight but hopefully I can book in the next couple of months...” “…are you sure it’s ok if I only pay $**?” ”See you tonight”.

Great massage. He’s thorough. Covers entire body. His appendages, I mean hands are very large. Gets in very deep. Made me lose my breath more than once. Will repeat.