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big-n-tall Grand Master

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There is a huge middle ground between pretending that money isn't involved and treating a man you want to be intimate with as an employee or servant. And it's bullshit when someone (not you in particular) says something along the lines of, "I always treat a provider with respect, but I make it clear what he must do because I am paying." These guys aren't servants and we aren't that Dowager what's-her-name on Downton Abbey.

 

It seems clear why people like @big-n-tall and @Funguy report great friendly encounters only to be scoffed at by the cynics who think it's all faked. Those cynics probably are getting mechanical and wooden encounters because they are treating the provider like an employee. Who the hell likes their boss all the time?

 

I have very friendly and satisfying arrangements with several different providers. I don't know B&T or FG, but I bet we have similar attitudes when it comes to this pursuit. I am not buying or renting or hiring a sexual servant. It's an exchange. We both have something that will improve each other's lives. Yes, the thing I have is cash and the thing they have is desirability. Yes, they would not be spending time with me if I didn't have the cash, but I wouldn't be spending time with them if they weren't desirable. We're both bringing something to the table and both happier if neither is a jerk.

 

The cynics will poo poo this as being delusional and living in a fantasy world, but if they stopped acting like the cash they bring to the exchange makes them King, they might have better results and less reason to be so cynical.

 

I like the way you think sir. :)

 

-->TANGENT ALERT<--

Escorts are human beings. Although that is obvious, I'm always amazed how the client (no one in particular) sometimes treats the working guy as not human, but a piece of property or worse. Sometimes a dude just can't cum. :D

 

Anyway, I'm not saying I'm some kindly saint that every escort I've met "loves." I just always believe if you're kind to me, I'll be kind to you. If we click... and click well, the possibilities are numerous.

 

The results of which have lead to genuine relationships/friendships with some working guys, besides the explosive sex. Lol!!! I was recently on vacation and one of the escorts (on this forum) I've known for some time, volunteered to drive me from one location to another. It was almost a 2 hour drive each way. He did not want anything from me. Not money, not praise... not anything. All we did was talk about this and that... joking all the way. He did this knowing he had to get back to his home base for an appointment. (He made it back with a half hour to spare, btw. I would have felt horrible if he didn't). If that's not a friend for you, then what is? I love that dude. (He isn't the only one I have developed a deep affection for and been shown the same in kind.)

 

It's ok if people are cynical. Im not trying to change anyone. I also don't care if people believe what I put on this board or not. I (and the guys I see) know what I state is real. Just ask @tristanbaldwin for reference. :p To each his own... and all that good stuff. Its really simple. If you don't come to the table absolutely jaded and if you're good to people, whether you pay them or not, they tend to be good to you. Even more so, if you get to know them.

 

Thank god... Tangent over!!!! Sheesh!!!! :D

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A decade or more ago I arranged a multi hour session with a "top dollar" escort. It wasn't easy. He had a lengthy questionnaire that I guess sought to make sure the event would go well. His multi hour fee was near the top of prevailing rates but I agreed. Several days before the appointed mid morning date he sent an email explaining that if I expected him to cum there would be an additional $100 fee.

 

I immediately cancelled pointing out that a good part of the hiring goal was to create an illusion that I could be somewhat sexually alluring to him. That additional fee demand had destroyed my silly fantasy.

 

I saw recently that he's still escorting. I wonder if he still uses that questionnaire.

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Well, that's the most sensible answer I've heard in a while. Thank you for that. Kind of puts things into perspective.

I'm always honest... none of us have control over our abliity to cum every time we are with clients, or even by ourselves. There are kind of variable that play along with our day to day life. It should not be taken as a sign is displeasure from and escort or from a client if there is no orgasm. Yes, generally speaking it is the highlight of the evening. With that said, if both the escort and the client walk away happy with a nice smile. It was a great experience... that is my opinion.

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A decade or more ago I arranged a multi hour session with a "top dollar" escort. It wasn't easy. He had a lengthy questionnaire that I guess sought to make sure the event would go well. His multi hour fee was near the top of prevailing rates but I agreed. Several days before the appointed mid morning date he sent an email explaining that if I expected him to cum there would be an additional $100 fee.

 

I immediately cancelled pointing out that a good part of the hiring goal was to create an illusion that I could be somewhat sexually alluring to him. That additional fee demand had destroyed my silly fantasy.

 

I saw recently that he's still escorting. I wonder if he still uses that questionnaire.

Was that Ricardo Milos? His questionnaire is infamous.

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Funguy Grand Master

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I like the way you think sir. :)

 

-->TANGENT ALERT<--

Escorts are human beings. Although that is obvious, I'm always amazed how the client (no one in particular) sometimes treats the working guy as not human, but a piece of property or worse. Sometimes a dude just can't cum. :D

 

Anyway, I'm not saying I'm some kindly saint that every escort I've met "loves." I just always believe if you're kind to me, I'll be kind to you. If we click... and click well, the possibilities are numerous.

 

The results of which have lead to genuine relationships/friendships with some working guys, besides the explosive sex. Lol!!! I was recently on vacation and one of the escorts (on this forum) I've known for some time, volunteered to drive me from one location to another. It was almost a 2 hour drive each way. He did not want anything from me. Not money, not praise... not anything. All we did was talk about this and that... joking all the way. He did this knowing he had to get back to his home base for an appointment. (He made it back with a half hour to spare, btw. I would have felt horrible if he didn't). If that's not a friend for you, then what is? I love that dude. (He isn't the only one I have developed a deep affection for and been shown the same in kind.)

 

It's ok if people are cynical. Im not trying to change anyone. I also don't care if people believe what I put on this board or not. I (and the guys I see) know what I state is real. Just ask @tristanbaldwin for reference. :p To each his own... and all that good stuff. Its really simple. If you don't come to the table absolutely jaded and if you're good to people, whether you pay them or not, they tend to be good to you. Even more so, if you get to know them.

 

Thank god... Tangent over!!!! Sheesh!!!! :D

 

I'll just say what he said. And I won't even change any names!

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Rudynate Grand Master

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As an escort... sometime it happens sometimes not. ...In all honesty, just depends on the body . Wish there was a button on our bodies that said " Cum now " then we could push it on demand ..LOL

 

Some guys appear to have that ability. One guy came with me three times in the course of a two-hour appointment.

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I used to be able to cum 7-9 times a day every day. I miss that part of my 20s and 30s. I can still do 4-5 on good day here in my 40s, but I'm happy with 1-2 or so. It just depends on the day.

 

I'd imagine the pros only have so many loads in their gun too and like all things, it just depends. Are they feeling it? Into the person? I'd guess most always try to satisfy their clients but they're only human. :cool:

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JEC Grand Master

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I agree that providers are not and should not be treated like servants. And that there can be real chemistry that happens (magic!). At the same time I think it's reasonable to have agreed expectations met. I hired a guy recently (2 hours) and made it clear I am top and lkg for Bttm. He showed and said "I'm not clean" and ducked the whole thing. I wanted to shorten to an hour but was at a hotel and didn't want it to be a scene. Honestly, if you say your going to bttm "taking care of business " is, well, part of the transaction.

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I like the way you think sir. :)

 

-->TANGENT ALERT<--

Escorts are human beings. Although that is obvious, I'm always amazed how the client (no one in particular) sometimes treats the working guy as not human, but a piece of property or worse. Sometimes a dude just can't cum. :D

 

Anyway, I'm not saying I'm some kindly saint that every escort I've met "loves." I just always believe if you're kind to me, I'll be kind to you. If we click... and click well, the possibilities are numerous.

 

The results of which have lead to genuine relationships/friendships with some working guys, besides the explosive sex. Lol!!! I was recently on vacation and one of the escorts (on this forum) I've known for some time, volunteered to drive me from one location to another. It was almost a 2 hour drive each way. He did not want anything from me. Not money, not praise... not anything. All we did was talk about this and that... joking all the way. He did this knowing he had to get back to his home base for an appointment. (He made it back with a half hour to spare, btw. I would have felt horrible if he didn't). If that's not a friend for you, then what is? I love that dude. (He isn't the only one I have developed a deep affection for and been shown the same in kind.)

 

It's ok if people are cynical. Im not trying to change anyone. I also don't care if people believe what I put on this board or not. I (and the guys I see) know what I state is real. Just ask @tristanbaldwin for reference. :p To each his own... and all that good stuff. Its really simple. If you don't come to the table absolutely jaded and if you're good to people, whether you pay them or not, they tend to be good to you. Even more so, if you get to know them.

 

Thank god... Tangent over!!!! Sheesh!!!! :D

Echo your "tangent" - well put

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Rudynate Grand Master

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That must have been a great experience for the both of you.

 

I've gotten together with him several times. The 3- time afternoon was a day when he didnt have any other clients scheduled, so he didn't need to save himself.

 

We had an unusual rapport from our first date. He said, "We could be fuckbuddies." I assumed he was flattering me, but maybe not.

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