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I'm quite new to hiring an escort, so pardon my naiveté: is it reasonable to expect an escort to have an orgasm during my session? Is this something to request in advance? pay extra for? Please advise - this is pretty important to me if I'm going to satisfy my fantasies with an escort. Thanks!

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I've had escorts who said he's just done the leg training so he couldn't cum; there were people who said they thought someone from the building across were watching so they got cold feet. Normally I don't care if they cum or not, but as @Cliff said, the one I'd always be willing to be with is the one who always cums with me.

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I've had escorts who said he's just done the leg training so he couldn't cum; there were people who said they thought someone from the building across were watching so they got cold feet. Normally I don't care if they cum or not, but as @Cliff said, the one I'd always be willing to be with is the one who always cums with me.

What does the leg training mean?

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As an escort... sometime it happens sometimes not. ...In all honesty, just depends on the body . Wish there was a button on our bodies that said " Cum now " then we could push it on demand ..LOL

Well, that's the most sensible answer I've heard in a while. Thank you for that. Kind of puts things into perspective.

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Do you cum every time?

Not sure about the rest of you guys but I can only cum so many times in a day. They are working, there's only so much to go around. And of course, understandable if they wanted to save it for a loved one ... haha ;)

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I've seen that attitude expressed a few times in the last week, and it bothers me. Yeah, you're paying them, but "they're working for me" is a bit of a stretch. This isn't the guy fixing your sink, this is a more personal interaction.

 

I agree with you and was quoting another poster who said they might not cum because "they are working" --

 

Believe me I do NOT see or treat them as a piece of meat or a hot ass! I respect them as a person BUT I do establish up front that I want them to cum!!!!

 

also @P Gren

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Believe me I do NOT see or treat them as a piece of meat or a hot ass! I respect them as a person BUT I do establish up front that I want them to cum!!!!

 

Im the same way. To be honest I never actually though about someone NOT cumming. I'm very very new here so I've not experienced much but I'm glad i haven't had any issues with that.

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If they aren't working for the client would you specify for whom they are working? This isn't a money free transaction so they are working though people often want to pretend it's all real and money has nothing to do with it.

There is a huge middle ground between pretending that money isn't involved and treating a man you want to be intimate with as an employee or servant. And it's bullshit when someone (not you in particular) says something along the lines of, "I always treat a provider with respect, but I make it clear what he must do because I am paying." These guys aren't servants and we aren't that Dowager what's-her-name on Downton Abbey.

 

It seems clear why people like @big-n-tall and @Funguy report great friendly encounters only to be scoffed at by the cynics who think it's all faked. Those cynics probably are getting mechanical and wooden encounters because they are treating the provider like an employee. Who the hell likes their boss all the time?

 

I have very friendly and satisfying arrangements with several different providers. I don't know B&T or FG, but I bet we have similar attitudes when it comes to this pursuit. I am not buying or renting or hiring a sexual servant. It's an exchange. We both have something that will improve each other's lives. Yes, the thing I have is cash and the thing they have is desirability. Yes, they would not be spending time with me if I didn't have the cash, but I wouldn't be spending time with them if they weren't desirable. We're both bringing something to the table and both happier if neither is a jerk.

 

The cynics will poo poo this as being delusional and living in a fantasy world, but if they stopped acting like the cash they bring to the exchange makes them King, they might have better results and less reason to be so cynical.

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It seems clear why people like @big-n-tall and @Funguy report great friendly encounters only to be scoffed at by the cynics who think it's all faked. Those cynics probably are getting mechanical and wooden encounters because they are treating the provider like an employee. Who the hell likes their boss all the time?

 

I have very friendly and satisfying arrangements with several different providers. I don't know B&T or FG, but I bet we have similar attitudes when it comes to this pursuit. I am not buying or renting or hiring a sexual servant. It's an exchange. We both have something that will improve each other's lives. Yes, the thing I have is cash and the thing they have is desirability. Yes, they would not be spending time with me if I didn't have the cash, but I wouldn't be spending time with them if they weren't desirable. We're both bringing something to the table and both happier if neither is a jerk.

 

The cynics will poo poo this as being delusional and living in a fantasy world, but if they stopped acting like the cash they bring to the exchange makes them King, they might have better results and less reason to be so cynical.

 

In addition, I have been known to barter MY services for the ESCORT'S services and no cash at all is exchanged AND we both have a great time AND we go for a meal, too. All you cynics - put that in your pipe and smoke it. :D:)

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+10000.MickeyG

 

"Because I am paying....." .......has to be the one of the rudest and dehumanizing thing one can say to another. Do we say it to our housekeepers? How 'bout the plummer who comes after 9PM on a holiday. Do we say it to the minister who may be helping a couple with therapy, or to a surgeon going into surgery. (I can just see that...."sorry Mr. Jones', your insurance didn't pay QUITE enough for the good anesthesia, so we're just gonna bop you over the head with a bed pan.) You don't get to be the asshole just because you are the "buyer" and not the "seller" in the arrangement. Yes, sports fans, the money pays a big part. But if the client can never figure out how to be a friend and companion in these slider size relationships, then that client will spend his dating life posting threads about "Why I never see anyone more than once." :oops:o_O..........picking up my soapbox and goin home.

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