Escorts: Turn your fucking cell phone off

[RandyC]

I'm paying you hundreds of dollars an hour. You can put your cell phone away for two hours!

[AdamSmith]

I'm paying you hundreds of dollars an hour. You can put your cell phone away for two hours!

Better yet, put that escort away and find a better one.

[MGTOW_Tx]

DAMN RIGHT!!! The phone should be off and they should be making you a happy man! I would tell them that before you meet anyone from here on out. Though its a damn shame you have to even say that.

[+ overeasy]

Got the "I'm a busy man" comment during a recent hire with a cell-phone obsessed escort. He will be less busy in the future by one client.

[+ glennnn]

Unfortunately, this problem isn't limited to just escort-client interactions. I had lunch with an OLD, close friend recently. We hadn't seen each other for months, and I drove for two hours one-way to attend. She was constantly on the cell phone talking or checking messages. After the FIFTH time in about 20 minutes, I excused myself and got up left. Why is the person on the line always more important than the one you are with?

[marylander1940]

I'm paying you hundreds of dollars an hour. You can put your cell phone away for two hours!

 

Good one!

 

So many millennials specially texting while they're having an overnight/lunch with a client... and don't even get they're doing something wrong!

 

Better yet, put that escort away and find a better one.

 

He might keep running into the same problem with others. LOL

 

btw there was some talk on here months ago about a well-known escort who was having lunch with a client during their 24 hours appointment and after the client suggested he stopped texting... the escort simply ran way because the pressure from that client.

 

I see secret service agents texting while they're guarding the White House too. No wonder folks keep jumping the fence.

[RandyC]

What could have been a good experience I was likely to have repeated became a fair one that I would never repeat...

[+ sniper]

I think on an overnight some texting can be forgiven though it should be kept to a minimum. On an 8-12 hour gig it's an unreasonable expectation that they don't get a few minutes here and there to themselves. I mean labor laws require you to give workers a break if their shift is more than 5 hours...

[MGTOW_Tx]

Good one!

 

So many millennials specially texting while they're having an overnight/lunch with a client... and don't even get they're doing something wrong!

 

I get it, when I used to escort I would tell a client prior to meeting that I would require one or two hours a day depending on the length of course to answer e-mails and voice mail however most of the time i would only need less than hour and frankly only needed to make two phone calls that day (once in the AM and once in the PM) to check in for safety reasons....that's it.

 

What gets me is when i go to eat and i see everyone so into these phones and not even communicating....my god, my views are clear when im at the table the phones are off.

[MGTOW_Tx]

Unfortunately, this problem isn't limited to just escort-client interactions. I had lunch with an OLD, close friend recently. We hadn't seen each other for months, and I drove for two hours one-way to attend. She was constantly on the cell phone talking or checking messages. After the FIFTH time in about 20 minutes, I excused myself and got up left. Why is the person on the line always more important than the one you are with?

 

Spoken like a real man, kick ass love your actions!

[MGTOW_Tx]

I think on an overnight some texting can be forgiven though it should be kept to a minimum. On an 8-12 hour gig it's an unreasonable expectation that they don't get a few minutes here and there to themselves. I mean labor laws require you to give workers a break if their shift is more than 5 hours...

 

Amen I agree but this is business and things like that need to be hashed out prior and at the very lest straight away in the beginning of the overnight.

 

I am going to let you guys in on a memory here...not a good one were I fucked up and learned a good lesson.

 

I was on a weekend trip and at the time I had the Sidekick 2 as a phone and at the time I recently got into a serious relationship with one of my longest bfs and my first time having a bf while escorting...out of of both insecurity from him and me as well at the newness of the relationship, I would not stop texting him and my client sent me home early.

 

I was paid but I knew I fucked up and it wasn't the client it was me because i put someone else over his needs and wants and i took it as a learning lesson and never did that again and set boundaries for my then bf and any client from there on.

 

I am saying this because I dont escort anymore and frankly you wont see this honesty from current working boys it always consists of how there perfect as to not tarnish there holly image lol.

[actor61]

I have a friend who is so addicted to his cell phone that I won't go out to lunches or dinners with him anymore, and our friendship has greatly suffered. We were having lunch together once and his nose was buried in his phone. I had been telling him about a work experience and without changing my tone of voice or inflection, I said, "Oh my God, we just had a 10.5 earthquake and the roof is caving in on the restaurant." And he replied without looking up, "That's nice." I then got up, went to the bar, paid my half of the bill and went home. When he eventually called me, I explained that if he couldn't put his phone down for the 30 minutes we spent together from time to time, then I couldn't spend time with him very much anymore. This is the same man who sat next to me at a production of "King Lear" and texted his wife who was sitting with a friend 3 rows in front of us (we couldn't get 4 seats together). The woman behind us leaned forward and said to him, "If you don't put that fucking phone away right now, I'll bash you over the head." He gave her the finger. She gasped but didn't say anything. At intermission, she went after him with both barrels and I stood in the aisle for the second act because I was (a) embarrassed at what had transpired, and (b) wanted to watch the play uninterrupted. I love "King Lear".

[AdamSmith]

"If you don't put that fucking phone away right now, I'll bash you over the head."

LOVE IT! Many's the time we've all wanted to say that.

 

When I'm either working or with another person, which is to say most of my waking hours, the phone gets ignored. I always keep it on vibrate, can't stand that ringtone. If calls come in, they go to voicemail. Messages and emails come in and park themselves until I come to a break and find it convenient to check them. The phone is a tool, not a person or a vocation.

 

Cell phone addiction is apparently a real thing, say the reports. Looking around, it's not hard to believe that.

[MGTOW_Tx]

I have a friend who is so addicted to his cell phone that I won't go out to lunches or dinners with him anymore, and our friendship has greatly suffered. We were having lunch together once and his nose was buried in his phone. I had been telling him about a work experience and without changing my tone of voice or inflection, I said, "Oh my God, we just had a 10.5 earthquake and the roof is caving in on the restaurant." And he replied without looking up, "That's nice." I then got up, went to the bar, paid my half of the bill and went home. When he eventually called me, I explained that if he couldn't put his phone down for the 30 minutes we spent together from time to time, then I couldn't spend time with him very much anymore. This is the same man who sat next to me at a production of "King Lear" and texted his wife who was sitting with a friend 3 rows in front of us (we couldn't get 4 seats together). The woman behind us leaned forward and said to him, "If you don't put that fucking phone away right now, I'll bash you over the head." He gave her the finger. She gasped but didn't say anything. At intermission, she went after him with both barrels and I stood in the aisle for the second act because I was (a) embarrassed at what had transpired, and (b) wanted to watch the play uninterrupted. I love "King Lear".

 

I hear you on this loud and clear i tell my wife how sometimes i wish we could be older adults prior to use of cell phones because it has really gotten to a level i cant stand....I hate that were expected to be connected all the time whatever happened to distance makes the heart grow fonder?

 

I am sorry about your ex friend now acquaintance, I think many many people are addicted to the phone...plenty of study's on that alone.

[Mydavid]

I once went to an escort's place for a 2-hour session. After about an hour, his phone rang. I told him he could take it, but he said no, and he apologized for not muting the sound. A good experience.

[Wunder82]

I think on an overnight some texting can be forgiven though it should be kept to a minimum. On an 8-12 hour gig it's an unreasonable expectation that they don't get a few minutes here and there to themselves. I mean labor laws require you to give workers a break if their shift is more than 5 hours...

 

I recently had an overnight with an escort. It was the first time we met, things went very smoothly as we became accustomed to each other. During a long pause between "playtime", and we were chatting, he asked if it would be okay to text his sister (I cannot recall what it was about, but he did mention why - and it was legit) and would I mind if he read her reply when that time would come... I thought for a millennial, that was very good manners. And when her reply came a long while later, I didn't mind as he had already asked me. He also silenced the phone after that until the next morning. If our time together was an hour or two; 1) I would not have said okay, nor 2) I seriously doubt he would have asked in the first place. This guy is a keeper!

[+ purplekow]

Got the "I'm a busy man" comment during a recent hire with a cell-phone obsessed escort. He will be less busy in the future by one client.

 

 

Firmly and unapologetically:

"I am not paying you to be busy; I am paying you to get busy. So get busy."

[Courage]

Now that you mention it, the few guys I've hired have had the telltale sounds of a text/other message. With the first I thought it might be a way of keeping time without the dreaded "clock-watching." To their credit they didn't pick up.

 

I think the word "addiction" someone used is about right. Phones have become both a sort of mental dependency and a way of dulling the intensity of personal involvement--including simple uninterrupted conversation, engagement with a performance,....or sucking on a cock

[MartyB]

Escorts do your texting and messaging before I get there. Real simple. Plus don't book the next guy 10 minutes after I'm done. Common etiquette is appreciated

[dcguy20]

In October, I had one guy that I had seen several times proceed to have a conversation with someone in the middle of my massage. I saw red, and quickly showed him the door. The look on his face was one of shock. He followed up with an apologetic text message a couple of hours later. He still texts me from time to time, but I have not seen him since.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I think it is generational, guys. If you are not teaching or working with young people you may not noticed, but smart phones have become an extremely strong addiction. I am not making an analogy, young people are literally addicted to their phones, we better get used to it.

[Courage]

I think it is generational, guys. [sNIP] we better get used to it.

 

If they wouldn't use them while driving, I'd be okay.

[+ José Soplanucas]

If they wouldn't use them while driving, I'd be okay.

 

Aaaarrrrgghhhh, I hate it when somebody is driving while on the phone. I hate it that I have to be struggling with this issue in the classroom. I hate it when I am walking and some idiot bump on me because s/he is testing. The list is endless. What I meant with my previous post is we must choose our battles, I don't think we can win this one, we better make an effort to accept this new reality or otherwise live tasting the bitter flavor of permanent frustration.

[Juan Vancouver]

If someone told me:

 

Turn your fucking phone off. I'm paying you hundreds of dollars an hour. You can put your cell phone away for two hours!

 

I would thank him for his time and would walk away. You can keep your hundreds of dollars, thank you.

 

Respect goes both ways. Yes, I'd be more than happy to turn off my phone if for some reason I forgot to do it before the session, but anyone I spend time with has to talk to me politely, on the understanding that we are both two adults consensually enjoying one another.

 

My guess is that if you have no qualms about making a post in here using such language, your manners in person may bleed out the contempt you appear to feel towards escorts.

 

I feel for you, having had his phone ringing during your session. I feel for him for having experienced your contempt.

 

Ladies and gentlemen, today, nobody wins.

[MikeBiDude]

If someone told me:

 

 

 

I would thank him for his time and would walk away. You can keep your hundreds of dollars, thank you.

 

Respect goes both ways. Yes, I'd be more than happy to turn off my phone if for some reason I forgot to do it before the session, but anyone I spend time with has to talk to me politely, on the understanding that we are both two adults consensually enjoying one another.

 

My guess is that if you have no qualms about making a post in here using such language, your manners in person may bleed out the contempt you appear to feel towards escorts.

 

I feel for you, having had his phone ringing during your session. I feel for him for having experienced your contempt.

 

Ladies and gentlemen, today, nobody wins.

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