Escorts: Turn your fucking cell phone off

[jawjateck]

if you wanted a gentleman who is a man then you would come to me.

 

And how would I go about arranging such a meeting?

[down_to_business]

I'm curious, am I the only one who thinks that a meeting with Juan would be uplifting but one with MGTOW_Tx would be challenging?...

 

Yes, you are the only one

[jawjateck]

Yes, you are the only one

 

Lawd lawd....yall still crack me up!

[LookingAround]

Worse I bet you the type who cant even be wrong but if you reread your comment before you do in fact sound a bit like an apologist...(you are defending the holder of the cell yet attack the poster for using a curse word)....I got a word for you, damn diva.

I'm curious, am I the only one who thinks that a meeting with Juan would be uplifting but one with MGTOW_Tx would be challenging? Don't get me wrong, I have enjoyed reading both of their comments in here.

i like Juan but he does sound a bit "holier than thou" I must admit. I was put off by his tone.

[mike carey]

I don't mind that Juan often refers back to himself. He is only drawing from his own personal and vast experience. He is using what he knows to respond to posts.

i like Juan but he does sound a bit "holier than thou" I must admit. I was put off by his tone.

Some time ago, I had a conversation with Juan where he, basically, told me to man up and tackle another poster who was upsetting me (and others). He was right, although he misunderstood the issue I had. I don't think he is 'holier than thou', I just think he has wide experience in this field. I look forward to reading Juan's opinions on anything that is posted in here.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Some time ago, I had a conversation with Juan where he, basically, told me to man up and tackle another poster who was upsetting me (and others). He was right, although he misunderstood the issue I had. I don't think he is 'holier than thou', I just think he has wide experience in this field. I look forward to reading Juan's opinions on anything that is posted in here.

 

Juan is great, if you do not appreciate his wisdom you are missing something. Besides that, do not forget he is a professional selling and protecting his brand.

[LookingAround]

Juan is great, if you do not appreciate his wisdom you are missing something. Besides that, do not forget he is a professional selling and protecting his brand.

Selling. Not sure how protecting he is being.

[MassageDrew]

I guess I've been fortunate enough to not have experienced this. It is rude for escorts/masseurs to be in a business where your attention is a must and you cannot even turn off your cell phone.

[MGTOW_Tx]

Juan is great, if you do not appreciate his wisdom you are missing something. Besides that, do not forget he is a professional selling and protecting his brand.

 

I dont agree im missing something, I do agree he is selling something and thats what everyone who reads him should keep in mind.

[Epigonos]

Now I’m going to give an example of my being so broad mined my brains might be falling out. Over my many years of hiring escort I have come to understand that we are NOT all looking for the same qualities in the escorts we hire. Some may be looking for wisdom, although I will readily admit that I don’t have a clue what wisdom in an escort means. Additionally what some see as wisdom others see as pious, condescending pontificating. I, for example, look for a hot, participatory guy who is lots of fun both in bed and across a dinner table. If I am looking for wisdom I will peruse the great philosophers of history.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I hear you but i dont agree im missing something.

 

He is a very educated man with many years of successful experience escorting. He has a lot of knowledge. If a circumstantial disagreement or if disliking his personality are an obstacle for you to take advantage of his knowledge and experience, you would be missing it.

You confronted me in other thread because of my tendency to think that I am always right. You challenged me to be more open minded and consider others' points of view. I think it is time to model what you want to see in others.

[MGTOW_Tx]

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Now I’m going to give an example of my being so broad mined my brains might be falling out. Over my many years of hiring escort I have come to understand that we are NOT all looking for the same qualities in the escorts we hire. Some may be looking for wisdom, although I will readily admit that I don’t have a clue what wisdom in an escort means. Additionally what some see as wisdom others see as pious, condescending pontificating. I, for example, look for a hot, participatory guy who is lots of fun both in bed and across a dinner table. If I am looking for wisdom I will peruse the great philosophers of history.

 

You sir are a wise man!

[MGTOW_Tx]

He is a very educated man with many years of successful experience escorting. He has a lot of knowledge. If a circumstantial disagreement or if disliking his personality are an obstacle for you to take advantage of his knowledge and experience, you would be missing it.

You confronted me in other thread because of my tendency to think that I am always right. You challenged me to be more open minded and consider others' points of view. I think it is time to model what you want to see in others.

 

I agree and im open to his thoughts but let me clarify there is a difference between knowledge and wisdom...that said it would be easier to swallow the knowledge he would pass on if it were not served up in a air of him being without error.

[sincitymix]

I agree and im open to his thoughts but let me clarify there is a difference between knowledge and wisdom...that said it would be easier to swallow the knowledge he would pass on if it were not served up in a air of him being without error.

Hmmm a friend who has a photographic memory with perfect recall once told me.. It is a fine thing to have the knowledge, but if one does not have the means to comprehend the knowledge, then the knowledge is wasted.

[LADoug1]

Funny being a grown man you would think there would be other things to draw on at this point

 

Of course there are. But very often it is presumptuous to do so.

[LADoug1]

I dont agree im missing something, I do agree he is selling something and thats what everyone who reads him should keep in mind.

 

He is selling his time. He is proffering his experience and and wisdom.

[Good Grief]

I don't mind that Juan often refers back to himself. He is only drawing from his own personal and vast experience. He is using what he knows to respond to posts.

 

Vast and many years' worth. Perhaps too many...more than are admitted.

[Juan Vancouver]

Dear all,

 

I am very grateful for the amazing times I have spent in this forum. I have learned a lot, have come in touch with many interesting, sweet, wonderful people and I have learned a lot about myself. Since Hooboy, at different times. the trolls made it really hard to come here and continue enjoying but there was always content of high level, interesting, intimate, personal. Many have come here to ask for guidance in their new journeys, many have received it and it was been incredibly sweet to witness that.

 

Lately, however, I have found that the tone of the discourse here is becoming increasingly lower every day.. Perhaps Trump is not an aberration but a precise gauge of the style of miscommunication and disinformation pervasive in this culture. People demand respect for ALL opinions, even racism and misogyny, people dismiss anything as pompous if someone uses a word over two syllables, people believe that name-calling or group bullying is a valid form of communication, people seem threatened by any form of intelligence or humanity.

 

Even though there are some kind posters who celebrate the humanity of the men they hire, most seem intent on keeping the whores quiet, subservient, obedient, cheap and on their place. Any opinion from an escort that doesn't look like "Well, I focus on my clients' absolute satisfaction so I always ...." is met with rancor and scorn by the bully cabal. Any attempt of treating an escorting session as a human interaction as opposed to a purchase of goods is met with hostility and resentment.

 

If you are one of the ones who come here to read looking for ways to improve your intimate and sexual life, I urge to not pay attention to the loudest of our members. Not all whores are money grabbing robots, not all clients are demeaning assholes. There's a host of really wonderful people in this profession because they have a calling that makes them want to help others experience intimacy and sexuality in a safe, loving, caring environment. There are tons of amazing clients, sweet, kind and gratefully willing to accept a pleasurable interaction with you.

 

Don't be dismayed. The world of escorting is not necessarily represented faithfully by the discourse here.

 

The trolls may celebrate. Life is so terribly short and so precious that it makes absolutely no sense to come here to constantly fend off childish attacks and hyena pack cowardly bullying. I guess I should spend more time at places where kindness, politeness, respectful communication and the exchange of important ideas is welcome. No need to continue making people uncomfortable with such liberal agenda.

 

I may still read posts every now and then. I just know in my heart posting like this has outlived itself.

 

Sending big hugs to all of you with whom I ever had a beautiful interaction. You have made my time here worth it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

 

May you all live happy, healthy, fulfilled lives.

[N13]

Juan,

So sorry you were made to feel the necessity of writing this. Unfortunately, I don't find anything you wrote to disagree with. Hope you stay around.

[LookingAround]

Dear all,

 

I am very grateful for the amazing times I have spent in this forum. I have learned a lot, have come in touch with many interesting, sweet, wonderful people and I have learned a lot about myself. Since Hooboy, at different times. the trolls made it really hard to come here and continue enjoying but there was always content of high level, interesting, intimate, personal. Many have come here to ask for guidance in their new journeys, many have received it and it was been incredibly sweet to witness that.

 

Lately, however, I have found that the tone of the discourse here is becoming increasingly lower every day.. Perhaps Trump is not an aberration but a precise gauge of the style of miscommunication and disinformation pervasive in this culture. People demand respect for ALL opinions, even racism and misogyny, people dismiss anything as pompous if someone uses a word over two syllables, people believe that name-calling or group bullying is a valid form of communication, people seem threatened by any form of intelligence or humanity.

 

Even though there are some kind posters who celebrate the humanity of the men they hire, most seem intent on keeping the whores quiet, subservient, obedient, cheap and on their place. Any opinion from an escort that doesn't look like "Well, I focus on my clients' absolute satisfaction so I always ...." is met with rancor and scorn by the bully cabal. Any attempt of treating an escorting session as a human interaction as opposed to a purchase of goods is met with hostility and resentment.

 

If you are one of the ones who come here to read looking for ways to improve your intimate and sexual life, I urge to not pay attention to the loudest of our members. Not all whores are money grabbing robots, not all clients are demeaning assholes. There's a host of really wonderful people in this profession because they have a calling that makes them want to help others experience intimacy and sexuality in a safe, loving, caring environment. There are tons of amazing clients, sweet, kind and gratefully willing to accept a pleasurable interaction with you.

 

Don't be dismayed. The world of escorting is not necessarily represented faithfully by the discourse here.

 

The trolls may celebrate. Life is so terribly short and so precious that it makes absolutely no sense to come here to constantly fend off childish attacks and hyena pack cowardly bullying. I guess I should spend more time at places where kindness, politeness, respectful communication and the exchange of important ideas is welcome. No need to continue making people uncomfortable with such liberal agenda.

 

I may still read posts every now and then. I just know in my heart posting like this has outlived itself.

 

Sending big hugs to all of you with whom I ever had a beautiful interaction. You have made my time here worth it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

 

May you all live happy, healthy, fulfilled lives.

It's been real. Maybe you'll come off the cross one day to say hi again. Bye Felicia.

[mike carey]

Juan, I'm so disappointed that you have felt the need to cease commenting in the forum. I agree the level of snark and disrespect had risen. I don't like it, but little (not none) of it has been directed at me. Sadly, some of the things of which you wrote have already been repeated. I have valued your insightful comments on so many issues and will miss them greatly, but understand that it may no longer be worth the aggravation.

 

Big hugs.

[LADoug1]

Juan,

 

I for one will greatly miss your participation and fabulous insightful contributions. I hope that you reconsider your decision and not let rude and unappreciative members drive you away. I imagine you're hurt and I feel for you. Either way I wish you well and send support and solace.

[bigvalboy]

Dear all,

 

I am very grateful for the amazing times I have spent in this forum. I have learned a lot, have come in touch with many interesting, sweet, wonderful people and I have learned a lot about myself. Since Hooboy, at different times. the trolls made it really hard to come here and continue enjoying but there was always content of high level, interesting, intimate, personal. Many have come here to ask for guidance in their new journeys, many have received it and it was been incredibly sweet to witness that.

 

Lately, however, I have found that the tone of the discourse here is becoming increasingly lower every day.. Perhaps Trump is not an aberration but a precise gauge of the style of miscommunication and disinformation pervasive in this culture. People demand respect for ALL opinions, even racism and misogyny, people dismiss anything as pompous if someone uses a word over two syllables, people believe that name-calling or group bullying is a valid form of communication, people seem threatened by any form of intelligence or humanity.

 

Even though there are some kind posters who celebrate the humanity of the men they hire, most seem intent on keeping the whores quiet, subservient, obedient, cheap and on their place. Any opinion from an escort that doesn't look like "Well, I focus on my clients' absolute satisfaction so I always ...." is met with rancor and scorn by the bully cabal. Any attempt of treating an escorting session as a human interaction as opposed to a purchase of goods is met with hostility and resentment.

 

If you are one of the ones who come here to read looking for ways to improve your intimate and sexual life, I urge to not pay attention to the loudest of our members. Not all whores are money grabbing robots, not all clients are demeaning assholes. There's a host of really wonderful people in this profession because they have a calling that makes them want to help others experience intimacy and sexuality in a safe, loving, caring environment. There are tons of amazing clients, sweet, kind and gratefully willing to accept a pleasurable interaction with you.

 

Don't be dismayed. The world of escorting is not necessarily represented faithfully by the discourse here.

 

The trolls may celebrate. Life is so terribly short and so precious that it makes absolutely no sense to come here to constantly fend off childish attacks and hyena pack cowardly bullying. I guess I should spend more time at places where kindness, politeness, respectful communication and the exchange of important ideas is welcome. No need to continue making people uncomfortable with such liberal agenda.

 

I may still read posts every now and then. I just know in my heart posting like this has outlived itself.

 

Sending big hugs to all of you with whom I ever had a beautiful interaction. You have made my time here worth it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

 

May you all live happy, healthy, fulfilled lives.

 

Juan, I for one have disagreed with you more often than not, but as you have said, that isn't the point. It's the troll behavior, the level of discourse, the deterioration of politeness, respectful communication that is so disheartening. I have been as guilty as anyone for allowing myself to type a series of un-pleasantries over the years, something that I regret. Throwing out vitriolic comments hiding anonymously behind a keyboard is far easier than saying it to someone's face. This thread is a prime example.

 

I stand with those that wish you well, and I hope that you would pop in from time to time.

 

All the best...

[corymonroe]

Dear Juan,

 

You have a lot to say and you say it with heart and intelligence. I don't know the numbers, but I suspect you have more reader fans than you realize. Please don't let the antagonists win.

[mike carey]

[Perhaps the time approaches for another visit to Vancouver.]