Has this ever happened to you....

[Chgo28bttm]

So I met up with a new guy last week and had the most amazing time

So much that 2 days later I decided to hire him again

He charged the normal rate everyone does @ $250 but the second time we met he told me he felt guilty with that number because he enjoyed it as much as I did and said to only give him $100 this time

I literally almost fell on the floor

He then proceeded to tell me how he hopes he can see me again next week as it was so good

He's also messaging me asking me when we can meet up again

 

Now I know it's a thing for escorts to say stuff like this but I'm kinda take back with him dropping his rate.

 

Anyone have the same expierience ever?

[MikeBiDude]

So I met up with a new guy last week and had the most amazing time

So much that 2 days later I decided to hire him again

He charged the normal rate everyone does @ $250 but the second time we met he told me he felt guilty with that number because he enjoyed it as much as I did and said to only give him $100 this time

I literally almost fell on the floor

He then proceeded to tell me how he hopes he can see me again next week as it was so good

He's also messaging me asking me when we can meet up again

 

Now I know it's a thing for escorts to say stuff like this but I'm kinda take back with him dropping his rate.

 

Anyone have the same expierience ever?

Yes

[instudiocity]

Sounds like he's working himself to a Friends with Benefits situation.

 

Never fall in love with an escort. NEVER.

 

Keep paying him the $250 no matter what until he comes to you and suggests a non-commercial relationship.

[Chgo28bttm]

Sounds like he's working himself to a Friends with Benefits situation.

 

Never fall in love with an escort. NEVER.

 

Keep paying him the $250 no matter what until he comes to you and suggests a non-commercial relationship.

 

I guess I should have clarified

I insisted he take the 250 and he said ok this time

I would never fall for an escort I know where the lines are

I was just shocked because this had never happened to me before

[+ azdr0710]

"he enjoyed it as much as I did"

 

"he hopes he can see me again next week as it was so good"

 

"asking me when we can meet up again"

 

 

sooooooo, @Chgo28bttm .....tell us a little about yourself!

[+ glutes]

[marylander1940]

"he enjoyed it as much as I did"

 

"he hopes he can see me again next week as it was so good"

 

"asking me when we can meet up again"

 

 

sooooooo, @Chgo28bttm .....tell us a little about yourself!

 

 

You've read my mind one more time...

 

Maybe you @Chgo28bttm should consider escorting too?

[+ Keith30309]

So I met up with a new guy last week and had the most amazing time

So much that 2 days later I decided to hire him again

He charged the normal rate everyone does @ $250 but the second time we met he told me he felt guilty with that number because he enjoyed it as much as I did and said to only give him $100 this time

I literally almost fell on the floor

He then proceeded to tell me how he hopes he can see me again next week as it was so good

He's also messaging me asking me when we can meet up again

 

Now I know it's a thing for escorts to say stuff like this but I'm kinda take back with him dropping his rate.

 

Anyone have the same expierience ever?

I've had 2 SA guys refuse money but never an escort.

[MikeyGMin]

So I met up with a new guy last week and had the most amazing time

So much that 2 days later I decided to hire him again

He charged the normal rate everyone does @ $250 but the second time we met he told me he felt guilty with that number because he enjoyed it as much as I did and said to only give him $100 this time

I literally almost fell on the floor

He then proceeded to tell me how he hopes he can see me again next week as it was so good

He's also messaging me asking me when we can meet up again

 

Now I know it's a thing for escorts to say stuff like this but I'm kinda take back with him dropping his rate.

 

Anyone have the same expierience ever?

You braggin or complainin?

 

No. I have been given a lot of extra time because of my charming personality <grin> but never a discount because of my hotness.

 

Take him up on the offer and see how it goes. What do you have to lose? At that rate you can see him every week and it could be a win-win.

[MileHigh]

Who is he??? I want in!!! Hahaha

[+ azdr0710]

exceedingly well-regarded escort handed a bunch of money back to me at the end.....we hadn't really discussed a rate beforehand and I tried to guess.....we still don't talk money and I still struggle

[AdamSmith]

You braggin or complainin?

 

No. I have been given a lot of extra time because of my charming personality <grin> but never a discount because of my hotness.

 

Take him up on the offer and see how it goes. What do you have to lose? At that rate you can see him every week and it could be a win-win.

http://sarahbowling.me/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/yes.jpg

[jawjateck]

I love discounts and/or comped sessions. They are real phenomena.

[rocksinurhead]

i've had many overnights for much less than the advertised rate. when i first started hiring in my mid 20s i got lots of discounts and other offers even for shorter meetings. i do try to stick to proper compensation for the most part though.

[Good Grief]

I engage a RM who advertised $400 an hour (his ad is no longer active.)

 

THOUGH, I always hire him for multiple overnights. His previously advertised overnight rate was $1,500 . Our overnights are 24 +/- hours - our agreement based on promised multiple nights.

 

I'm getting a bargain and a damn load (multiple) of fun! He gets a nice check and tip.

 

Working for he and I.

 

I posted the above in another thread. Most guys (and maybe my go-to) who quote an overnight rate would NEVER let it be for more than 8 (at most) hours. Guess if you agree to multiple overnights the rate smooths out. My experience.

[AdamSmith]

Let me offer a Radical Proposition:

 

A. Working guys are Human Beings.

B. They enjoy their work, and are not Repulsed By It. Nor By Us.

C. They are Self-Employed, so can Change the Terms of Contract -- fairly radically -- as their experience of, and instinct about, the particular client give them the trusted intuitive notion to do so.

 

That's exactly how I run my one-man tech consulting biz.

 

You all overthink things!

 

Or are deeply neurotic. Instead of some poor escort, visit your problems on a shrink!

[down_to_business]

It happened once. He dropped his rate to 0 for me. I was skeptical and shocked at the same time. While I still paid completely for his travel expenses, I did take him up on his generous offer. We did become friends for a while but our geographical differences were too great to overcome (Texas and Toronto). He never fell for me or anything like that, and vice versa. Now the first time this happened, I did decide to take him shopping and bought him clothing etc. to take back home with him probably in a similar amount to his fee... but I wasn't forced into doing this. I also flew him out once more at my expense for a weekend of sight-seeing and fun before we lost touch. This time there was no even pretense of escort/client relationship, it was just as friends (although I did pay for everything we did that had a fee outside of the bedroom i.e. meals, entertainment).

[+ purplekow]

Well, if he is walking into a fleabag motel than you have to credit your hotness. If he walked into a 24 room mansion, well then you have to credit his ingenuity.

[+ WmClarke]

I posted the above in another thread. Most guys (and maybe my go-to) who quote an overnight rate would NEVER let it be for more than 8 (at most) hours. Guess if you agree to multiple overnights the rate smooths out. My experience.

Never more than 8 hours for an overnight? My shortest has been 13 hours. But sometimes that does include sleep.

[Good Grief]

Never more than 8 hours for an overnight? My shortest has been 13 hours. But sometimes that does include sleep.

 

Gotcha. Thanks. Mine have never been less than 24 hrs.

 

I was just indicating what I'd seen on other ads. Pardon.

[MartyB]

I am currently seeing an escort exclusively and my rate has been reduced and at times we've gone our to eat and met just for a drink k or cup of coffee. It's a very great situation. The sex is as good as it gets and we have a nice chemistry. I know the boundaries and I there have been a freebie thrown in. But I always offer the rate agreed.

[Chgo28bttm]

So he's been messaging me all night tonight asking when he can see me again and he thought more about it and doesn't think he should charge me at all. So now I'm freaked out a bit. The tone on the messages almost seems like he may have some feelings for me which sucks cause I think I can say it was the best sex I've ever had and now I'm scared to see him again.

[caliguy]

So he's been messaging me all night tonight asking when he can see me again and he thought more about it and doesn't think he should charge me at all. So now I'm freaked out a bit. The tone on the messages almost seems like he may have some feelings for me which sucks cause I think I can say it was the best sex I've ever had and now I'm scared to see him again.

Wow. You must be really amazing.

[Nvr2Thick]

So he's been messaging me all night tonight asking when he can see me again and he thought more about it and doesn't think he should charge me at all. So now I'm freaked out a bit. The tone on the messages almost seems like he may have some feelings for me which sucks cause I think I can say it was the best sex I've ever had and now I'm scared to see him again.

 

It's easy to speculate without having the ability to size up the details and nuances of your situation with this escort. I had met an escort who really seemed to enjoy post-session conversation with me, when he would ask about my life and the decisions I was making. He was physically very mature and dominant in bed, but as I peeled back the layers it became clear that he was needy and that he was frustrated that he couldn't put his life together. He seemed to like being around me because I had confidence in my career. I loved being around this guy because I thought he was such a stud, and way out of my league. I'd feel like I was wasting his time hanging out after his sessions, but he either imply he wanted me to hang out and talk or he'd outright ask me to. He was very much down on himself about his succession of retail and barback gigs, his flighty superficial friends, his inability to stick with his education, and where this escorting thing was going. As I talked to him I tried to use my experience to downplay the perceived negatives in his life, and to align the positives into productive next steps. This guy didn't offer discounts, and things kind of fell apart when he'd ask me to come over and hang out but I was paying him for a session as part of that invitation. Also, I liked to play the field, and he was more fun as a take-charge top when I didn't know his personal demons.

 

You may fill a need that goes unfulfilled in this escort's life; a relationship of some sort that he doesn't get from friends and family.

[MscleLovr]

"You may fill a need that goes unfulfilled in this escort's life; a relationship of some sort that he doesn't get from friends and family"

 

Wise words. I had the same experience with an escort who became my boyfriend for a few years.