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down_to_business Mentor

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I am so confused. Why are you scared to ever see him again? The best sex you ever had? He may have feelings for you?

 

Don't let us define the relationship for you! Do you for absolute certainty not and can not have any feelings for him? What the heck do you have to lose by meeting him again and exploring the possibilities? At the very least, you can have one last night of amazing best sex you ever had. Maybe you can actually talk and define the relationship (friends, fuck buddies, escort/client, whatever the fuck it is... together) and make some real sense of it all?

 

Good luck!

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sexymonk Mentor

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So he's been messaging me all night tonight asking when he can see me again and he thought more about it and doesn't think he should charge me at all. So now I'm freaked out a bit. The tone on the messages almost seems like he may have some feelings for me which sucks cause I think I can say it was the best sex I've ever had and now I'm scared to see him again.

Is this guy young, in his teens or early twenties? Just started escorting?

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So he's been messaging me all night tonight asking when he can see me again and he thought more about it and doesn't think he should charge me at all. So now I'm freaked out a bit. The tone on the messages almost seems like he may have some feelings for me which sucks cause I think I can say it was the best sex I've ever had and now I'm scared to see him again.

Can you share the escorts profile?

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Yes DEETS would help, ie is the SCORT gay or G4P?? Did he come to YOUR place?? Does he know YOUR deets ie what you do for a living etc?? W/O being specific, HOW many years age diff between you and him and are you in decent shape etc?? (like if he's Zac Efron are you A. Cooper or Michael Douglas lol?) Without you sharing more the motives here could run the gamut from building a steady clientelle to genuine feelings to needs a place to live and gas money.

*MY only exp was a very famous (now lil down on his luck) G4P porn star/scort VERY sweet and GOD LIKE in appearance but lil bit of a mess, baby mama etc etal. Said he wanted to be my "Boyfriend". (NO brainer to translate that to - wants to live in my apt lol) I said I was flattered but wasn't looking for anything steady.

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LADoug1 Mentor

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Let me offer a Radical Proposition:

 

A. Working guys are Human Beings.

B. They enjoy their work, and are not Repulsed By It. Nor By Us.

C. They are Self-Employed, so can Change the Terms of Contract -- fairly radically -- as their experience of, and instinct about, the particular client give them the trusted intuitive notion to do so.

 

That's exactly how I run my one-man tech consulting biz.

 

You all overthink things!

 

Or are deeply neurotic. Instead of some poor escort, visit your problems on a shrink!

 

Harsh.

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So he's been messaging me all night tonight asking when he can see me again and he thought more about it and doesn't think he should charge me at all. So now I'm freaked out a bit. The tone on the messages almost seems like he may have some feelings for me which sucks cause I think I can say it was the best sex I've ever had and now I'm scared to see him again.

 

You should be.

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sexymonk Mentor

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good point, but the real issue is how incredibly handsome and young @Chgo28bttm must be for someone who hires escorts, unless of course this was his very first time...

As I understand that the person started escorting due to financial need and that is why he chose rentmen. If he were to search for friend or ltr then he would have used tinder/ Grindr/ gay bar/ gay club/ gay gym/ Craigslist ! I don't know but the way chbttm mentioned things, rings bell in my ears !

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As I understand that the person started escorting due to financial need and that is why he chose rentmen. If he were to search for friend or ltr then he would have used tinder/ Grindr/ gay bar/ gay club/ gay gym/ Craigslist ! I don't know but the wY chbttm mentioned things, rings bell in my ears !

 

We agree, but let me tell you some folks on here search for escorts on Grindr too, even some escorts look for clients on hookup apps.

 

After 5 years in this forum so many things ring my bells, I don't know what to believe or not.

 

http://img2.thejournal.ie/inline/2205481/original/?width=488&version=2205481

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instudiocity Mentor

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We agree, but let me tell you some folks on here search for escorts on Grindr too, even some escorts look for clients on hookup apps.

 

After 5 years in this forum so many things ring my bells, I don't know what to believe or not.

 

http://img2.thejournal.ie/inline/2205481/original/?width=488&version=2205481

Damn, you even look like her in my imagination!

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He charged the normal rate everyone does @ $250 but the second time we met he told me he felt guilty with that number because he enjoyed it as much as I did and said to only give him $100 this time

I literally almost fell on the floor

He then proceeded to tell me how he hopes he can see me again next week as it was so good

He's also messaging me asking me when we can meet up again

 

Now I know it's a thing for escorts to say stuff like this but I'm kinda take back with him dropping his rate.

 

Anyone have the same expierience ever?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Get it while Its Hot girl

 

 

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SIDENOTE: I usually lower my rate when I like a client. I am a firm believer that you either click with someone or you dont. Its hard to BS this. Sure there may be a sexual attraction but CLICKING is amazing when it happens. It has alot to do with someones character and personality for me. Remember boys to treat an escort with respect, How you'd like to be treated and not just a piece of (sexy) ass. You'd be surprised how some of us go out of our way to take care of those we like.

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Why don't you decide what you want.

1.Do you want a very clear boundary sex for pay only situation?

2. Are you interested in just a fwb guy?

3, Do you think you might want to date him?

4. Are you too weirded out and never want to see him?

 

To me, I'd decide what I wanted, then I'd directly tell him:

1. Hey, I really want to keep it clean and professional, so I'd prefer to pay your full rate and will be in touch the next time the mood strikes.

2. Hey, I had a great time... but I'm just looking for someone to fuck around with - are you cool with a fwb situation? I don't want to be disrespectful but since you're suggesting it...

3, Hey, we had a great time - if I'm picking up the vibe, would you want to go on a date sometime, off the clock?

4. I had a great time, man, but I was really only looking for a one-time thing. Best wishes!

 

Clear expectations, you take control and ask directly.

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